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Emails received between mid August to mid September Hello: Is there anything I can get to increase my seman volume? Also is there any thing I can take to give me an firmer erection? I am 52 years of age. Thank You. Terry Ed:I have no experience to call from, but, from members I often hear about 'cock-rings' which are tight rings made from rubber (or equiv.) that you put around the base of your pecker and they squeeze the blood in your veins causing your member to swell firmer/harder. This can give you a 'rock-hardon' but don't do it too tight. You could also use Viagra but check with your doctor about that. I have no idea how to increase semen but I would suspect there are certain vitamins or food supplements in the herbal stores that claim to and you may find something genuine there. Any readers who have suggestions, comments or first hand knowledge are urged to write us and we will post answers here.  Hi I've just turned fifty and have enjoyed masturbation since the age of 11. I am gay uncut and my cock is 6" when erect. Ed: well, happy birthday and thanks for cumming! I hope not to give it up (wanking) for some time yet at 65 i like also watching my wife give herself full satisfaction and also wish i could watch some one else giving her one Is this normal/ Ed:If everyone enjoys it and no-one gets hurt - it's fabulous. As to whether or not it's normal is completely beside the point - other than as an interesting statistic. So folks, write us let us know if you like to fantasize watching your lady getting poked by another guy.... Keep on Wankin'! Many of us would like to see a photo of you----clothed or unclothed. Happy Fellow Ed: Ahhh! I couldn't handle the adoration! Hi -- age 70 -- 5 3/4" uncut when up -- not relly being able to get it up lately and not yet willing to spent the $$ for viagra, I decided to buy a penis pump with attached vibrator. Felt real great and quite enjoyable till one afternoon I fell off to sleep for about 20 minutes with the dick pumped up and the vibrator running (as I said:real relaxing!) When I woke up and took it off, I noted that the vibrating "fingers" evidenly wore away a little portion of my cock (top) but back from the rear ridge. It bled for a second or two, I put antibiotic cream on it and it seems to be filling in OK -- but my question is (if you know) will the eroded area grow back or will it scar and if a doc should ask, should I be honest? I missed wanking and just had to try something to get me off.... Great page you have here and I might even get around to joining..thanks, rlw Ed:Ouch! I'm sure your pecker will heal naturally if you are unsure then see the doctor and just tell him it got caught in your zipper. Get yourself a timer for the wanking machine. i'm a 63 year old wanker...have enjoyed it since i was 8 years old......do ti about 3 times a week now.....but remember when it was daily and more....it's great.....and thanks for the web site..... Ed:Thanks for facts. Keep it up. i am a baldy wanker over 50 and am keen on this site Andrew Ed: Great!. I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and had a Radical Prostatectomy which removed my ability to get a hardon and cum. I can still have, and enjoy, a good orgasm even with a limp cock. I guess I feel "different" now but am sure there are others in the same situation and I think that we could be of great assistance to one another. Believe me losing some of the ability does nothing to dampen the desire. dick Ed:Thanks for writing. We are thinking of establishing a message board that would be especially for older men with sexual health concerns. If any one else thinks that a good idea let us know. As soon as we feel there are enough of you interested we will set it up. (....and Dick, send, us your member ID.) I am hoping that maybe you have some advice for me. I am a 23 year old female dating a guy who just turned 50. I've already had enough comments from people that I should just dump him and go with a younger guy, but we really get along well and we enjoy being with each other. Here is my problem: I do everything possible to make him happy sexually. I do oral sex with him, intercourse, everything except real far out stuff but the only way he can have an orgasm is for me to jack him. Ive jacked a number of guys before but I never saw a guy get more turned on than him when I do it. He just about loses himself when I am stroking him. I asked him once why he likes it so much, and why other sex doesn't make him feel as good. He told me that all other sex just doesn't produce the feelings that a good jacking done by a girl can produce. In that way he is very different from other guys who I dated. I used to jack a guy off so that I wouldn't have to have sex with him. Now I want to have sex with this guy so much but he prefers to have me jacking him. Is there something I can do to help him so that he can have an orgasm during intercourse? I should tell you he is healthy and usually able to get hard. They few times he hasn't been hard he has still been able to achieve orgasm by my masturbating him. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Kristin Hank: There are many reasons why wanking is the prefered method of sex for many men. Most reasons are obvious ( or should be). A male begins to wank from 10 or 11 and forms his fantasy based on his early experiences. A girl or woman could have wanked him as a child and he feels more at ease that way, or his fantasy as he wanked himself, was of a girl doing it to him. When he first formed his fantasy as a lad he probably didn't know of satisfaction in any other way. He could have had the fear of God put in him as a child and he cannot 'cum' inside a woman now because of it. Whatever the reason, the die is cast. You will NOT be able to change him. If you want to keep him happy do it the way he likes it. If you push too hard for doing it your way, he will probably quit sex with you altogether. A man's moment of orgasm is a very fragile thing and unless he is aggressive and forces his partner to do it his way, he will lose the moment. As many men are NOT that aggessive, they just stop having sex with their spouse - she thinks he is going impotent - meanwhile he's wanking every day to his fantasy. To fully enjoy your side of his sexual enjoyment, bring yourself to climax by diddling while you wank him. The other day on another site some one suggested a 6" cube of foam with a slit cut thru the center, using a condom slip your cock into the opening and go for it. I found a condom too tight to work right, so thinking about it I checked out a plastic baby bottle liner the Play tex brand called drop in liners, works great. slip a handle of some sort over the plastic and shove it thru the foam, add a few drops of lub and introduce your self to the best self pleaser that i have found. I enjoy your site, whop the old whang about 3 times a week sence 12 years old thats 55 years. thank you for your site. Ed:Thanks for sharing that with us, I'm glad you have found your way of enjoying it more. Readers. let us hear your special way of doing it. Hi Hank, Another good issue of 'Wankers Over 50'. Some really good pictures again. Silver Tip really came through with some neat shots too. (I told him so.) I like the variations that you have. And I appreciate your putting next buttons on the Gallery pictures. Each month I ponder whether to make more room for more listings in your Classified section & each month I get a new response. So guess I'll wait to take it out, unless you need the room. It would be nice if listers would highlight or capitalize there locations, but then I'm selfish again. Keep up the good work! jerry Hank: Happy to hear that, jerry. You can remain there as long as you wish, I'll see about capitalizing the next lot of adresses that go in the personals. and YES! SilverTip's photos are excellent, the quality of his photography is comparable of the National Geo's mag! Wankers Over 50 is proud to have SilverTip as a member and regular contributer. Been at it for as long as I can remember. Very well remember several incidents at age 6 or thereabouts and playing Doctor with my same age cousins. Am now into my 86th year and still at it. Was married more than 50 years, but been a widower for 14 years now. Been a member of "Wankers" for more than a year, and it helps this old man to have a "helping hand", something I didn't need when I was younger. Keep up the good work and help me keep mine up - and erect.Bill Hank:Terrific Bill! Good for you - I bet you have a few tales to tell. Lets hear about your wanking adventures and some advice on 'keeping it up' for our middleaged readers Hi - ran across Wankers Over 50 recently and I must say, reading letters of all these guys experiences, has really jumped my sex life back to the max. Thank you! Despite Paxil, which I am weaning myself from as I have found out it can cause permanent sexual dysfunction with some individuals, I am once more satisfying my wife properly and enjoying me and myself (masturbating once again as in years past). I have been happily married to a wonderful gal for 36 years. We have 5 great kids and 3 grandkids. I am 69 yo, 6'1"and 220 lbs. With a 61/2" X 2 ¼ " hard-on. When I was younger, my penis was a full 8" X 2 ½", so it does shrink, at least in my case, by about 25% as one gets older as I have read. But it feels and works as good as it did 50 years ago. I especially enjoy letters from old guys about their first experience. Let me share some of my memories. First, I must say I had a little different growing up period in that I had no buddies with which to share thoughts and experiences and no strong interest in girls although I am heterosexual. We never discussed sex at home and were always kept very busy. Besides, girls scared me half to death, so I just ignored them and left them to their own devices. I had plenty to do. At 12 I started having wet dreams, but I took these as a natural development of things and didn't concern myself about them too much. In fact if anything I found them mostly a pain in the ass when finding myself in the morning with sticky cum in my jamies, jockey shorts or long underwear. The spring of the year I was 17, I was taking a bath one evening and as usual, from day one, when I got into warm bath water, I had a raging hard-on. Our tub was a 41/2' long old style free standing with claw legs. It was so short that if I sat in it with my legs stiff and my feet flat against the drain end, my butt would be 6" up the other end slope. Anyway, I washed my face and neck, then my arms and upper torso and legs and feet. Next I knelt up and washed my buns, groin, crotch and those hanging organs. Last was my pecker head. Since it was so touchy and the wash cloth so rough, I used a soapy hand to wash it. I had such a hard-on; the foreskin hardly covered the back half of the head. For whatever reason, I was daydreaming about something or other and not really paying attention to just what I was doing as I slowly rubbed the head. Suddenly I exploded, literally, and ejaculate was flying everywhere. Scared the hell out of me for a few seconds. I'm thinking, so this is how all this sex and baby making works - duh. And my respiration has doubled along with my heart rate and my arms torso and legs are blushed a bright pink. That never happened again. (The blush that is). From the time I jacked-off until about an hour later, my penis, balls and crotch just tingled as if I were about to go off again. That too never happened again. After washing things down and pulling the drain plug, I toweled myself off and my hard-on was still so locked up I could hardly bend it enough to get it into my clean jockey shorts. What a great experience. Needless to say, from that time on, this 'self' thoroughly enjoyed himself. It seemed my penis was always in need of being cleaned under the foreskin. Since bath soap in the late forties was still quite harsh, it would make your pecker head very sore if you stroked too long. So other lubricants were pressed into service. Butter and mineral oil worked well and honey was interesting to use. It provides an interesting sensation as you pull the foreskin back. I suspect molasses or corn syrup would work the same. That fall, walking home from school one afternoon, I got to wondering if it would be possible to jack-off dry. By the time I got home and up into my bedroom, I had a good erection and striped naked and preceded to jack-off in front of the large mirror above my dresser. Worked great and that freed me up to play with myself anywhere. One afternoon I even jack-ed off at my desk in the back of study hall. Neither the nun nor the other four students in the room had any idea what was happening although I had a rather soggy handkerchief. I should pass on one other experience I had which may be of some small interest to some of your readers. My dad maintained colonies of honeybees and one day when I was 13, I was helping him 'work' one of his apiaries. Somehow a bee got up my pants leg and I wasn't aware of it until it was into my crotch area. Before I could grab it through my Levi's and smash it, it stung me on the pecker. And if you don't think that smarts enough to make your eyes water, think again. The poison in a bee sting is a highly concentrated acid and it works very nicely for the job it is intended to accomplish. When stung on the arm, hand, leg or torso, I would swell up a little. However, your crotch area is so very tender and the swelling there was much greater. My balls and penis did not swell but the skin there did as the stinger only went skin deep. Anyway, my sack grew to about twice it's normal size and I had to be careful crossing my legs or sitting down as I could easily pinch my balls. My pecker looked like I had a hard-on except for the length. Since it hangs down, the foreskin really got big and I could only pull it back a very little to pee. With the constant dull pain, there was no worry about getting a hard-on. Since there is a somewhat limited blood flow to your sexual organs, the swelling was slow to go down, in fact taking a full week before I was back to near normal. Needless to say I was very careful after that to always tie my pant legs shut while working with the bees. Ed:That's a very interesting email and again shows that every man has his own unique experience and more men should tell their tale like you have. Thank you for sending it in. Whew! that's one heck of a place to get stung... it made me cringe and share your pain for a minute. Any other readers have a painful pecker tale? I have just joined and would like to participate in the true stories and confessions dept as I feel these are very stimulating but I want to be sure my real name and e-mail address is not listed. Can you confirm this . Thanks What exactly do I see inside and can I see a preview? How often am I billed? Ed: We have several emails along these lines so we will answer some issues here: We do not post email addresses in this part of the website at all and ONLY if you ASK US TO will we post your email address in the Members Only website;. as a personal ad. We suggest that you get a private anonymous email address from a place like yahoo or hotmail, before you make contact with any website you are concerned about being associated with. We do not use email addresses in any way. We do not send you advertising, We do not send anouncements of special deals etc. We do not contact you at all. Even when your one year ($30) subscription runs out, we still don't send you email urging you to renew. It's up to you to renew if you wish without us prompting you. Your membership fee pays for all costs and we do not sell lists of email addresses. Wankers Over 50 may be an adult website. but we are just two old guys who somehow started a website that had to become an Adult club because of the privacy of it's members and the legal way to keep minors from accessing adult material. It also prevents folks who don't want to see such sites from accidently stumbling into it while browsing for something else. We think of Wankers Over 50 as a private club. We have this open part of it for the information that everyone can benefit from. Although the information here is definately of an adult nature, we feel that in comparsion to what is available via public media we are compliant with acceptable legal and moral issues. On the inside morality is out the window and we are all just a bunch of dirty old wankers. Legally, I think we are okay inside as there are no sex pix of minors ( In fact just the opposite, most pix are of middleaged, and older, men.) No animals either. Mind you, we do have outside links to some truly wicked Adult web sites. The membership fee is $30 a year. You are not re-billed monthly nor are you rebilled at the end of the year. When you get your one-time credit card statement it will not say from Wankers Over 50 nor mention this website. Members see a new 'magazine' once a month. All the old 'magaziness' are there as well, going back over 3 years. Many members send in their photos and stories and ask us to publish their email addresses and throughly enjoy the replies they get. Some members send in their contributions but ask us not to publish their email. If you like it, stay with us - it will always be your choice and we have no need to pester you to buy this or that by email. We leave that up to what you see. About trial memberships and previews: Full membership to Wankers Over 50 costs $30 per year. A preview is available but you have to become an AdultCheck member first. If you just want to get a good taste of what Wankers Over 50 is then you can join AdultCheck but you will only see the first two years of Wankers Over 50. As an AdultCheck member you will also be able to visit more than 125,000 other adult websites. (WOW!!) Many of our members belong to both. We refuse to have any public way of showing adult pictures of our members so there is no open preveiw area to wankers Over 50. Another way to get a preview, but more of a bother to everyone, is to join, have a look and then cancel after your first visit if you don't like what you see you will be refunded. Hey i am a 14/m/texas. I am 6inches and cut. Not really thick but i wack it all the time. Sometimes i go to a public bathroom and wack off while standing at the urinal and i shoooot every where it is fun to c the faces people give me Ed: Glad you are enjoing it young wanker, that's called exhibitionism. In another 36 years you can join us here. Just wanted to tell you thanks for putting this site together I hope that it will stay in good taste. Ed: Thanks for saying so. Just to let you know as if you didn't already that there are happy Wankers the world over. My name is JAMES and i am aged 51 years and live in England.I have been a happy Wanker for more years than i can remember and hardly a day goes by without getting the full benefit of my cock.I am interested to know some of the locations that your members enjoy giving their cock some exercise. One of my latest is when i visit the local launderette. I have a pair of baggy trousers and i have cut a hole in one of the pockets.Before i leave home i make sure that i put on a condom to save the spunk running down my leg. When my washing is in the machine i usually find at least one woman in the launderette who is in the need of a good f--k ,she either has big tits or a short skirt or both .I then sit in a position opposite and slip my hand into my pocket and slowly rub the end of my cock before giving it the full rub. I can only imagine what the women might be thinking or whether she knows what might be going on. My speciality is to sit as near as i can to the person before wanking and on one occasion a lady who must have been in her early sixties but had a lovely pair of tits must have realised what i was doing and asked if she could put her hand in my pocket to finish the job off which i did. Best Wishes to all you happy Wankers out there Best Wishes Jim Ed: Sex makes the world go round, enjoy it everywhere. You'll always find someone to share it with if you are bold enough I am a 34yr old male who has an older male friend "59yr's". His is devorced and has never remarried, I don't no if it is because he has no arm's ? Anyway one day I was curious if he was able to satisfy himself sexually, and some how got talking to him about it. "He was not successful and gave up after failed attempts". I really felt sorry for him and thought he should have the right to wank in his unfortunate position. One day I got the courage to offer my hand, and he accepted to my surprise!! He is cut and has a big cock, and I wank for him about 4 times a week. My only concern is when I wank him, he really enjoys the session, making alot of groans and deep breathing, but he never tells me if I am doing a good job or how he enjoyed that particular session. I would like to hear from time to time that I am doing OK. When I bring up a wank session in a normal conversation he will not talk about it, or changes the subject. I don't know why, but I enjoy wanking my dear friend !!! ( he is like a Dad ) Maybe I should try something new on him " he might open up to me a bit more" Any idea's ??? Regards Jamie Ed: If you wank him to climax then of course he enjoys it or he would not let you do it. Don't be concerned about him not saying anything. If you are able to help him in such a manner and you get enjoyment from helping him then that should be enough proof of his appreciation of you. It sounds quite normal to me that he doesn't like to talk openly about it. Most people who have such an enormous loss feel a kind of embarassment about what has happened to them and sexual activity is affected. By keeping his sexual fantasy during his encounters separate from the rest of his activities, he can forget his disability. By associating the two he may become unable to reach climax. I would advise that you give him as much as you can but allow him to keep his worlds separate. Play the game for his sake. You may be the only way he can have sex and if he is/was a strictly heterosexual man then he may not want to openly talk about it with you. Obviously you enjoy it too, so you could turn down the lights and satisfy his needs any way that pleases you. I'm a 40yro w/m that has been married twice and is currently unattached. Needless to say my last breakup has scarred me a little and I have been a work alcoholic for the past year and have only went on a few dates. I just don't have time being self-emp - not working means no money. A friend of 4yrs told me a year ago he was bi which was a shock and has took sometime getting use too. He thinks I need some relief and suggested a jmeeting. I didn't even know such clubs/meetings were around. I told him that I was str. and I didn't think I would fit in, but he said he's been to one in Orlando, Fla. and there were numerous str.'s that still participated in a mutual session. Now to my point - Is this true and is it a norm that they just buddies lending a helping hand say to speak or is he full of it? Now for my second questions - is there a club/meeting in Ms.? Travel takes time which I can't afford. Ofcoarse, my friend has offered to help, but that's to weird for me - I would actually be more willing to lend a hand to a stranger. Thanks Micheal Ed: All men are sexual, but they all have different tastes. You will find that sex between men is often different than with a women. Mostly its the commitment thing. Women tend to include sex as a small part of a relationship. Often, male sex tends to be more of a satisfying of an urge than the desire for a relationship. As to your second question. I don't know if there are any in your area, but if you are brave enough to visit a gay bar one evening you will be able to get into a conversation with someone who would know. Hello: I'm 62 and have been wanking since the age of 12. My woman was a 22 year old buxom Italian housemaid. I was 14. For a few months I had her every day. I have been married 37 years to a very sexy woman. From the start we made love almost every night. Even then However I could never cum more than once a day. Fortunately my wife's desire was not reduced by her menopause. She takes some sort of hormone pills. Now we still do it everyday, but I only make it 2 or 3 times a week. When I read of how many times others do it I am baffled! My wife makes it also 2 or 3 times a week. I still enjoy the sessions even if I flop as the loving is still great. What I have learned is that there is sex and there is sex with love. The latter is infinitely better than the first. Once, years ago, I had a high class call girl in the US. After I came she told me that it was the most intense session anyone had ever given her, and no wonder I could only make it once. I must say that after I'm finished I am so completely satisfied that I usually just fall asleep. Ed: Great! its good to hear that you are both still happily active and if you cum twice a week that's great. You sound completely happy and if you have more quality than quantity - so much the better!
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