Letters for March  2000

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im 61 wanked all my life im married. I have5.5 inches cut, large balls. love to be sucked also, cum quite a lot.

Ed: Keep it up!



Hi again, Hank. It's been a while since I dropped a line. I turned 62 in Oct., continuing to bask in the beauty of my 6.5 cut hardon. I thought my shooting skills were diminishing for a while...not much cum, and I wasn't feeling the urge.
However, I've jacked off at least four times in the last six days. And last night was positively fabulous, using a strap cock ring at the base of my shaft, I had lubed well before retiring. In the middle of the night, I awoke to a very mature piece of male wood. The veins and tissues of the shaft and head were absolutely filled to overflowing with enthusiasm!
I've been working on stretching my cut foreskin so that I now have quite a bit of loose skin available, so even with a taut cock ring at the base of the shaft, I had just the right amount of movement available to jog the shaft skin, while my mushroom head just throbbed wonderfully with my left thumb and forefinger circling it lightly. So I did at least a 30-min. dry session and was surprised to experience a flood of pre-cum ooze out and over my cock head. I felt nothing, actually, because it wasn't an orgasm.
As I've grown older, I have not had much pre-cum at all, so this really encouraged and pleased me (is this common among you premier masturbators?).
That also provided some natural lube, so I then really went to town with vigorous strokes, left and right hand, on the Hard Man Shaft. To obtain a good shot, I have recently had to hyper-extend my hip and leg muscles a lot...this helps me focus on the good sensations we all need from the prostate's final spill.
Soon, the Man Milk came forth and I was panting and glowing, and slept soundly the rest of the night.

By the way, I've been able recently to overcome the problem of first getting a hardon up and ready, and then stroking towards the Goal. In the shower, I'm able to stroke my balls and my soft penis with the water coursing down on them, and by closing my eyes and concentrating on the feelings we all love, I can get the prostate twinges moving, so much so that with only the slightest partial hardon, I have managed to bring forth a great orgasm without a full hardon.
Has anyone else tried this with success?
Naturally, I love the full throbber, but I've discovered that the thrill of the orgasm can be experienced by mental or psychological effort.
Thanks for maintaining this site for the Hardon Brotherhood! We really appreciate it and hope you, too, have great wanks!
BonerPal

Hank:Thank you for writing. Every reader benefits from this kind of input.
Pre-cum usually occurs from anticipation. If you are just wanking as per usual, pre-cum is often minimal. If you have someone with you and you are chomping at the bit to have sex, or if you have just found some new and exciting wanking material, the pre-cum flows like a river. As the 'excitement' level decreases so will the pre-cum.
Try an experiment. Don't wank for 48 hours. On the 49th hour get your favorite wanking material in front of you and spend some time fantazing before you start wanking. You may find your pre-cum is the same as it used to be.
I was once told by a member about a religious group of older men that swore to abstain from all physical sex, such as hand sex or partner sex. Members of the order met every Sunday at 10 am. They would sing hymns, read the Book and have a 'normal' christian service. At 11am. they would undress and sit on chairs close together in small groups with naked legs pressing against each other and their arms around each other's backs.
They would bring themselves to orgasm without physical touching of their 'private parts'.
Apparently all would reach orgasm and ejaculate, without any touching, within 20 minutes. The member told me that the anticipation during the week left him in a constant state of stickiness. It took real effort not to go astray, but he said it was worth it as the orgasm came from God and not from man.



Hi: I surfed into your over 50 Wankers area today and thought I'd leave a story. I will join since it is definitely my interest on the net. I am 55 and have been jacking off as far back as I can remember. I have some vivid memories over the last 50 years of masturbation, mutual masturbation, same sex sucking and masturbation, and a few instances of circle jerks with five or six or more. But first, a little more about me. As I said I am 55. I was born and raised in East Texas and Southwest Arkansas (Texarkana). I am married and have been for 31 years. I am retired from the Army as a pilot (flew Birddogs in Vietnam) after 21 years (CW4). I went to an all boys Catholic (monestery) high schoool where we boarded. My father was retired from the Reserves as a Sergeant Major. My wife is a wonderful woman to whom I have been 100 percent faithful to EXCEPT for my wanking (she knows and supports, even assists)and some limited contact with other guys as jack off buddies (she doesn't know and would not support. She was a virgin where we married and she is very sexxxxy even at 52. She has never balked at eating me, vice-versa, screwing,masturbating me when doesn't want to screw, and masturbating herself (I taught her about a month before we married). She knowss I surf the web for my "solo entertainment"). My first memory of wanking is when my father had just returned from occupation duty in Korea after WWII. Was 1947 or early 48. I was either 3 or 4 years old. I am fairly sure of the time because, he came back and bought a 1948 Buick (Special, fastback in frog green). Since he bought a 1950 Oldsmobile (88, fastback, dark gray), and it was in a house we were not living in when I started school, the time is fairly fixed. My parents and I often bathed together in those days, and I remember that we had all bathed together after dad came home from work on Saturday, early afternoon. Dad went into the bedroom to "take a nap" and mom had on a robe. She dressed me in some shorts (hurriedly) and sent me out to play. As I walked by the bedroom window, I heard them giggling. I looked in a part in the curtains and WOOWW!

They were naked and in (what I know now as a '69') a strange position with mom on top. I had reached down in my shorts and into my underwear, and began stroking my little bitty cock. It did spring to life and get hard but the bald little was not a match for my old man's (still isn't). It felt good but this wasn't the first time I'd played with myself. My neighbor, who was in school but probably about the first grade. cam up and saw me. I didn't stop my feeling. He suggested that we go into the garage and get naked---we did.

We played with ourselves and then, I suggested that we play with each other. It felt GREAT his rubbing. Then after a few minutes I had one of those sensations I was waiting for--not cumming, not an orgasm but a damned good feeling. He had one as well (neither of us was old enough to cum, or even know what it was). I then suggested that maybe we could do what mom and dad were doing. He didn't want to, but finally was curious enough. He laid back on the work bench and I carefully climbed on top---worried about falling. We sort ta did that for a while longer. Finally we got dressed when my mom yelled out the back door to find me (now with rosy cheeks and an all over her body smile).

Litldick

Ed:Thanks for the email, sorry that I had to censor out the most descriptive parts but with the action commitees screening sex and kids on the Internet I'm not sure what the laws are about describing childhood sex.
If we have any lawyers or law enforcement readers, how does one 'publicly' describe one's childhood sexual encounters ( which we all had and usually enjoyed as kids ) without being liable for promoting kiddie porn?




I have contributed to this site before and visit it regularly. In the January letters, a 72-year old man expressed the desire to communicate with someone of his own age and background, not for sex, but to discuss mutual experience. I am 71 and his wanking background and physical characteristics are similar to mine. (My wife and I stopped having sex about 15 years ago also.) I would like to contact him; should I publish my Hotmail address on your site? (I am not a member, so have no access to the Personals section.)

Ed: We do not publish email addresses in this area. This reduces the chance of you accidently getting into an email situation with a minor. It also lessens your exposure to spam.




Why can you only join with a credit card?

Ed: Only adults who are proving their age by owning a credit card can legally be exposed to whats inside Wankers Over 50. You might say it covers our ass!



Hi, wankers! I just turned 50, and I started wanking when I was 11. Since that age, I've always been pretty unusual--a sexy sissy, not a "normal" boy. Boys in the shower room in junior high school used to tease me about looking like a girl because my breasts were so plump, my embarrassingly excitable nipples stuck out so much, and my hips were so big and swivelly. I do have a penis, all right, but I guess it didn't count as far as the boys were concerned, because it was (and still is) embarrassingly short--barely 4 inches long. (It does have a big, beautiful head, though!)

I hated the teasing, but secretly it excited me to know the other boys thought I looked like a girl. I discovered my own special "sissy" style of wanking: I hid my penis between my legs, rubbed my breasts, squeezed my legs together, and pumped my hips until I ejaculated "backward" beneath my buttocks, while pretending I was a girl having sex with my boyfriend. I did this almost every night, usually in the shower.

Later I discovered how to pretend a shampoo bottle was my imaginary boyfriend's big penis. With my own little one hidden between my legs, I lathered myself up down there, then slipped the shampoo bottle into the tight space between my hidden penis and my left leg, and pumped my hips while pretending my boyfriend was ejaculating into me. It gave me the most astounding climaxes!

The habit stayed with me; to this day, I've very seldom "jacked off" in the "normal" way. Nowadays I admit I don't wank very often; I try to save my energies for my wife, who doesn't approve of wanking. (I'm not a homosexual, you see, although I did wank together with a few other guys when I was much younger, about 25; I just have these odd, intense sexy sissy feelings and fantasies that won't go away!)
Still, I do love sexy talk about wanking; it even helps me get excited when I need some assistance to perform my husbandly duty (as we old men sometimes do, you know!). I love to draw sexy sissy pictures of myself with a computer graphics program, too.
Some of my favorites are: me wearing lovely sheer lingerie with my nipples showing through; me unbuttoning a standard man's shirt to reveal my breasts in a lacy low-cut bra; me eagerly showing off my cute cleavage and my big buttocks in an even lower-cut bikini; and me totally naked with erect nipples and an equally erect little 4-inch penis.

I'm so glad to have discovered the "Wankers Over 50" site! Thanks a lot for putting it up; please drop me a line in return if you've got a minute to spare!

Jackie

Ed: Thanks for your 'confession' it's normal enough to be printed here. It's warming to get the point across that feelings and exploits such as your own do not always mean homosexual relations. In fact the whole concept of homosexual/heterosexual is redundant when it comes to wanking.
He who wanks is a monosexual!
PS: Any pix for our inside gallery?



went i wear a young girl bra i can get a hard on ease is kind dume wear to beb with it on i get on went i wear it o beb i wake up at night with a hard on then i have to jackoff i can jackoff betty i wear a girl bra to bed wiyh me anything eles i know it feel good went you hard on feel the bra you got on it make me get a hard on quck sometime i wear it under my cloth it make my dick stay hard sometime i cun on my self

Ed: Thanks for the email.... Who's betty?



Just found your web site and am re assured that to be 55, still having at least one wank daily since I was 11 years old to find that there are like minded men in the world. The best I have done of recent times is 19 wanks in 3 days.
Wank On


Ed:I expect we will eventually find out that everyone from popes to presidents wank often ... well maybe not the present pope ... but I'm absolutely certain the present president ONLY wanks nowadays!



I am a 25 year old Irish guy and always felt a little out of sorts, until yesterday when I found your magical site. I never knew that others felt the same way as I do and just the thought of all those old wankers out there got me really going - I had a quick one in work yesterday (the only place I have access to your site) and then a monster wank last night just thinking those horny older guys.
My only disappointment is that I can't subscribe since I am using the Internet at work. However, I have all the letters to the editor to keep me going.... some pix would be nice though.
keep it up,
ol mc

Ed:Happy to be here for you - thanks for writing. I wonder what kind of websites you will have when you become a Wanker Over 50 in 2026?



Hi,
My husband and I live in the U.S., and have been happy masturbators for 37 years together. That's what the attraction was: I loved jilling off and he loved jacking off. We didn't think we'd ever find such a good match. I'm 54 and he's 57, and we still masturbate virtually every night. I have masturbated so much in my life that my fingers have a sort of semi-pussy odor all the time, which is a good thing.
By the way, neither of us knows the derivation of the term wanking. What does it mean (literally)? Jacking can perhaps be related to the jacking up of a car; jilling is the female equivalent and obviously relates to jack & jill. But wank. What is the word?
Keep on masturbating!
Loa & Eric


Hank: Wanke is the name of the ancient god of masturbation, worshipped by men since antiquity. Wankers are the followers of Wanke.
Wanking became a term describing their activity as they brought themselves to orgasm in order to reach nirvana during their rituals.
Wanking became so common that men were producing less offspring. Fatal to an organised society dependent on there being more populace to tax or use as workers and soldiers.
Wanking was banned and wankers were punished. Eventually society shunned the wankers The worshippers of Wanke went underground and have remained hidden since then.
They do still exist in small secret sects. Several pages from their bible was recently discovered in garage sale in Cardiff in Wales. The pages went missing just 3 weeks later and have not turned up again. So little is known about the Wankers of Wanke. Any professors out there want to add to this?

Jack is olde english term for a man or boy, slender light-footed and quick. He would be the one that shimmied up trees or cliffs for bird eggs or fruit or nuts or honey. Everyone depended on these jacks for their treats. Jacks were very much in demand and they were kept very busy. Their wives were their helpers and referred to as jills. Jilling was the term for helping a jack. A jill would gather the knocked down fruit or guard the eggs while the jack was fetching them.
During the middle ages every parent was trying to raise their boys to be jacks. At the same time gardeners and farmers were growing 'tamed' food and tradesmen such as carpenters and builders were making it easier to reach hard to get to places
Jacks had to become jacks-of-all-trades or be out of work. Jacks had to go off to the towns faraway to find work. Their jills had to stay at home to raise the kids. Some jacks became idle and they were said to be "jacking off" - off meaning not working or off work. (jills were back home jilling off). As more unemployed jacks moved to the towns and grouped together in cheap accommodations and became pickpockets or burglars they dropped to the bottom of the social scale and were referred to as wankers.
Today the term wanker in England refers to someone who is less than socially acceptable, out of work and therefor has time on his hands to sit around wanking.



Hi editor
I used to attend a porno theatre and would join groups who were wanking togather. Sorry to say the police closed the place down as a public nusense. It was not that to me or the others, we met, wanked watched a dirty movie and then went our ways. Do you or any of your readers know of a wankers gathering place in the Detroit area?

Ed: Start your own - rent one of those old movie houses and turn it into a private members only wank club.



I am a married uncut 63 year old male that has been wanking frequently since age 14. A few months ago I wrote that I was having a problem reaching orgasm while having intercourse with my wife of 40 years. The young man in this month's letter seems to be anxious about his ability to achieve an orgasm even after his 21 year old girl friend had been performing fellatio on him as he stroked his penis for 15 minutes. I think he might be suffering from a "need to perform" mind set.
I read many books to help me understand my "problem," but one that seemed to help me most is by Bernie Zilbergeld titled, The New Male Sexuality The Truth about Men, Sex and Pleasure.
In his book he relates that most of us feel we have to perform and achieve orgasm at all sexual encounters, when in fact if we focused more on providing pleasure for our partners as well as ourselves we would be better off. I also could attain an erection, but had problems maintaining it to orgasm.
Last year at my annual physical I discussed it with my doctor and he was very open to my concern. He has me on Viagra and it has been a wonderful change. Like a kid again. As one of the commercials for some other product says, it makes old men HOT again.
If this young man is experiencing the erection and orgasm patterns he mentions, and he is 33, I strongly suggest he consult a doctor, and read a book like The New Male Sexuality so he can better understand that what he is experiencing is not as unique as he thinks and that there is help for him.
Help might come both in form of medical treatment with a product like Viagra and in an understanding that a rock hard penis that responds on demand each and every time it is called on is an unrealistic expectation. We need to enjoy our sexuality in many forms, and not limit ourselves to thinking that erection, orgasm and ejaculation are the only goals. I was surprised to learn of the may forms that sexual dysfunction in men occur and at what ages they can and do happen.
No matter how good we think our "equipment" is working and how "young" we think we are, there are many things that can happen to each of us. He should see his doctor, there might not be anything wrong that is serious, but then there is always that possibility too.
In the meantime, he can read the book and learn to relax and enjoy doing the exercises suggested for him and for him to do with his partner. In today's medical world, there is much that can be done to help us males and we should not be bashful about seeking help.
Do not suffer the feelings he must be experiencing when help is available.
A Wanker that also still loves having sex with his wife

Ed: Thanks for writing that. There is a lot more openess today then there was a few years ago. Many book are available, I'm sure that the young man in question, plus many others, will find good advice from your email.

There's a Viagra link here at Wankers Over 50 Click for Viagra



Dear Wankmaster, I am 67 years old, which means that I have been wanking to climax for at least 61 years: thrilling dry comes until the age of 12, shattering ejaculations ever since: incredible satisfaction at all times. Masturbation has always been my primary source of sexual pleasure, and one of its best features is that it is one of the few skills I have that keeps improving with age. (One of the few facts I retain from a college zoology course is that "man is the only mammal that does not have a bone in his penis." Thank God for that, I say now that I have arthritis in my knees! And I never kneel to masturbate.) I have tried Viagra, but I really don't need it, I find. In fact, I seem to be as horny now as I was at, say, 17. Now and then a day passes when I am too busy (I haven't retired yet) to masturbate or simply not in the mood; usually, however, I wank several times a day.
I suppose that I may have at least a couple of close friends who are as absorbed in autoeroticism as I am, but as you say on your webpage, most men are to embarrassed to admit to the important place that wanking has in their lives, though most would be eager to share this aspect of their lives with other wankers, provided they could retain their anonymity.
Can I really join this club by using a credit card?
Jake

Ed: Hello Jake, Good wanking history there. Yes your friends are wankers too. But just being a wanker does not necessarily mean they want to talk about it. It's not always because they are too shy.
But it does seem that more and more men are 'cumming' out their about wanking. Just think of this: within the next 2 days Wankers over 50 will be receiving it's millionth visitor (according to the HitBox that records these things.)
Thats visitors not members.



Do you have an email address for Bob in the February pics? Great site.

Ed:If the email address is not published it means the member does not want contact. Some members put up their pix but want to remain anonymous.



GENTLEMEN, CHECK YOUR TESTOSTERONE
I am a fifty-six-year old male and have throughly enjoyed sex in one form or the other since I was 12 or 13 years old. Masturbation, being my initial means of sexual gratification, it has and continues to remain a pleasurable regular option to intercourse. Several years ago I noticed a significant reduction in my sex drive, both conventional and masturbation.

Not wanting to hang it up I consulted with my (female) primary care doctor thinking she would give a prescription for Viagra. She said that Viagra is not always needed if ones chemistry is in balance. When a man generally reaches fifty years of age, as with women their hormone levels change. Continuing, she said that most of her male colleagues tend to overlook the realities, not wanting to admit to their own venerability's. As a result less than 25% of the men over 50 ever have their testosterone level checked. When is the last time you had yours checked? It is a simple blood test and can quickly identify a deficiency.

My doctor had mine tested and sure enough it was below normal. Now once a month I go in for an injection. I feel sexually sixteen and I am back to a once a day routine. Not only do I feel like an over sexed adolescent stud, but by getting my testosterone in check I have been able to decrease my blood pressure medication and eliminate my reliance on Prozac.

Testosterone can also be administered by means of a transdermal patch which is applied once a day just like a band-aide. The patch is considerably more expensive. In my case they caused a rash so I opted for the monthly shot. A company call MacroChem (stock symbol MCHM) has the patent for a testosterone jel that you simply apply to you skin. Apparently testing has been completed, but they want to sell the patent to a larger pharmaceutical company for marketing. When they do, I am sure you will hear more about testosterone deficiencies. For my own benefit I certainly hope their product is available soon.

MacroChem also holds the patent for a transdermal erectile dysfunction product that has been tested and when available will be direct competition to Pfizer’s famed Viagra. I am not soliciting for this company, but I have found the research to be most interesting. You may likewise like to have some more insight into testosterone deficiencies and erectile dysfunction. Here is their link. http://www.macrochem.com

Keep it cumin, John S

Ed: We don't usually put addresses here but this one and the one's below are for the readers who are interested.



Also in the January issue in the PIX section there is a picture of Donna and she say she sent in a letter to the editor in November 99, which I would like to read but can't seem to find it anywhere. I have been sharing Emails with her and would like to read the letter. There are some pictures in the November 99 section that say "Larry & Donna in shipping " is that her?
Thanks for the help
Dennis


Ed: If she wrote in November then it would be in the December issue, this letter section if it was not too explicit, or the confession/stories part of the restricted to members area.



check out www.libby-and-nobby.co.uk for their adventures as they polish their own dome in Masturbate for the millennium

I have a site called "www.masturbateforthemillennium.com"
and a book by the same name and a site about the hero and heroine called
www.Libby-and-Nobby.co.uk about the book (900 copies left that sell at $10
each ) check out this site
The whole package (2 sites and 900 books) is for sale for $5,900
please let me know if you can advertise it on your site
glynde9@aol.com thanks Dave


Ed: There you go Dave --- free advertising. Just let us know the response you get.



I am a 53 year old Married White Male circumcised 6 inch long hard.
I wank at least once a day. I love to wank.
I am so happy to find your site. Now I know that I am not alone.
I really have never wanked with anyone else, I always wank alone, but the thought of group wanking excites me.
I have always wanted another man to wank with me or just get me off an and I would do the same for him.
I love to see my cock rock hard and taste the jizz.
If I join as a member I have a few questions.
Do you sell your mailing list? I don't want my name passed around. Does the membership automatically renew? I want a one year deal.
Tom

Ed: We never do anything with your email address. No lists are kept, the membership does NOT re-new nor are you reminded to re-new. We never contact you or email back unless you ask us to. Almost all letters that are answered, are answered here on this page. Membership is $30 for one year.



If a wanker gets disabled what then? No problem if you have a kind wife like me.
I started wanking when I was 12 and have done it every day. Now I am 66.
Two years ago however both my arms were hur in a car accident. The worst for me was that I didn't manage to wank any more.
My wife understood that. She had seen me wanking every day and suddenly I couldn't. But she, 20 years younger than me, took over.
Now she is washing my genitalias two or three times a day, kisses and sucks my penis and then wanks it. She does it with a full hand, very professionaly. If I am tired she helps me to make it come by showing me her tits or her vagina. She even is rubbing her clitoris with one hand while wanking me with the other. When I pump out my cream she often gets orgasm herself too.
I hope other wifes will be just as helpful as mine if their husbands have problems with the wanking!

Ed: You are fortunate to have such a partner. If any reader should know of a man in the same situation, offer to give him a private wank.
It's good to really be able to lend a hand to those in need.



tell me more about your pages. 52, 6 inches, cut, married, several times a day with or without my wife, etc.

Ed: The pages speak for themselves.



For those of us with bad arms, hand disability------please include NEXT in addition to RETURN on all picture pages.....it cuts down on number of clicks and saves time...thanks...coach

Ed: We'll do our best.

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