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Emails received during July 2001 I sent you the true story of my wanking some time back. I have not received membership. Ed:Please re-submit your story. Submitting a single story will not gain membership. Submitting several stories with pix may.  Your cash membership advice mentions - confirming I have sent it in with an email from my email address that I want the membership pass sent to: this is that confirmation. I'm not sure if this is what you meant - but I don't want to delay access to your valued site by omitting - just in case. Thanks for offering this option. Ed: Yes, you have it right. An example letter is: Here is my $25 for a years membership to Wankers Over 50. I am over 21 and I want you to send it to: whoever@thisplace.cum signed joe smith. Thats the letter that you send the fee with. After you have done that then send us an email from whoever@thisplace.cum saying you have done it. When we get it (a few days to 2 weeks) we match them up and send your membership pass. I've been looking for kindred spirits for many years with NO success: and this site is the best thing that's happened to me since my first load. I sent a bio to you yesterday, the day I found your site. I just want to share that: even the Lobby areas are a real JOy. I am into extended foreplay, and fully appreciate my foreskin. I prefer the "Jerk" part much more than the "Off" part. It lasts longer (2 hours or more each shot if I have privacy). I'm also fortunate that I don't have to settle for "accidents" and can pop a number of times as needed. It's the ultimate cool that this is a place you can say that! Hooray. I am very glad you included the Statistics on "HANKS" page. And I also have a new, today, HOTMAIL address soley on your advice _ BIG Thanks as I tend not to worry about legality as I think sex so natural and unoffensive. I have a new sense of sexual freedom - and have dropped the idea that I'm alone in this and really strange. The idea that like 10,000 men are wanking along with me every time is a Great gift!! Right now I'm also watching a video of 10 straight Czech soldiers having a beer and peder party. Not pee shy and absolutely natural and... Well anyway - I'm finding that my bone is throbbing and actually aching before I even get started. Ya'll make me hard (thanks). It's not only the fantasy but the new freedom of deep down, care free enjoyment. Rock-On... ke fast Ed:Happy to turn you on. Smart move getting the hotmail account I suggest everyone get one. BUT then remember to SEND your emails thru that account. I am a 53 year old man who enjoys spending much quality time with myself every day. I began masturbating as soon as "they" dropped (14 yrs old or so) and have been a committed practitioner ever since. I have long loose foreskin and find I spend all my secure private time (like now) with my hand in my pants just pulling on it and general massaging. It's the most natural and satisfying feeling I know of. I flog the log an absolute minimum of twice a day ( every day without fail since 1960). First thing in the morning - I wake up ready, and last thing at night. On those days when I have time I manage a comfortable five times as a hobby. My personal best was 17 times in one long night. I had long since decided that solo sex was by far the most satisfying as there are no expectations, performance issues, judgements, or disappointments. My only regret is that in all my relationships - I always partnered with someone who felt if I wanked off I was cheating on them (go figure). I never did find one who could just enjoy themselves whether I joined in or not and would let me do the same. I am so glad to find this site and am sending you my membership dues right away for sure. I think it's a real shame that J/O has to be a social issue. My greatest visual fascination is being able to watch real men enjoying themselves without restrictions. I think it would be a better world if the guys at the neighborhood "Super Bowl" party could get comfortable - fool around with themselves and get off whenever as a normal actviity - like golf. Kind of a guys night out thing? BIG Thanks again - and when I get my membership I will say HI (and thanks) again. Ed:".....no expectations, performance issues, judgements, or disappointments." I like that description and add that it is safe from infections and physically stimulates the body, giving healthy workouts to all kinds of muscles. Partners feel left out if they do not perceive themselves as sole supplier of your sexual needs. Wanking is probably best left as a private and secretive act performed alone. Thats why it is so satisfying. No one else is there to interfer with your absolute fantasy, nor use it as ammunition in a later argument.. Wanking with a partner(s) is having sex with someone else. Even if you don't touch it's still having sex with another person. (regardless of presidential statements... "Ar never had sex with that woman..." after getting a blowjob!). I have just mailed my check for $25 for one years membership Please confirm; your instructions are not too clear. You said to Email to you to confirm. No other address was listed. Don Ed: ug!!! a check, checks can take weeks to clear. The option for joining for $25 is cash only - its simple and safe and is instead of using a credit card. Here's the instruction page Hi, I'm 54, well built and would like older males to be with me; like a father.? BOB Ed: Hello Bob, If this is meant as a personal ad you must say so in the email.
I am an 86 year old wanker and enjoy it at much as ever. I am not as regular as before but he feeling is still good; just keep pulling along. The erections weren't so good, so a year ago I had my urologist get me a penis pump and it has helped me a lot. I don't use it for sex-no partner-but it does give me a good erection and I love to handle it. I go to 6 l/4 inches in just a few minutes. It takes a few months to adjust to it, but the exercise it good for you. I can erupt about every week. Letters on Wankers.com help out a lot-or VCR gets me started . This has been a lifetime of pleasure for me, especially since my wife died 4 years ago. If any buddies want info on this, let me know. Keep pulling. Don Hank:Thanks for your info, anything you can advise or tell readers concerning aging and sex from your point of view is invaluable to the world wankbank. Using pumps and any other ways you have discovered to continue the joy of wanking into old age is of prime interest to wankers as they age. Especially wankers over fifty, who may be going thru wanker woe. i love wanken can u give me better ways of wanken Hank: Wank the way it feels best. If you are circumsized use a lubricant. Other than that, use imagination. personally, I just wank. No toys or aids. Just my right hand. But I've seen all kinds of things that may turn you on in the adult toy pages Hello Hank! I am from germany and i jerk off since i am 14. I am quite slow in maturation and that's why i started so late. It begun with watching a porn magazine , after a few while i played with my cock during watching all those fxxking and sucking people ,. Then i started rubbing my foreskin and it took i guess more than a half hour , til i came . I was very rapt to see my sperm for the first time. Before i didn't know how to do nor how it looked like. And on the next day in the early morning my cock was very swollen . I was a little woried about that. I also never had a wet dream . I am close to the thirties and i must admit for my shame , i never had sex with a woman. Not very long ago i didn't know kids are sometimes able to masturbate by the age of 9 . And i was also sureprised how do old men handle with this subject. I thought only the young ones are so dirty. Marc Hank: Welcum to the real world. We are all dirty old men here. Old men love the subject of wanking, go ask one. You'll be surprised at the conversations you can inspire, not to mention the situations you may get into. Every male child starts wanking eventually, some earlier than others and ALL of them keep on wanking into old age or until they can't do it anymore. Some men have never had sex with anyone, male or female. There is no shame to feel because you have not been with a woman, most societies consider this the right thing until you marry. i used to enjoy wanking and watching my self in the mirror as i fantasized about old girlfriends i used to know i did not evan touch my cock and it would get hard. i pretended to be married to a real ugly girl i know and this got me real hard. lately i don't get hard and evan if i play with myself find it difficult to get it up. the people who live next door have a 3 yr. old girl they let her out in the yard nacked i used to jackoff looking at her and this is no longer a turn on for me. my cock does not get hard why??? Ed:It might be a sign that your fantasy objects are unacceptable and your concience is letting you know that by preventing erection. Beats me how any one could get a hard on looking at a baby. Try focusing your attention to something more socially acceptable, like gaysex with a mature dominant male. Hi,its funny but I've never admitted to wanking in all my life,but I wrote to you in April,and here I am again.As I told you then,I'm 67,uncut 6",from UK ,married long time but enjoyed wanking all my life since I was taken in hand by woman when I was 11yo. She gave me so much pleasure and taught me the best ways to get pleasure by quickies and long long wanks ,mixing both that after all these years I still remember her with with thanks. Every boy should have someone like her to set you on the wanking experience. Anyway I'm still at it every day and still enjoying it every time.....BJ Hank: The days of adults having any sexual contact with children is over in the USA. Penalties are worse than those for murderers. When suspected, pedophiles are imprisoned for long periods of time and after release their name and address become public property so they can be watched, legally hounded and whenever required, targeted for police roundup, for the rest of their lives. It is by far, the most unacceptable act in America today. However for some men and women looking back, it was a 'normal' and okay thing that was enjoyed as a child and it didn't seem such a big deal at the time. For others it was a nightmare of abuse that completely screws up their adult lives. It's an issue that cannot even be discussed, as there is only one side you can be on even if you have anything to say. Why our children must learn to never enjoy sex with any one during the formulative years of wanking/diddling and must spend at least five to ten years of playing with themselves before being 'allowed' to have a partner, is a pretty important. issue... but I don't think we are about to see Ms. Braithwaite teaching wanking/diddling classes at junior high any time soon. Hank, Just curious as to why us over 50 masturbators cannot chat without paying. Port Hank: Paying keeps out a lot of people that would completely ruin the fun and brotherliness of members if it was free and open to anyone. Presently, Wankers Over 50 does not have it's own chat line. Just access to a gay one. The Oldsexuals message board seems to be a more relaxing method of communication by allowing you to think before you say something and lets you say more than just a few words at a time... no one is waiting for you to type some brief message. It's also easier for members who live in different time zones. Those are the excuses but he real reason is that the ones that we tried were too bothersome to maintain and resulted in users upset because it was down all the time. That's not to say we wont ever have one. I'm thinking of just installing a commercial java based one, so keep bugging us and we may have one soon. Seems like the good photos are dwindling .... maybe Silvertip will come through for us. I would be interested to know where you get the stats about how many women like UNcircumcised men. I only know ONE woman (in my 50 years) who can go either way -- everyone else says "no thanks," for aesthetic reasons, and because in fucking, the man is moving in his own skin and the woman feels nothing. There's also the cleanliness issue -- yep, it exists. Still like your site. Thanks. J Ed: Stats were based on the estimate that at least 2/3rds men in the world are uncircumsized. Most Europeans, Asians and native peoples of north and south America do not perform the circumcision rite on their young. The permanant interference of the natural state of their children's sex organs, occurs mainly with strict followers of the old testement - it is used as a brand, or proof of belonging. A few generations of American children were routinely circumcised but that seems to be coming to an end as more and more doctors, hospitals and even parents are being sued by the victims of circumcision and the practice is dropping off among those not required to do so by their faith. Cosmetically a nicely crafted circumcised penis appeals to Americans as the Statue of David's natural one does to Europeans. Very few of us have a real choice as to whether our peckers get chopped up when we are infants. Our parents make that decision for us and that's the penis you have to live with. Either way one will never really know what the other way is like. Of course, looking at some of the new young parents it's quite likely that a few of them will soon put little rings thru their kiddies peckers at birth and begin a whole new debate. hello, i'm a 34 year old female i was just surfing the web when i saw your site. my husband is 44 wev'e only been married a bit over a year and i catch him masterbating all the time and he doesn't want sex. have you ever heard of this...is he cheating? help...i'm brokenhearted....sandy Ed: Hello Sandy. Yes, it's pretty common with men that age. Especially if he's had to do without a woman most of his life. Is it cheating? that depends on the rules of your relationship. He's probably sexually afraid of you or feels you have somehow let him down as to what he thought the marriage was going to be. He must have feelings for you or it's unlikely he would have married you in the first place. Maybe he feels you are too agressive and he resents that as many older men do. Wanking can be far more satisfying than the 'real' thing if his sex life has been spent deep in fantasy. Few real partners can match fantasy ones. If you want this to change try being in that fantasy, confess to him that everytime you catch him wanking it turns you on so much you have to diddle yourself to orgasm thinking of him wanking. Ask him to choose a dildo for you. It may lead him into bed with you more often. The love of his life is his tool. Make it the love of your life too. Concentrate on making his wanking times enjoyable with your physical being and leave his mind alone. Many men deeply love wives that they cannot relate to in bed and can be wonderful in every other way. It's not your fault. You have to decide whether the rest of him is worth loving and living with. If it's any consolation, you probably have millions of equally frustrated sisters. Many marriages could be saved if the wife thought it worthwhile to worship her husband as king and she merely one of his favorite concubines. Few women will do that, so the men who have spent their entire lives wanking to such a daydream, can seldom settle into a comfortable sexual relationship with an equal partner. I bet right now, there are many men in their dens and basements, garages and barns, wanking away, while their wives are crying themselves to sleep alone. As the book says...All Men Are Bastards! Hello Hank; i renewed my membership as Wankers is one of my favorite sites on the internet. I still wank a few times a week. I'll be 68 years old on Aug.1. Years go by in a hurry, I didn't think I would this old so soon, however I still enjoy good health and still look young. I will send in a picture when I get a digital camra. I enjoy reading the letters you post for us to read. Thankyou for a great site. stu_sk Hank: Thanks for renewing And happy birthday to you. It's not how young you look it's how young you feel and you seem to be enjoying life just fine. time does fly and its up to us to do what we want to do, now!. We have no time to wait. We are looking forward to those pix. hello ed!i like 2 thank u 4 putting my letter on your site!and by writing this letter i am touching myself and and i am busy wanking off on my 5,5 inc cock and i love 2 meet you in person.aaaaaaggggg just shot on my keybord! karel,south africa Ed: cooooooool! I am interesting in your list of medications causing impotence. The list was mentioned by one of your readers, but I must have missed the publication of the original list. Thank you ! Ed: It'll still be on the site somewhere. I'm afraid this website has pages and places on it that are buried deep in the archives and you'll have to dig around as I cannot remember when the letter was posted, but it'll still be here somewhere. However if any members want to offer a new list please do. 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