Letters for January  2000

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Dear Wankers Over 50,
I have just discovered Wankers Over 50. I have just got connection to the Internet. What a wonderful site. I am a man aged 55 and I have been wanking for nearly 50 years. What a joy it is to know there are other men who are the same as me. None of my friends ever admit to wanking. Until just finding your site I thought nobody was interested in wanking. I have all my life always wanked at least once every day. When I have leisure time I like to wank continually for hours on end. By my early 20s I could cum as many times a day as I wanted. By my mid 20s I was practised enough to have continual climax for as long as I wanted without cumming. The physical pleasure I get from very prolonged wanking is extremely intense.
The physical pleasure I get from a long delayed cum is even more intense. I always guiltily thought I was wanking far too much. The results of my wanking so much over the years have only been ever increasing levels of utterly exquisite physical pleasure. It has been very difficult to find any independent expert advice on wanking.
I have a question, which has always intrigued me and I hope is polite enough to put on your letters page, which is as follows. Does having a fully flexible foreskin, that is always easy to pull back, and that is always easy to slide up and down, make the man who has one more likely to be a keen wanker, and make it likely that the man will become an habitual wanker. In my own case my foreskin travels up and down entirely freely a distance of several inches (many centimetres) during wanking and I am always totally comfortable without any lubrication for however long a time my wanking continues. It seems to me that having a flexible foreskin might be said make it totally convenient to wank whenever the desire arises, and that this might be said to lead inevitably to excessive wanking.
A related question is whether there is any therapeutic method of reducing excessive wanking to whatever is considered to be the rate of wanking appropriate for men who are Wankers Over 50.
Thank you again for a wonderful site.

Hank: Thanks for your letter. First I must comment on why would you want to slow down? You are having a good time wanking off so forget about excessive. Excessive is when your regular lifestyle is being disrupted to the point that you or others are suffering. If you were to read letters that I get from men over 50 it would seem that as opposed to excessive, your once-a-day puts you as average. Compared to some you are an under-performer, so the last thing to worry about is excessive wanking. Many men will tell you there's no such thing as excessive when it comes to wanking.
If on the other hand you have blistering or painful areas on your pecker from rubbing it too much then maybe you should stop for 48 hours (if possible)
Referring to the foreskin's role in wanking, having natural foreskin probably does lead to more wanking because it keeps the head naturally and continuously lubed, producing a sensual sensitivity that only an intact foreskin can offer. The moment a foreskinned penis erects the juices start to make the penis head feel like it's already in a pussy - rubbing foreskin along the shaft simulates the warmth and moistness of intercourse.
Circumcision causes the head to become dry and less sensitive, which is the whole intent of circumcising children. It is hoped that the child will not be so induced and will save it for the reason it's there in the first place - to make babies.
The men who have this done to them as children had no choice in the matter so they use lubricants or just plain spit, producing the same results.
From the letters we get men without foreskin seem to wank with the same frequency as those with - on average - so carry on wanking!!!



I WOULD LIKE TO SEE MORE OF SWEETYPIE SHOWN IN THE JULY ISSUE, SHE TURNS ME ON A GREAT LOOKING SENIOR DIDDLER.

Ed: I'll see what I can do.



Can you tell me where I can order or how I can see older man adult VCD on the net? Don't go for all the young dudes you see naked, but would like to view older men (40-70) if such a website is available.
Thanks for your help!
Glenn

Ed: Sometimes another member has videos to trade - you are best to place a personal ad in the members area.



Hello
Sorry to bother you but I was in touch with Iain before via your web site. I have lost his email address. Could you please pass on my email address to him If possible. So that I can resume contact. I understand if this is not possible
Many thanks
Chris

Ed: \ Iain if you're reading this ...



live in maryland area close to Gaithersburg and was wondering if you had a mailing address.......i don't always have access to computer. also are there any groups who get together for a good " wanking " session ? i am 53 years old and wank every chance i get. i would love to be a part of your group.

Ed: No mail address. The Internet is here to help us do away with snail mail so presently this is it. email There are several wankers groups in the larger cities, but smaller communities have no open ones. Check the Melbourne Wankers home page for how to start your own group in your area.



Can anyone tell me how I can email Sam in the Dec. pix ? thanks coach

Ed: Unless the email address is posted with the pix then the 'model' does not want email contact - but placing a members ad sometimes produces a response from an otherwise shy model.



I am 77yrs.young ,have been wanking since 13. I am married,two offsprings,and am sexually active with my wife but still have my private needs, satisfying myself two or three times a week.I am not gay or have any interest in that. I generally use saliva for a lubricant.

Hank: Thanks for the info. Glad to see that at 77 you are still at it.
Wanking has nothing to do with being 'gay'. Wanking is something that penis owners do on a regular basis. Gay usually means you wish to be sexually satisfied by a person of the same sex.
Personally I don't think sex with either a male or female really needs a classification. Referring to sexual orientation seems pretty outdated. No more than having a conversation or eating supper requires classifying as to which sexes are involved.




Are men becoming more bold when it comes to doing things in public. Twice in the past two weeks I have been in a public restroom (alright I was there for ulterior motives). Minding my own business I was, the first time standing there when a hand reached out and caught my cock. Within a few minutes there was more than the usual yellow stuff spurting against the urinal. The second time a complete stranger said "Fancy coming to my home". Well I did fancy it and it proved very worthwhile. It seems to me that a few years back these two incidents would not have happened. Oh men picked men up in public restrooms but there was a lot of body language before the final strike.
I notice that graywatch wrote about me in your December letters. Perhaps I am old fashioned but I do like to ask permission before taking it for granted that men are presenting their bodies so that randy old men like me can enjoy them while wanking. It is great though and unlike people like Graywatch I am afraid I rather like men who are his age rather than my own. Isn't life funny. The older I get, the younger I like my men
Jockie

Ed: Not having been in public restrooms for years, I have no idea about how liberal it may have become. But when I was a young person I remember there were usually flashers and grabbers galore in the bigger cities - all of them much older.
Nowadays with attitudes changing and more awareness of same sex relationships I expect they are more 'forward' now.
Note: Jockie is an author of several stories to be found in our members area.



Happy new year Hank and Ed, You have a fine website and I hope you both continue to bring this website into the new millennium for all us older men who enjoy it here.

Ed: Happy New Year to you too. We will continue to operate as long as we are able to.



Excellent!!!! I just became a member - WOW!!!!

Ed: Please to have you!!!



I am married, 72, cut, 5.5ins and wank about 2 or 3 times a week. I remember that it was in my mid-sixties that I slowed down from wanking every day. When my wife was more interested in sex we used to have intercourse before we slept almost every night. But that slowed down in our forties and stopped completely by the time we were in our fifties. It's been about 15 years since I had sex with her or anyone else so "wanking" is my only sex. I have never discussed this with anyone before so it's quite the thing to find a website that so openly approaches this subject.
I am so happy that I have found this place. After reading all the previous letters I conclude that I'm in a fairly normal situation. I would like to meet another man with similiar background and age, not to have sex with but just to talk openly about such things. I'm afraid to ask anyone or give out my email address - any suggestions?

Ed: Thanks for the letter. You can still have an email address that is anonymous if you get one from hotmail or yahoo or other 'free' email service. When you apply do not give out your real name or any other piece of personal information. The only 'truthful' thing you need to give when signing up for one is your real email address - but they keep that somewhat secret so you can be quite anonymous.




I am 62 and have been wanking since I was 10 or 11 yrs old. I still enjoy it 3 or 4 times a week. I am uncut and real short, but I have a lot of fun with it. also enjoy "teaching others" the pleasures of wanking.

Ed:Thanks for your story - what you might call short n sweet.



I found your site today. I surf the web looking for other men >50 who love their penis as much as I love mine. YOur site is just the thing. I was sorely disappointed to find it cost so much money. I will check back often but cannot bring myself to pay for it. WANKIN SHOULD BE FREE!
I have been j/o since about 1956, I j/o aboaut 2x per week, usually in the shower. (I can provide more graphic detail if desired) My 'member' is somewhere between 5 & 6 inches long depending on how and when i measure it.
I was cut (normal american scenario for war babbies) I'm right handed and usually j/o that way, using spit as lube
I was disappointed to go to the chat room your page points to and fine noone home. I love to fantise about j/o with other like male
enough for now, happy jackin'
Bruce

Ed: Wanking is free! It's only the restricted area that you pay to get into. It's like going to the movies, you pay for admission. That membership fee is to keep minors and accidental surfers from seeing grandpa with his pants down.



hi i love your page becase im 85 and i still love a good jizz

Ed:hmmm



...I wrote to you earlier about sending e-mail from your site. You wrote back that s ome of the addresses were old and so probalby don't exist now...however...problems continue...I can't send ANY e-mail from the site..even to you...I have to leave your site and send only through microsoft outlook....The message I get from your site is that netscape or micro explorer ect. cannot locate your server. Help please? Maybe I'm doing something wrong..I'm not that up on the technology yet. Thanks

Ed:Anyone else experience this problem?
In your first letter I thought you were back in our archives where there may still be references to an older email address, but the email would merely be returned if the address was no longer valid. It would still let you send it.
Usually when you click an email address on a webpage, your email program pops up and you write the email. The message sounds weird too, why would your mail program try to locate my server. When you click that email address < a href="mailto:http://www.wankers.com/contact.htm">email it's your email program that pops up for you to write on at that point nothing is trying to locate a server.
It may have something to do with how high your security level is set in the browser but I'm not sure if that prevents you from sending mail to someone via a webpage or not. Look under Tools in outlook express and click for options and check if the security level is marked - if so uncheck it and try again.




How do I view the womens section ?? I am a current member. Donna

Ed:There's pix in the Gals section and the Diddlers Over 40 link and the women to women part of the message board at the OldSexuals site



Dear Hank:
I noticed your answer to a query in December where you recommended he learn about "emptying" or "flushing" the cache. Would you be so kind to tell me where I am to learn how to do this? I operate Windows 95 on an IBM Pentium computer, and although I have looked thoroughly through the literature furnished from both I find no reference to accomplishing the task. Any help you can give will be greatly appreciated.
Jack

I was interested in the letter on privacy in the December letters. I am not very computer literate, and couldn't find a way to clean up my hard disc. How about a short article on it sometime. I'm sure there are many more like myself who wouldn't want to upset our wives. If she found out what I was looking at,I would have to cut it off, if she didn't get there first. I wish I could find a way to join the members section, but she sees our accounts. Mind you I love her very much, and wouldn't have it any other way.
Regards A

Ed: Click here



Hi I am a 15 year old who likes to masturbate a lot. I like your site it is pretty cool. I am straight but love masturbating. It is so pleasureable. Thanx.

Ed:Good for you young fella but this website is intended for your Grandpa - not you. But if you keep wanking for another 35 years you'll be welcome.



Have you ever thought of your own TV show? Wankers Over 50 would make a nice TV show that came on about bedtime.

Ed:hmmmm!

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