Letters for June  2000

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Wankers -
I read with interest your list of prescription medicines causing impotence, some you noted would just affect sexual performance subsequent to erection.
One drug NOT on your list that should definitely be there is: Paxil. This drug is published as negatively affecting sexual performance in 12-14% of men taking at least the effective medicinal dose of 2 - 20mg pills daily. Although the medicinal effects (anti-anxiety) wear off in a short period of time (8-16 hours), the negative sexual effects can persist for up to 3-5 DAYS after the last dose. The "negative sexual effects" are most commonly: reduction of penile sensation being passed to the prostate, and (therefore) inability to ejaculate.
This can be extremely frustrating, especially if one is a 49-year old unpartnered male, such as myself. Sometimes an ejaculation can be had if enhanced by room odorizers (notably "Pig Sweat"), and/or dildoes.
I hope you add Paxil to your list(s); many others on this medication may be relieved to discover it's not them/age/? causing dysfunction.
Bruce


Ed: Thanks for the information Bruce. Personally I have no firsthand knowledge of any of the "sex' drugs, but I would caution any one to find out as much as possible - from different sources, before trying anything.
Room odorizers??? I know nothing of that, it sounds pretty dangerous, but tell us more!
Any readers having experience with enhancers -lets have your input.




I'm turning 60 and most of my sexual activity is by myself. Since I usually masturbate one way I would like to find out new ways .

Ed: You have come to the right place! Read some of the previous letters in the last couple of years and you'll find all kinds of different ways. With lubes, oils and creams. With or without a partner, Outside in the sunshine, underwater, on top of mountains, and with a hole in your pocket, in crowded rooms and restaurants, buses, movie shows and urinals. All can have their different turn-ons. You can even buy wanking machines! Buddywanks are becoming the in-thing with some of our readers and there are clubs springing up all around America. You're about to find lots of new ways.



I am not a member. I am 70, and too many people use my computer and so I am afraid to join. My problem is , I can wank for hours and nothing comes out. I told the doctor about it, he gave me some kind of pills and they have not work. I don't have a prostrat problem but getting there.

Ed: Altho' nothing comes out, do you reach a climax?
Get a second opinion... your doctor may not be that interested in helping, believing that at 70 it is acceptable. Check the herbal/organic way of building up balljuice. Click Here
And get yourself a private computer, at seventy you should be able to do what you damn well please.



My sister and I started playing " doctor" when she was five and I was ten.I laid her when she was fifteen and continued to lay her until she died at 63 some years ago.As she (and I) got older she got better and better. She would start feeling me no matter where we were. Often we would have to excuse ourselves from social meetings and hop in the back of my car and get laid. She was totally uninhibited and there was not a phony part to her. We knew each other like only siblings could. She would flash me her tits or pussy at anytime at all. She would sit next to me while I drove and play with me while her husband and son were in the back of the car. I miss her very much.

Ed: I'm sorry for your loss. I believe that many people have such relationships but only now are we finding out just how 'normal' forbidden love is.




If I join will I be able to receive your show on my web tv terminal sony INT-W100
and...
I would like to join, but i need to know what restrictions are for Web Tv users. Will i be able to send pictures and etc. I am 68 and a avid cock user.
Thank You


Ed: Yes I think so - I have not used webTV. Any reader out their who has 'seen' our website on both a computer and webTV - we need your input as to what is the difference?
As to send pictures I have no idea if the webTV lets you do that - Reader comments please? There are about 5% of the members who 'see' us via webTV and once in while someone says they have a problem logging on... but then again so do people using computers.

And talking about logging on... every so often some members may have a time when they cannot log-on - here is a fact. The Internet runs at about 80% of working. That means you have a 20% chance of something going wrong while you are on the 'Net because of a connection problem somewhere between you and where you want to be.
Our log-in problems occur to about 1% to 2% of members ( at least that's the ratio of emails pointing out to us they could not log on.). Nine times out of ten it's because they did not enter their username or password EXACTLY as they should have. The best way to find out is to re-start your computer and/or try again at a different time.



Surfing through the "enlargement ads" with all the testimonials; I wonder do they WORK for normal people?
Any comments by your readers?
Ed

Hank: Here's a comment from me... First of all who are these normal people? Most people have no real reason to have a larger dick. There are just as many partners out there who like little ones as big ones, so it should not even be a concern.
Their are many different ways one can make their dick bigger. All of them involve stretching the penis by filling it up with more blood using cock rings and the like, or hanging weights on the end of it religiously for weeks on end. There are results and lots of men swear by them, particularly cock rings. There is no pill, drug or herbal remedy that will naturally grow you penis any longer than it is. Surgery could, I suppose, but why?
Your best bet is to find a partner who likes small dicks. Orgasm is the name of the game - not size.
Hanks Average White Male Cocksize Reference Guide:
in inches
micro: 1 - 2
tiny: 2 -3
small:3 - 4
large: 6-7
extra large 7-8
Anything larger than that and a guy can make a good living with it and shouldn't be hiding it in their pants.
For penis enlargement gadgets click the toy link at the top of this page... readers lets hear your comments on dick size and does enlargement last? and what do you use to make it bigger? Also let us know which category you fall into.



Dear Hank :
Chief Wanker!!! Older man am I. I have contacted a large number of the Impotency herb, pills, you name it claimers, sellers of stuff to get your sex life up to speed. Some are even doctors, or so they claim. I wonder if Wankers could run a survey of its members and to find out from their experience if any of this stuff really works. It would be very valuable for the members to be able to access this kind of input, I respectfully think.
Our bodies are nutrative machines-very simply.
Also, gentlemen, alot of the old timers take prescription drugs for various conditions, i. e. coumadin blood thinner for prophilaxis aginst strokes, blood pressure pills of various kinds, heart pacer stuff for all those many men who have or have had Atrial Fibrulation problems which a dear friend of mine has had. I take six vitamin supplements and have no problems with any of them.
BUT IF YOU WRITE TO OR CONTACT ANY OF THE PERSONS SELLING THE "SEX" IMPROVEMENT DRUGS THE FIRST THING YOU HEAR IS TO CONTACT YOUR DOCTOR. THEY HAVE DONE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ON PRODUCT TESTING--COULD BE SELLING DYNAMITE WITH A DISCLAIMER!
Well, I did and he simply said, and I quote--" No one knows how any of these things will react with other chemicals--herbs and tree leaves are in themselves drugs and powerful chemicals. Ginseng, sold over the counter, can react with blood pressure and other drugs for the heart and who knows what the result."
I think that Wankers is in an ideal position to get into some of this.
The members seem very open. And I would think that they have been into this subject in ,many ways as yet not brought out. SO MANY OF THE MEMBERS HAVE ERECTION AND IMPOTENCY PROBLEMS!!!
Don't want to pile more work on you. And perhaps wankers does not want to get into something controversial even though it is a private club. So this is just a thought in passing.
TT76

Hank:Wankers Over 50 does not endorse any thing at all... but when a man is losing his ability to enjoy wanking, anything goes and he will do anything to restore his virility or bring back his orgasm. Anyone trying drugs, remedies or gadgets to bring back lost sexual functions, should realise that it may fall under the category of being bad for you. Believing ANYTHING any one says should be digested with a pinch of salt. Doctors are drug pushers. They prescribe pills for anything and everything. Herbal people say everything can be cured by eating something natural. The guy with a limp dick is stuck in the middle and what works for one person does not necessarily work for him.
Wankers Over 50 is more than willing to get all arguments for and against ways of improving the quality of wanking.
Let's hear what you think readers.



I would like to place a personal ad, can you assist as to how I can accomplish it on your site?
Thanks.
Mount

Ed: Just send it in with the return email address written in the BODY of the ad such as: Blah,blah,blah. email joe@hotmail.cum Blah, blah,blah
Also state your age and say that you want it posted as an ad.



I am trying to join your club but my card is being declined.
It expires in 10-04, but your computer only goes to10-03. Could this be why?
It actually is a debit card and there is money in the account. Please help.
Also, will my email address be kept confidential?? I am concerned about this.
Thanks again,
John


Ed: The transactions for joining and all access is completely done via CCBill www.ccbill.com. We keep no records of your membership information. Your transactions are completely secure and your email address is not used again. Membership is a voluntary, one time charge you are not re-billed nor re-contacted.
CCBill has no option but to adhere to every rule as laid out by the major banks who issue credit cards. Your card can be rejected for the tiniest infraction in the data you enter.
It's encrypted computer programs that decide whether to accept or reject a credit card and I have no access to do it manually.
You could email CCBill at support@ccbill.com
I can tell you tho', that 99% of the time it's an error on your part that prevents the data being accepted. We all know about typos and thats the commonest problem. Another that will prevent your card from being accepted is if any part of the name or address is different from the one your credit card statement is addressed to.
If you wish to join by regular mail - write me at http://www.wankers.com/contact.htm and I'll send details.
Here's another piece of info - if you use your credit card on the Internet and then when the charge shows on your statement you ask to have it charged back (refunded) that card number may be black-listed (refused) for use on the Internet again.
CCBill is ONLY in charge of the credit card transaction and user entry page. It has nothing to do with the CONTENT of this website.




HI GUYS,
WELL, AT 35, I'M CERTAINLY A LITTLE YOUNGER THAN MOST BUT I STILL VERY MUCH ENJOY OUR MUTUAL PAST TIME ON A DAILY BASIS! ANY POSSIBILITY OF EXTENDING YOUR MEMBERSHIP?
regards,
martin


Ed: Sure Martin, we like a few kids around - just be sure to send a pic for our older members who like you youngsters.



I need some question concerning older men and sex? If you can just email me back and i will ask thank you

Ed:it's all open here, just write your question it'll be answered on this page. We rarely answer email other than here. We never post your email address or add you to a list.



What a great page! I've been reading for about 6 months now and decided it's time to contribute. I'm 53 and been wanking since I was about 11. Age and the years have taken a bit of a toll, but I still enjoy a good tug several times a week.
I have 2 men who live with me, they're in a relationship. I'm kind of their daddy, I guess. Lately my favorite thing to do is to get naked and sit between the 2 of them on the sofa. Sometimes it's a whole lot more exciting if they keep their clothes on. I makes me feel more naked, seeing my skin and body hair against their clothed bodies. Anyway, I'm sitting there between them and pretty soon my hand creeps on down to the little man between my legs and before long, I've got a hard on that's crying for attention. So what's a man to do but give it the wanking it needs. I can't describe the feeling of total attention from them as I sit there bare-ass, jacking off with them sitting on either side of me.
I've always liked an audience, and Rick and Tony are always ready and willing to watch. I usually wank for awhile and then play for awhile, wave my hard cock around, I've always liked a little rough ball play. I like to get my pole nice and greasy and let my hand slide up and down. Feels almost as good as a blow job. Sometimes they join me and get naked and we're all 3 sitting there playing with ourselves, but for the most part, it's best when I'm doing it by myself and I'm naked and they've got their clothes on.
It was a bit awkward the first time, when I explained to them what I had in mind. I think they were a little disappointed that I didn't want them to get naked.
I sometimes wonder if there are any other men out there who get into this kind of exhibiting.


Hank: Sounds like you are having a lot of fun... of course there are other men out there who like to do what you do - probably millions of them. They are joining the wanking clubs or/and starting their own. Secretly, in small communties and openly in the larger cities.
The way things are going now I won't be surprised to see a wanking channel on TV in a few years.



When I send a message to one of the writers does it show the hotmail address? Since you don't answer email I wonder how I am going to find out.

Ed:If you are at hotmail's website program when you send email it will have that email address as a return. If you send it from your ISP (Internet Service Provider) using your email program - it will have that email adress on it. If you are not sure, just email yourself and see what it shows.



Great site.Im a divorced 65 year old male from new york who wanks at least twice a day, I sometimes go to the local sex shop (they have a sex cinema) and sit there. When Im there there always comes some guy and sit next to me and start wanking, one thing leads to another and normally I end up being sucked off. Sometimes when Im really horny I swallow my own (pretending its some one elses).
Yours sincerly Roger

Ed:Thanks for telling us that.
What turns you on readers???? Send us your experiences and wanking ways.
If it's too explicit to post here it'll be posted in the private members area.



I sure like the idea of J/O partners. I have only done it a couple times when i was about 14. We had five that got together a couple times and had a race to which would cum first. I think i have been jacking off since before i could climax. Even through two marriages. Now that i am single and 68 i still like it. I usually jack it 3 to 4 times a week. If there is anyone in Northern California close to Oregon that would like a partner i would be happy to oblige.


Ed: Thanks for your letter, if you really do want to be contacted send in a personal ad, you will get lots of responses - especially if you provide a pic.



Greetings-
I just wanted to say that I LOVE men who are 50^ (particularly "A Daddy-Bear") for they are the best "lovers" and often I am like a feral carnivorous animal that has many ecstatic orgasms without even cumming. I've thoroughly ENJOYED (still do/always will) being the "cub-otter" to my "daddy-bear". I've always had a formidable respect and trust for their wisdom drawn from their own experiences and a mystifying reverence for who they are, what they represent to me, what they can teach me, as well as what I can learn from them. Of course the reverse also applies, but to a lesser extent.
I've ALWAYS been fascinated with, spellbound by, and mysteriously attracted to a man with that "rough-round-the-edges" masculinity that trickles sex appeal with invincible masterful power pinnacled by his erotic natural jungle man scent. Perhaps that is why I trustingly submit myself to the mature man and do my very best to be receptive to his needs and pleasures (physical or otherwise). Because to me, it's much more than just a matter of gratitude and appreciation to him for what I've learnt in 25 years.

Ed: I appreciate you sharing that with the readers.

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