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It's the only way that small websites can legally take credit cards over the 'Net. None of us small websites could afford the necessary software and security required by the banks. That's why we use CCBill. So rest assured that your privacy is protected. You will not receive unsolicited emails from us (or them). Unlike the other adult websites that re-bill every month, your credit card will only be billed the one $30 fee and you will be able to access us for one year. At the end of one year you will NOT be re-billed. If you wish to stay a member you must re-apply after the year is up.  Hey,gay or straight...no problem! I am head over heels with "WANKERS". As a 42 year old who never got it on with boys...I am one cum-soaked mess,and happy to be so. Currently recovering from surgery, it's hands off the "PUPPY", but, once the stitch's are out, and the okay is given... I'm going to be back at WANKERS.COM, choking the life out of the LIL'FELLER. Thanks "LOADS" for guys and equipment that gets me going from 1-10:)!!!!! Glad I joined. SNUGGLEBEAR Ed:Glad to have you - good luck for a speedy recovery hi wankers i wank alot and please could u tell me ways of how i can quit thanx from anonamous Ed: Well, lets see now... lots of cold showers and tying your hands to the sides of the bed at night may work. Asking help from your god, saviour, priest or doctor may help. As a last resort you could have surgery.... but tell us - why on earth would you want to quit wanking? 61 yo Australian male. Started at 14, soon doing it daily (nightly) in school dorm with about 90 other teenagers. Double bunks so we all knew what the one in the other bunk was doing. Communal showers with no screens. Erections during showers, on one occasion a boy turned into the corner and masturbated with his back to us but we all knew. One only circle jerk - pity, it was a real revelation. By 16 was doing it 3x per day. Prayed for help in reducing it but failed miserably. Learned to hump the mattress and pillow, left 1000s of stains on the sheets but mum never said anything. Married at 21, great sex 'til 55 then nothing due to menopause. Back to masturbation, now at 3/5 per week, wife understands. In bed, in shower, at computer etc etc etc. Wife was enthusiastic masturbator most of her life, never less than 3 per session. Try to slow it down but usually I take about 3 minutes. Love the internet, great sites like yours, wish we had them in my day but would have worn out my right hand, the mattress and the "Old Fella". Lots of other stories but will leave them til later. Ed: Thanks for sharing that with us all. Looking forward to your 'other' stories. I am 60, have a cut almost 5 incher. Been wanking for many years. Been married for 36 years. Have two grown sons and two grandsons. Started wanking at about 17. slowed down a little after I met my wife, had sex almost everynight for the first five years. then started to slow down, and guess what? my wanking started to speed up. My wife and I have not had sex for almost two years. I guess she has lost interest in it. But I still wank quite a bit. I cruised on your site by accident. Reading all the letters really makes me horney. Just about everytime I get on your site I work on my 5 incher. I would like to find a wanker pal, but I live in a small town and am very afraid to ask anybody. I am not interested in Oral and annal sex. Just a little wanking together or each other would work. Best regards to all you fellow wankers. Ed: The first step is an anonymous email address (hotmail, yahoo, etc.) Then take a personal ad in the classifieds. Offer to give one-on-one personal Internet lessons to retired 'gentlemen'. Surf onto the letters section of Wankers Over 50 and talk about it. Stick to guys over 50 who are as cautious' as yourself. Hi I love your site!! Is there any way I can get in touch with a few of your "models"? The ones that excite me are the following: April issue - Donzed and Cabe Feb issue - Bob Maybe you could give them my e-mail and ask them to write to me. Thank you Leo Ed: If there is no email address shown with the photos, it means they are not ready to go 'public' or they did not ask us to post their email address. We don't post members addresses nor give them out unless the member specifically asks us to. Your best method to reach these folks is to place an ad in our personals, this often works and the member is usually tickled pink at the fan mail. (PS: I think Donzed has his address elsewhere on the website - you'll have to check the back issues.) Well Hank, i jack off about every night except wknds. Until i write again, laters. Hank: ..... okay I'm curious... what happens on weekends? I love you Eric Ed: How sweet. We love you too Eric is it true that it could shorten an individual's life expectancy when u have sex or masturbate frequently? Ed: Oh definately! Some wankers have been known to drop dead long before their 100th birthdays. But seriously?... Erections and the free flow of semen keeps all the organs, tubes, veins, muscles and other body parts doing what they are supposed to do. Nature's whole purpose for giving you life and a pecker and balls, is for you to get a hard on and shoot your load - if you quit doing that mother nature says 'who needs you' and your body parts say 'what the heck' and soon your health leaves you and you die of 'oldage'. I have been asking many men over 80 about wanking and the ones with the twinkle in their eye and with a sense of humor and are physically active are all wankers and have wanked constantly since childhood. The ones whose sexlives have been unimportant and don't wank on a regular basis are old at 60, prone to ural problems and prostate cancers and most of them are boring men with no 'twinkle' in their eyes nor humor in their lives. In other words bro' Wank On! After 65 over doing it is more than 3 times a day. Less than once day is an early warning sign and less than 3 times a week a serious danger signal. Hank... about the religious men maintaining sexual purity while they allowed The Lord to provide the orgasm! What a great story; I hope it is a true one. Thanks for including my several letters to the Boner Fellowship. In addition to the swim trunks episode you printed, I also have an auto-biographical story in the form of a free-verse poem. With relatively short lines, it has about 90 lines. It's about my experience getting immersed in a baptismal service at church as a nine-year old boy. I saw my first adult naked man at that time, and I reflect on my impressions about the male experience connected with the religious rite. It concludes with my heightened awareness of my hardon after I got home alone in my room after the event. Can you handle a poem form in the stories site for paying members? Let me know if you are interested, Sincerely, your BonerPal Hank: Very interested - The members area is for anything considered too 'erotic' for general readership (we censor ourselves so the law won't). Many members will enjoy your erotic poetry. Dear Hank, I would like to share with you the following story. Whe I was young I used to go to the camp where my father worked and play pool I guess I was 11 or 12 Years old. One day the caretaker was having a shower and as I came around the end of the pool table I notice that he was drying his groin area vigourously. I watched and when he removed the towel to dry his back he had this huge hard on. Not only did he have a huge member but his balls were large too. After he dried his back he sat on the seat and jerked off strocking his hard cock for about half an hour. When he came it just shot everywhere. After he finished and got dressed he came into the pool room and you could imagine a 12 year old after seeing this for the first time I had a rock hard cock. He could obviously notice this but did not say anything. That night I couldn't sleep and all I thought about was the sight that I'd seen that day. I started stroking my member until I shot my load. You can imagine the first time and the force at which that stuff came out. I loved it and have been jerking off ever since. I am married with children have a 5.5" cut cock and am now 53. That first sight of him jerking off got me on the road, and I must admit that I caught him a couple of more times, but their stories for another time. I'd like to converse with others who would like to watch another man jerk off please post my email address in your personal area Regards JJ Hank: Thanks for your story. I'll post it as a true confession along with your email address in the members only area for May. Hank, Shame on me for not sending this earlier. Thank you for this great Web-site. I have been in contact with one of your members that contributes to your picture pixs or galleries. I've also sent E-mails to two of the personal ad. One has responded & one not (too early to say that they won't). I really like the pictures & think that you do a great job formatting them. I like it when I can go to the next picture, within a series, using a next button. It's easier to view the pictures again as I return to the Monthly Page. I like the content of all the pictures, but especially of two (or more) men together. Are you going to get into the Chat Room business? Do you know a good Chat Room for Wankers and/or older guys? Thanks again for the site and for letting me in before you received my contribution. Keep up the good work. Hank, I would appreciate you posting the following in your personals listing: Hank: Thank you for your email. Your ad goes in for our May Issue. The 'next' button seems to be popular, I shall try to use it more often. Chatrooms are available via "Links" (members area) there are currently two of them, both are gay chats. Almost as good as the chat room is the Oldsexuals message board. Another, more personal chat room, is in the works for this summer. Loved the Fun in the Afternoon shots.......Are they from real movies that i might be able to get on video.....loved the older men as they play with the women together.....where can i see more of that? coach in Pa......love the site Ed: They were contributed from a member. If the member (or any member who knows) would like to share that video's name with us - please send email for next month's letters. hey i am 60 years old and i am despert please a confused 60 year old man. Hank: I would love to please a desparate, confused, sixty year old man... how can I help you? Send me your confession. Where to start? 61 years old, average masturbation frequency about 4/5 times per week, started very soon after my 14th birthday, very soon it was 3/4 times per day and loved all of it. Happily married at 21, still married but with menopause the libido level of my wife is NIL. She is very understanding and accepts my need for sexual release on a regular basis. My wife was an enthusiastic masturbator since early childhood and it is a great pity that the hormones have dried up. My regular masturbation sessions take place either in the bed with my wife or in the shower. My wife and I are retired and we spent 6 years travelling around Australia in a caravan following the sun and going where we wanted when we wanted. A great life and to be highly recommended. Our stays in the various caravan parks meant showers in the shower blocks all around the country and many masturbation sessions during or after the shower, whichever took my fancy at the time, mainly after. One of the shower blocks had cubicles with walls between them with a 10/12 inch gap at the bottom. The overhead lighting and the water on the floor created a mirror effect and I happened to look down and noticed the reflection of the man next door. It was as clear as day that he was masturbating and it amused me that I was not the only one who masturbated in the shower. It later occured to me that many men of my age probably had wives who had been effected by menopause and so had to gain sexual release in the old fashioned way. From that day on I took particular notice of the activities of the men in the various shower blocks and it amazed me just how many men masturbated in the shower and how they did it. Some men actually sat down on the wet floor of the shower and wanked away happily. Some even did not bother to turn on the shower but simply used the private space to masturbate before leaving. I remember one day after my shower I had dried myself and then began to feel the urge to masturbate. I leant against the wall with my left arm and began to attend to my very urgent erection. After I ejaculated I wiped the sperm off the wall and something made me turn my head to the left. I saw a man outside the cubicle waiting for one to become vacant. It was obvious that he could see all that had taken place through the gap between the shower door and the door frame. It was too late to worry about being caught so I packed up my gear and left. The grin on his face told me that he knew what I had been doing. On more than one occasion I was a witness to a man masturbating in the cubicle next door and when I opened the door he was doing the same so we met on the way out. I did not let on of course but it was amusing to know that some of my collegues were just as enthusiastic as myself when it came to wanking. I am sure that I have a voyeuristic streak in me but it is harmless. I do not know if it is a territory marking thing but it is amazing how many men do not bother to clean up the ejaculation after they are finished. I have been guilty of this myself but usually take the trouble to clean it up. I usually masturbate after I have finished the shower and before I dress. It is a fact of life that men masturbate all their mature lives and I hope to be still wanking away well into my 70s & 80s. I have no need for viagra as the organ still has a mind of its own and since I gave away wearing underpants about 5 years ago I now ejaculate more in volume and more in frequency than I have for many years. With the total freedom of no underwear my penis is in a constant state of partial arousal. I am constantly aware of its presence and I now masturbate twice as often as I did 10 years ago. TRY IT! That's my story so far, all of which is true and I hope that it has been of interest to the readers of "Wankers over 50". Ed: Right On! As you have discovered, wanking is very NORMAL and something ALL healthy, happy men do. The not cleaning up part IS a territory thing. It's a way of saying I was here and it's alright to do this. Of course, nowadays we know this to be unsanitory so I guess you better clean-up! It's devestating when wanking stops working and the need for Viagra or other help becomes very important. Viagra is amazingly effective if required. Click for Viagra I recently turned 50 and have been a chronic masturbator since I was about 13 years old. In my teen years it was not uncommon for me to engage in masturbating anywhere from 3 to 5 times a day. Now that I am 50 the frequency of the masturbating is less but I still usually wank at least 4 to 5 times per week. These days my stimulation comes from watching what some would call pornographic videos. Particularly I am very stimulated by watching young women engaging in intercourse. I find these scenes particularly arousing and a exciting. When I was in my 20's and 30's I occasionally had sex with a female partner and found that to be exciting as well. However, I never fell in love and never married. My interest in dating women waned over the years and in my late 30's and 40's until today I have had no interest in dating women. I found that by masturbating regularly I am able to fulfill my sexual needs totally. For me a masturbatory session begins with me positioning myself comfortably, inserting a hot video in my video player, and generously lubing my penis. For this purpose I have found the elbow grease product to be most effective followed by regular hand lotion. I begin by simply massaging my balls and my belly and abdomen and in relatively short order I find myself hard. Unfortunately, I was never endowed with much size. Although I am a big man my penis hard measures only about 4 inches. After rising to the occasion, I usually enjoy watching couples on the video engaging in intense intercourse together. After watching the video and massaging myself for 20-30 minutes, I usually get extremely excited and feel the need to release myself. Sometimes in the throes of the moment I succumb to this temptation, but other times I try to go slower and allow the feelings to ebb before escalating again. When I do finally cream my orgasm is most often quite intense, and even now at 50 I am able to produce a good quantity of cream often shooting with a considerable degree of intensity. I sometimes wish for a partner to assist me in my sessions, but I do realize it is easier for me to simply do it myself. So far even though I am aging I am enjoying masturbating as much as when I was a teen and young man. Peter, USA Ed: Thank you for writing this. Your 'sexual life story in a nutshell' mirrors many a batchelor's sex lives. Did it with a few gals early in life, gave up for whatever reasons and depends only on wanking for sexual release. As you say it's a lot easier to wank than have a partner, but it depends on your partner. You could arrange a casual relationship with someone who is married and wants a friend to wank with. As you can see from some of the letters we get, there are men who want mutual wanking without relationships, men who do not consider themselves 'gay' and in many cases have no need of 'touching' - just companionship. There are private wankers clubs springing up in towns all over America. Often these 'meetings' are in private homes and not only is there no touching but because of the fear of HIV, no touching is the policy. You could begin your own with a few private ads or/and using the 'private Internet lessons ad' as a discovery method. I am a 27 y/o, single woman interested in corresponding with a 50+ man about his involvement (real or imagined) with younger women. Is your site open to membership to younger women or is it t restricted to only older men? Ed: You are welcome to join up - keep an open mind and prepare for a very 'for older men only' website but any one over 21 can legally join. A small number of younger women into older men are members, but remember we are old guys and the women's lib thing may not be as up-to-date as you may like and you may find women regarded as sex objects ( men too)... If your sexual interests are getting it on with an older man and wrinkles and grey hair (or no hair) is your thing, then welcome to Wankers Over 50. Many members are married or ex-married and will love to get into erotic correspondence with you. Inside you will find the emphasis on men over 50 with over 65s being the most admired and sought after. There's also the junior members in their 30s or 40s. A few in their 20s. There are galleries of women, older ones, younger ones and of assorted shapes. How's about a few pix or stories to turn us on? Love your site :-) It's quite wild I thought I would let you know of our resource for public sex. Many of the guys that visit are really into jerking off in public. We are building a cruising guide like cruisingforsex.com except we are trying to allow people that visit to have more say. Our listings are in a data base and are searchable. You can also post comments on each listing and add ratings. We have been up for a year and we just put out our new format. Would love it if you want to link to it as a resource. I also would love to hear your feedback and find out what you think about our site :-) Keep Squirtin' Luv Dick Squirt.org Now over 2,000 cruising listings worldwide. Parks, washrooms, truck stops, Saunas, Adult Bookstores, xxx Theaters, nude beaches, orgies, sex clubs, bars and raunchy personals. Ed: Great job fellas - have a look readers and send us your feedback. Hi I'm Fred. I'm 53. I'm 6 1/2" hard and cut. I started masturbating my cock at age 12 and haven't stoped. I jack-off as often as 8 times a day,I just love the way it feels when it's hard. I've masterbated 3 times already today and I'm masturbating right now and when I finish this e-mail I'm going to shoot a load. I love to use porn tapes,magazines,latex toys and lots of K Y Jelly to lube my hard cock and tease it for......well as long as I can stand it. I'm sure glad I found your web site and I'll frequent it as often as I stroke my dick. Oh God,I'm cumming!!!!! AAAaaaaaaahhhhh!!!! Well,gotta go.....keep up the good work. Your hard cocked freind Fred Ed: You're a dirty old man Fred... welcum to Wankers Over 50 Can someone please explain what a cock ring is, how it is used and what it does? Also, can you make your own or, if not, where do you get one? Ed: A cock ring is that call you get from your sweetipie... okay... A cock ring is something that is tightly placed around the base (nearest you) of the penis and causes the wearer's cock to expand harder and tighter than without a cockring. Commercial ones can be bought anonymously via email, from the link button that says Adult Toys at the top of this page. If you try to make a homemade one, DO NOT use a rubber band or you will be screaming with pain, it ties your pubic hairs into trillions of knots. (unless of course, you like that sort of thing) If you presently get a perfectly satisfactory erection of sufficient firmness and are just thinking it may be fun, be aware that long term use may take you to the point of it being a requirement to getting a hard-on. Hi, by the way, are you based in England? Wanking is not a common term for masturbation in the USA. I turned 63 in a week and live at home helping take care of my 82-year-old mother. I am divorced and have a girlfriend; we get together when we can and have sex, but it has not been that often. Anyhow, to the point: could you pass on some hot tips for me to increase my wanking to do it at least once daily? My e-mail address is...(withheld) New at the computer and this inquiry also. Thanks. Jim Ed: Thanks for the email Jim... Happy Birthday! The only 'hot tips' I have for increasing wanking is to increase stimulation. Think sex more often, concentrate on your pecker, stop wearing underwear (see a few letters back), or try wearing the girlfriends. Bring to mind every sex act you've ever had every night before sleeping. If you are circumcised or have a dry cockhead, use a lubrication of some sort. Good old vaseline is probably still the best. Stop watching TV before bedtime, rent erotic movies instead or stimulate yourself right here at Wankers Over 50. There's sure to be something, a picture or story or true confession, in the members area that will 'do it' for you. Don't be too eager to give out your home email address. Establish an email address with hotmail.com or yahoo.com or any one of dozens (probably hundreds) of 'free and anonymous' email address places that you can have a private email account. You use your browser to log-in your password to send and receive email. The person sending or receiving the email does not know your 'real' email. This means that should you get on some annoying mailing list and get lots of junk email, you can always cancel that account and open a another under another email name and address. Altho' these services are 'free' they will ask for a name, address , etc and stick you on a mailing list where possible. Read the sign in page carefully and be anonymous. The only real info you must give out is your reply email address for them to send you a password. But look out for those little square 'click me' boxes where it asks if you want to be on a mailing list or not. Be fictitious wherever you can. Help!...........I recently joined Wankers ...i love it ...except...i want my e-mail address changed..how do i do that?....can you change it for me??? please delete...the old one and change it to ..... hope you can help me ...asap! thanks and keep up the good work! Ed: If you have an email posted on this website in the members area I can change it But tell me where it is. If you mean the one you had when you first joined and used on the sign-up page then it does not need to be updated as it is only ever used once and that is when you are first sent your UserName and Password. CCbill will not accept my hoymail address. Why not? Ed: you just answered your own question. PS: We got two emails like this in the last month. Typing errors are the most commonest of reasons that prevent eager members from their wanking enjoyment. When joining Wankers Over 50, the sign-up (which takes place on CCBill's servers) is very sensitive to the slightest of errors. 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