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 I thought pages were updated each month? None since July of this year Hank: We recently suffered a hard drive crash and lost some data.(Right after I had finished this section!!! Arrhgg!) I'm attempting to re-construct that now and now have the Aug/Sept letters rebuilt. If your letter was intended for here and is missing please re-submit. The letters to the editor section is updated about every 4 - 8 weeks, depending on the amount of printable letters we get. The letters here have slowed down over the last couple of years as more members use the Oldsexuals Message Board to express themselves more openly and explicitly. Other parts of the 'public' areas of the website are permanant and only updated a few times a year. The private members-only area of the website is updated with a new on-line magazine updated with new members pics and stories the first week of every month. SOOOO... Better late than never...read on...The oldest first. Sarah, keep looking your still so young,IM only 44 and now having a hard time trying to find an old Grey cxxk,I have had several old cxxk when I was your age, I have sxxk fxxk, and (j/o incredible) and spend many nights masturbating for my husband, but its just not the same, never stop its the best sex you will ever have. Trust me when I say this is the hardest thing you can do, but just masturbate for a old man and let him j/o himself first. second round sxxk fxxk and take it up but first,masturbate alone and let him do the same.you will have the excitement of your life. signing off to masturbate this still great body. Ed: For Sarah? I am 61 and have been happily tossing off my 7" for about 50 yrs.I would like to have a good mutual wank with a kindred spirit. Ed: Well close your eyes and think of all the others doing the same as you. There is a conservative estimate of 155,556 males wanking at any given minute of every day. As a woman who has been involved in sales for three decades, in a managerial position, I long ago learned the value of "market research." As a widowed woman who has chosen not to remarry, but who is determined to remain sexually active for many more years, I find it valuable to see what men discuss among themselves, and the sort of things they enjoy. A male friend who knows of my curiosity about sexual matters tipped me to the Wankers board, and I've read the postings (most of them, anyay) with fascination. I've had a good number of sexual partners over the years (I am 71, although I should lie about that point!!) and I thought I knew quite a bit about male sexual habits. But reading the postings about masturbation, and how men go about finding satisfaction, has been an eye-opener, and I thank you for running such a site. Hank: Well, we don't want to give anything away, but keep in mind that the average boy has wanked at least 2000 times by the time he's legally old enough to have a partner... and most likely a lot more than that! This means that we are left to our own devices, as it were, to create fantasies during wanking. Later when we are finally permitted to have it off with the fair sex, most of us have developed an unfaltering sexual fantasy that follows us throughout our entire sexual life. An entirely different fantasy than the next guy and usually a million miles away from what women believe about us. Here's some food for thought: Hank's Philosophy 101. Boys who are aroused enjoyably and intentionally by a female from babyhood on will become interested in female sexual overtones and activities and probably be avid heterosexual for life. Boys who are aroused by genital association with pain when it is not enjoyable like from mother's arms to circumcision back to mothers arms (excruciating pain for many days from urine burning their freshly chopped peckers while being comforted by mum) or nappy rash combined with genital pampering could lead boys to instinctively think mothers and nurses - hence women - are a pain in the pecker. It'll take a lot of nursing him back to the comfort zone. Later he may enjoy mild to wild S and M. By the time a boy has discovered he can wank and get a great feeling from it anytime night or day, in few minutes, anywhere, his basic sexual tastes have already been programmed, or as society likes to classify it, he is hetero, homo or bi. He will now search out from his confined areas, objects to get off on. As we are not taught 'officially' by any parent or teacher how or what to wank to, we wank to the strangest things. Robert Crumb the cartoonist of hippy days admits to wanking off to pictures of Bugs Bunny in the comics. An older (75) friend confessed to me that he used to jerk off reading Popeye. Another wanked to wonder women and still gets off on strong and aggressive women, preferring whips and tights rather than flowers and lace. Comic book sex is now a common outlet for thousands of teen boys even more so now that erotic comic books are commonplace. Coloring his tastes alone he'll get off on objects ie: boots, underwear, dildos, pix, rubber ducks, GIJoe or his sister's barbies, - if he has a human partner/partners he'll get off on people and the human touch and depending on his mix of partners during the crucial early years he will sexually develop according to his first genital experiences applied to and mingled with, newly found sexual partners. Think of early genital associations as instinct and objects or human partners as acquired habits. Surprise your boy while he is playing with his dick and crash his fantasy and your reaction, plus his accumulated sexual knowledge will affect his fantasies for life. Throw religious or parental fears into the mix and years later you have a secretive, paranoid wanker who, not wanting to rock the boat or even stand up in it, will probably do the right thing - get married, have routine, moderately enjoyable, sex with his spouse, raise a nice family, pay taxes and take the grandkids to the zoo. Or he will lead a more singular life as a confirmed bachelor or gay man, but whichever row he hoes results in lots of monosex - masturbating. The mold for the average male over 50 (us and our members). We all fall into the mix somewhere. Inside the members only part of this website, there are thousands of confessions, stories and photos about what older folks and admirers like and what they enjoy showing each other. - the variety is truly amazing and the last 5 years worth of accumulated stories, pix and everything else is a very revealing sex encyclopedia of men over 50. When we began this website we hoped it would help older men 'find' themselves(us?) That's why altho' packed with every dirty pic imaginable and much you never thought about and all to do with older men, it's neither a homo or hetero website but rather for individual masturbators to express their innermost selves with other wankers away from minors and others not interested. It's strange to find out that dirty* old men often seem to prefer other dirty old men and/or dirty old women, so to heck with youth - who needs it! huh? (dirty* usually means unwed or sexually active past childbearing age) Bring on the Internet and a soapbox like this one and we are all finding out that, altho' different we're all very much the same. I suspect females are pretty much the same too. hello i am 13 years old and i mastubate about 7 times a week if not more first is that to much?? i havent had my period but i do have orgasms? i dont go inside my self just rub the outside. now is it possible to have sex without having ur period? does it hurt more? does mastubating that much afect me physicly? or later in life? im serius about all these questions please help. thank you Hank: Physically you can only hurt yourself by being too rough. If you are not going inside yourself then it is unlikely any damage will be done. Rubbing yourself every day sounds fairly normal and natural. About your period I'm afraid I haven't a clue ask a doctor or at least another female. Logic tells me that it probably wont be enjoyable or desirable during your period and a bit messy to bother with, unless of course you feel horny, then do what you will - using commonsense. When and if you do start to stick various objects inside yourself, be sure that they are not too big or too rough and make sure they are VERY clean. Your biggest worry is infection. The worst known effect of masturbation is guilt. Forget the guilt and play with yourself whenever you want - it's your body, and like your grandma would tell you - be careful. when I was about 11, I was taking my dog for a walk and I stopped to pee in some woods. After I peed, my dog gave me some licks and the sensation made it hard. I began to wank it slowly, and suddenly I felt great pleasure and white stuff spurted. That day I wanked about 8 times. Now I'm 64 and still wank several times a week. George Ed: More! Did you develop a dog fetish? Where can I place an ad for old men to Jack off? Also where can I get photos of old men jacking, 60-100 years of age please. I am 40 years of age and male Ed: In the members area. Hallo Editor, Hank & Fellow Jackers I am 40 years of age and have thought for years that I was alone in jacking off. I have lived in rented accommodation and people have heard me and sneered and gossiped about it. I felt an outcast. Thanks to finding your letters pages and reading all of you comments, I feel complete. (Should that be cumplete?) Since joining aol, I have made some errors like chat rooms for the elderly where you chat to people who turn out to be dog abusers and continue to talk to them and being lonely, fantasise about them. WELL NOT ANYMORE! NOT NOW I HAVE FOUND THIS PAGE. No more fantasies and only the truth! I WOULD NEVER ABUSE AN ANIMAL SEXUALLY AND EVEN MORE IMPORTANTLY, I WOULD NEVER ABUSE A CHILD SEXUALLY. I NEVER HAVE AND I NEVER WILL! CHILDREN AND ANIMALS HAVE THE RIGHT TO PUT TRUST AND FAITH IN YOU AND SHOULD BE GIVING THE RESPECT OF RETURNING THE TRUST AND FAITH WITH SHEER DECENCY NOT LEERED AT AND FONDLED ASSAULTED AND RAPED IN RETURN. I think that there should be some special gaol for men and women who rape and murder children. Somewhere where they will never be released. Those people are absolutely sick. If you have not yet cottoned on to what I am saying, it is down with child and animal abusers. Beware of who you talk to on the net. they could be dog abusers. I have never found myself talking to a child abuser and hope I never will. Oh fellow jackers. Please be careful! If you find yourself chatting to them, change your screen name so you do not chat to them again. --- wank every day, two or three times if possible in an old t-shirt. single and happyyyyyyyyyyy oh yessssssssssssssssssssssss! dream of men 60's - 90's who let me toss them off or romp in bed to get real hard and french kiss and ruffle hair and caress bodies whilst rock hard. all men are married or widowers. --- In the past I have been easily led through loneliness and been involved in conversations I would rather not have had in chats on the internet. Dog abusers trying to get me involved. Not a chance! I am 40 and have decided to make a stand for myself and will not chat to obscene people. I am a wanker who has a five inch cock and use it every day. I have been circumcised and use an old shirt to wank with. I usually start with right hand and end up with left holding a picture of man from 1981 newspaper I fancy like mad. I take about three quarters of an hour to wank whilst on my bed and on lying on my back feet on bed, shirt bottom 4 inches over dick and away I go. I fantasise about other older men black and white, fat and thin with hair or without. Favourite at moment is enormous bearded lorry driver who I stop entering massage parlour about to be raided. He invites me up to his lorry cabin and behind it we strip off and I sit on his dick and the 54 year old trucker/lorry driver introduces me to male sex with a vengeance. The sex fantasy is clean and above board Ed: Thanks for all the emails and your points of view. Everyone has a different fantasy. If it remains a fantasy it really doesn't matter what it is as no-one else will ever know. I agree that to take the fantasy to real life and impose it upon partners unwilling or unable to legally consent is a crime. SOMEONE TO E MAIL CATHOLIC NOT DIRTY IN THOUGHT CATHOLIC CLEAN NEED MAN Leona Ed: Sorry Leona - no clean minded catholics here. Ever wonder where the word "shit" comes from.....well here it is Certain types of manure used to be transported (as everything was back then) by ship.......well in dry form it weights a lot less, but once water (at sea) hit it, it not only became heavier, but the process of fermentation began again, which by products is methane gas.....and as the stuff was stored below decks in bundles you can see what could (and did) happen, methane began to build up below decks and the first time someone came below at night with a lantern.. BOOOOM! Several ships were destroyed in this manner before it was discovered what was happening. After that the bundles of manure where always stamped with the term "S.H.I.T" on them which meant to the sailors to "Ship High In Transit". In other words high enough off the lower decks so that any water that came into the hold would not touch this volatile cargo and start the production of methane. Bet you didn't know that one. It was news to me! EA Ed: I imagine thats also what the sailors would exclaim when it blew up!. I recently wrote you a long letter from Italy and it was refused because ( there is no email address with this name) Is it possible you can let me know if this short message is received before i embark on another lengthy letter. I would very much like to join . Thanks. Signed Desperate Italy Hank: The email address for ALL email to this website is: http://www.wankers.com/contact.htm If an email was refused, it's the wrong address or it may just have been a skipped internet connection or it contained a virus and the server refused it. Either way, resend the email and we'll try again. Thanks anyway, I'll be looking forward to reading it. Sir: Could you please let me know how I can join by sending cash. Tell me how much in u.s. funds, where to send. Also do I have to submit a screen name, and password when I send you the money for my membership? Please e-mail me with info. Thanks. Ed: Go Here to join. Take the link at the bottom of that page to join by cash. Hello to all Members Michael here from the UK. I'm a new member, aged 66, widowed, active, fit and healthy. Been an addict since the age of 10, always enjoyed it even during many years of happy marriage. Single now and would like to contact other mature masturbators particularly ladies. Here are a few thoughts on our wonderful hobby - Why Masturbate? Reasons to Masturbate - as though you needed any!!! Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun. Because masturbation proclaims that sex is good in, by, and for itself. Because masturbation makes you a better lover. Because you can have more sex, more often. Because sexual pleasure is each person's birthright. Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex. Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love. Because you don't need a partner to experience great orgasms. Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate problems for men and resistance to yeast growths for women. Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout - better than jogging! Because each person knows their own body and is their own best lover. Because masturbation is a wonderful source of pleasure and release for the older but still horny person. Because masturbation greatly increases sexual awareness. Because masturbation with a partner can be educational, fun and hot! Because there's nothing on TV. Because there is something on TV - a porn video! Because your lover's cum and you haven't. Because your lover's gone and you haven't cum. Because you don't even need glasses yet! Because it just feels SOOOOO FRIGGING GOOD !!!! Ed: That sums it up nicely! While I suspect "this is true, I WONDER"! A man in his late sixties described going on a "cruise" to test his sexual performance some months after the death of his wife. Apparently, he had minimal difficulty "picking up prospects" even to the point of occasionally "enticing" two women to his room for "group" sessions which included "all possibilities" of combinations. Since he got married several months afterwards; I guess he "passed the tests"!!! "I" would worry about AIDS and all sorts of other things... Just curious, is this a common OCCURRENCE??? George from Georgia Hank: Hi George, if we believe tv and the movies - yes it's fairly common that many people have sex with multiple partners they don't know. A cruise ship is a hive of clandestine sexual contacts but If they play it safe and use a condom it's unlikely that AIDS will occur from it. Other infections will not be a problem if cleanliness and safe sex is practiced. But also consider that cruise ships often stop in foriegn ports teeming with sex traffic trying to make a buck - tourism is probably what brought AIDS to the USA in the first place. Preventing HIV by avoiding sex is like not eating for fear of food poisoning. Just like you watch what you eat - If you doubt your partner/s bill of heath then practice safe sex by using condoms and soap and water before and after. Wanking is the healthiest form of sex and cannot give you aids. Hi, I am a guy of 21.I masturbate once a day.After i masturbate i get a pain on the left side of the abdomen.I would like to know weather this is normal in the case of all males.I would be grateful if you would reply to this at the earliest. Yours Truly, Jim Hank: No, it's not normal - see a doctor. I'm glad I found this site as I was worried that there was something wrong with me. I am a happily married 29 yr old guy with an average sex life (ie at least once a week), but I still masturbate on a daily basis. I really enjoy it, it gives me a chance to fulfill sexual desires with a woman ( I only masturbate thinking about women) , but with the personal belonging that only comes when a man has his dick is his own hand. I have feared for many years that this is something I should have outgrown (been at it since I was 13), but seeing this site I realise I am not on my own. TY Ed: You are certainly not on your own. The only worry is that wives can feel very left out. They want to be the only way you get off so keep her happy too. You will never outgrow it - nor should you! Yo Hank! Had that pecker by its thick red head while carousing through my wanker club membership!!! I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Many thanks for your speedy reply! I'll give the pecker a few extra strokes in your honor! Wonderful club!!!!! George Hank: Yo! Hi, I am 64 and have a 6 1/2" cut dick. I enjoy your site and reading about my fellow wankers, as with most of your readers I started when I was about 13 and have continued regularly since then. I do not see any mention in the letters about sensitive nipples. My nipples are so sensitive that a little rub will produce a hard-on and if I continue I can almost get an orgasm without touching my cock. Although to finish it off I always have a hand job George Ed: Thanks George (different George to the other letter). some men get very stimulated by nipple nippling - me, I cringe at the idea of squeezing my nipples - they are too sensitive. when they get hard from the cold, and rub against my shirt it irritates me to no end. There are some pics inside showing guys with clamps and chains and even piecing their nipples - Yikks! it's pure torture to me and yet so cool to other guys. And hey! how come when a man gets cold his cock shrinks and his nipples get hard? Dear Hank, I discovered your site recently and was interested to read that some of your contributors are, like me, in a realtionship but still enjoy some solo activity. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Solo wanking was initially a source of friction between us: he saw no harm, while I felt it signalled a lack of togetherness, even infidelity. Gradually, as I came to feel more secure in the relationship, his wanking seemed less of a threat. Finally, to my boyfriend's great amusement and relief, I rediscovered the pleasures of solo wanking for myself! The arrangement suits both of us. Accidental intrusions on each other's "private moments" result in nothing more than a knowing smile. And, paradoxically, we have become closer than ever. PS: Vital statistics: Age now-37, started at age 16, frequency now-once/twice a day, average time per session: 10 minutes. Hank: There you go - wanking is not a threat to a stable long term relationship unless it's cuts your partner out of the picture. Hi fellas, I mailed you just the other day to say how, after years of jealousy that my boyfriend was wanking privately I finally came to accept the situation and got into the habit myself. Forgot to mention that I'm a 37 year old gay man - just to clear up any possible confusion on that point! I wank most nights, sometimes in the day too, and usually with lube. I'm cut, 5 inches when fully hard. My boyfriend thinks it's funny that I was so prudish about it before but am now visiting sites like yours. I guess I can see the funny side too. Got to go now - my cock's demanding attention again! Best wishes, Ant Hank: Another male, unless consumed by unreasonable jealously or justifiable loneliness, would certainly understand wanking alone. Again, let me stress that wanking while in a relationship is as normal as can be - it only becomes a problem when the partner is left out of all sexual contact with you or you constantly refuse his/her advances. You sent your home page... but sorry i couldn't bring none of it up with this Web Tv.. but i would like to get to know you... please try again and send some pictures. and if you are interested i will do the same hugs from Florida, Paul and Mike Ed: NO NO NO We NEVER EVER - not once in our lives have we sent an attachment of pix including our home page or anything else to members or readers. We have considered having an opt-in mailing list that we could send a newsy letter to you all along with subtle ads to make some extra dough, but as of yet we have done nothing about it. You know the type, a newsletter with a few original sentences interspaced with links to adult places of interest to wankers that we can make a commission on or sell advertising space in. we'll let you know - meanwhile if you hear from wankers.com unasked for via email, delete it! it ain't from us. If your penis has stopped working over the course of a year or so - that is, it gets hard but soon goes soft,usually before you come - see your doctor. If he says it's all in your head, find a new doctor. I had this problem start when I turned 60 - by the time I turned 61, I could barely have sex, since I would get soft halfway through. Coronary artery disease runs in my family. Most of my older male relatives died from their first heart attack. I told my doctor about this, including the sex problem and he gave me the heart stress test, which involves running on a treadmill while hooked up to an EKG machine. He agreed that I suffer from coronary artery disease and put me on a few medications that dilate my blood vessels, slow my heart rate and reduce my cholesterol. Coronary artery disease occurs when all your arteries are clogged with fatty deposits. When the arteries which supply blood to your penis become clogged, you cannot maintain an erection. Therefore, the occurrence of that problem is a good indication that you have clogged arteries and need to do something to prevent a heart attack. Again, if your doctor says it's an emotional or mental problem, find another doctor. Your body is trying to tell you something and you'd be a fool not to pay attention to it. You'll have to resort to a vacuum pump or penile injections, or both, to get your penis working again and you can't use Viagra when you're on the medications I'm on, since Viagra reacts with the drug and can cause a heart attack, but you can get it working again. Good luck. Please take my advice. It could save your life. Ed: Thanks for that. Okay readers he's right. Your penis is probably a good sign of serious problems regarding blood pressure. If it's stopped working even after giving it a comforting playtime and you you haven't cum in the last month - see a doc or better, see two. Man I would just like to talk to some old folk and maybe share some pictures--not out to hurt anyone's feeling , just have a good time----uno. Ed: You'll find plenty contacts via the Oldsexuals Message Board!
Dear Ed, I was brought up to consider masturbation a shameful activity and have struggled for most of my life to abstain from it. I am 55 and live alone. It is tremendously reassuring to know that so many men indulge in this pastime and are willing to share their experiences. I would very much like to correspond with other men who have been able to overcome their own inhibitions in this regard and may have some words of encouragement to offer. (Please post my address... Ed: This whole website should provide you with those words of encouragement - I'll post this in Novembers Ads and I'm sure you'll get lots of answers.
I would like to give a gift of the restricted area for a year,and I'm not sure how to use my credit card. Do I put all HIS information as a member, or do I put mine? My friend is over 60, as am I, and it would make an unusual gift for him. Can you help me? Thanks, Judy Hank: The actual credit card used must be the person who owns the card - using the credit card billing name and address. Put his email address down instead of yours and the subscription information would then go to his email address. If you prefer you can also subscribe by snailmail using cash or International money, order via this link: Click Here. If you use the regular mail method be sure to mention that it is a gift from you and put his name and email address as well as yours. Then along with his membership will be a greeting that this gift is from Judy and an email will go to you to let you know he got it. It'll take about 1 -3 weeks depending on where you mail from. You save $5 processing fees by not using a credit card. Presently the one year (365 days) full membership is only $25 by regular mail altho' this may very well be increasing a few dollars as new fees and licensing are coming into force from VISA and Mastercard and that cost will have to be reflected by a higher membership fee. just wanted to say hello, i am male, 57, and i activaly enjoy masturbation,, and mutual masturbation,,, just wanted to know, if any of u besides myself, enjoy the use of a pure silk scarf, while wanking,?? later i will send a letter or story to that effect,, great site, thanks, mike Ed: Hello, glad you like it here. We are looking forward to your letters and stories about silk scarves, the usual silk garments used by wankers are panties and slips. There's something very sexy about silk so all you silk buffs let us know your fantasies with silk. If anyone reading this has a few minutes - email us right now and tell us about your favorite wanking item or/and fantasy - share!
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