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 I am just over 36 and I do not think I am qualified for your criteria as to age. However, I am confident that I am quallified as a wanker. I remember I had my first wanking experience when I was 15, that is when I was in high school. At that time, My father and I slept in one room and my mother in the other. One day, when it was late night, I was going to pee just finding that my father missing mother groaned in the other room. I quitely moved to the other room, only found my father was on my mother's body. ...it was from that night that I kept wanking myself. Last October, just before I went to the States, When my father-in-law and I are talking erotic thing, I wanked him, and one month later, when I am back from the States, I wanked my father-in-law again. I am puzzled if I am a gay. I had to admitted that there are only two men in the world--one is my father, the other is my father-in-law. My father was now 75 years old and my father-in-law is 65 years. I am anxious to wank them, but they both seems to be objected to it, So, what can I do? Please help me, waiting for your reply Sincerely George Ed: If you want to have sex with them exclusive of heterosexual relations ..er... the other kind of relations with members of the opposit sex, then you can consider yourself homosexual. Gay is usually thought of as openly living your preference ie: gay lifestyle. Here's a way to decide.... imagine yourself naked in a bed lying between a soft, cute and cuddly lady and a gruff old father-in-law with a hard on... which one would you turn to? Your answer will determine your orientation and you can then make a lifechanging decision to leave your past behind you and run off to San Francisco to live an openly gay life. Or you can stay at home forget your urges and carry on like most do. Or/and give the old guys a wank now then without doing so much soul searching about it. If all your wanking thoughts are around men then the decision should be easy to make. In reference to your other email (which is a bit too racy for posting here),We would be glad to see the pix you mention. i'm a compulsive masturbator,i have a fat 9"cock,I'm 54 married. I first started wanking with my mother, she use to rub herself watching me wank.this was happening every day 'till i was 16 when i left home.by then i was masturbating all the time and if i was with a girl i had to stroke to reach climax.I got married with a "party" girl 'cause she was going with every body and I use to masturbate loving to be a cuckhold.Now at 54 i'm addicted to porno and i still do it average 4-5 times per day. I make them last so it keep me busy most of the time.I don't have intercorse with wife or any body.I need to stroke all the time. Ed: That's very interesting - mother watching - normally moms freak out or at least never let on....keep stroking! Hello, I jack off about 1-2 times a day. Afterward I feel guilty and that I should not be doing this and I just feel all weird, is this normail?, is this ok? Am I jacking off enough a day or should I do more? Should I masturbate at all, I mean I enjoy it in all? Well if you could help me out here it would really mean a lot to me and I would really appreciate it. Thanks. Hank: You should not have guilt feelings about wanking. It's a completely normal and extremely healthy exercise that should be done at least once a day or as often as you want to. Your age can be a factor in how often as can how busy your life is. How often you jack off is usually dependent on two things, desire and opportunity. Hard working people who put in long hours often fall asleep before sex with a spouse but can usually find a couple of minutes to have a quick wank in the can during the day. Men with lots of time on their hands can easily wank to finish 3 or more times a day. This will taper off as one passes thru their sixties Jacking off is very necessary (until you are legally old enough to do it with a partner) at least once a day, if not it's up to you to take care of yourself and wank daily. In a few cases this may not be possible. Such as if you are on certain medication or use certain street drugs... Then you may lose sexual desire. Remember if you have little sexual desire or become too paranoid about it to the point where you end up wanking less because of the 'guilt' you going to feel after, then you're probably facing erectile dysfunction after a few years or worse, prostate problems later. the first from your mind fighting with your version of morality, scarred that way from your upbringing and the second from ignoring vital cock excerise that nature begs us to do daily from puberty on. I mean really, how can one not respond to those massive hardons that suddenly spring forth for no apparent reason? It's natures way of saying... cum'on baby, do me, do me now. For a man there are three 'normal' ways he has sex: The three ways can be a mixed bag as all three sum up a healthy man. But the last one - quick wanks - must not be all! You must have either some real satisfying and fulfilling sex with a partner or by yourself, but never relegate wanking to only quickies in the can. Quickie wanks are like blowing your nose - necessary and about as memorable. The usefulness of sex other than to repopulate, is the erotica of foreplay with a partner or alone with your fantasy. Drawing out the orgasm until you reach nirvana can be stretched out for hours. The incrediable sensations and waves of orgasmic joy that roll over you and the immense peace and tranquility that you experience after is soul satisfying and necessary for staying at peace with yourself and the rest of the world. This may be a long story, but I have been living for a long time. I will start by stating that I am now 79 years old. I first started wanking ( I don’t like that word but do not know what else to use) when I was 9 or 10 years old. A friend at school explained that if I would slide it up and down for long enough it would feel real good. He was right, and that became a part of my life for ever. That was quite a while before I started having ejaculations. During my childhood I had guilt feelings about this but that didn’t stop me, it would be too much to give up. After I married at age 20, the guilt feelings quickly disappeared and my wife and I enjoyed our pleasures together. Throughout our marriage, almost 60 years now. During most of our marriage we probably averaged having sex a couple of times a week. About a couple of times a month now. Between times we wanked. Some time I would do it and some time she would do it for me., and me for her. A couple of years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. We elected to have it removed surgically. Well that changed everything. I can no longer have erections on my own and have cum. However, I still have wonderful orgasms. When my wife wants to have sex, she has to give me an injection directly in my penis. This will give me an erection that will last for an hour or so. Enough to have a good party. Still, between times we wank. You do not have to have an erection to reach climax when wanking. With my left hand I encircle the base of my penis which gives it enough support that I can wank with my right hand. My wife still does it for me much of the time. When I do it, she likes to rub all around my belly and penis and balls. When I am close to a finish she applies a little pressure just below my balls where she likes to feel the little spasms when I climax. She always gives a little chuckle and me a big kiss. I still give her pleasure either manually or orally any time she wants it. I don’t really know why I am sending this to you except I wanted to tell someone about it, and there is no one else I could tell it to. I feel good about my life and my sexuality and perhaps this could help someone who reads it to feel good about themselves. Here we are, late in life and still enjoying our sex and each others bodies. Steve Ed: Thanks for the detailed story. This is really wonderful that you have, and are still having, an enjoyable sex life with your life time partner even after such drastic surgery. We should all be as fortunate. May you be blessed with many more years together wanking and enjoying each other's touch. Hi, On your fascinating site which seems to be packed with good stuff,(I'm a great wanker, too!) I noticed you carry a long list of pro- and anti- circumcision sites, (including, as everybody does, Circlist!) As ours has now become the most popular and fastest-growing free site on the web for males interested in the more erotic aspects of circumcision, perhaps you'd consider giving us, too, a mention. (You might even want to take a look at all we have to offer.) It's: groups.msn.com/CIRCUMCISEDGUYS Many thanks, Kutkat. Ed: Check it out folks! i started wanking when i was 7 i used to lay over a chair and rock i did not no at the time what i was doing but it felt nice .I am 50 now but do it by hand now . Ed: cool Right now I have a 5 inch little pennis. How can I jerk it to make it Larger. My girlfriend says "when we fuck she can hardly feel my dick in her pussy". Please Help me and Tell Me how to Jerk it to make it bigger. Hank: According to those that know these things, 5 ins is the norm for many guys. Your girl does not show much tact I'd drop her if she pointed that out to me Maybe you should give her a big cucumber and tell her to shove it. However this is a good time to talk about "HOW TO GET A BIGGER PENIS" These are the ways: A surgeon adds bits of flesh and skin to it, oh, and maybe plastic too. You attach heavy weights to your cock and let gravity pull your cock longer and spend hours of hand exercises pulling and tugging. For a quick fix you can put a tight band around the base of your pecker which squeezes and increases the blood pressure in your penis' veins thereby making your cock hold more blood than it should and so making it larger. There are no pills or diets that'll make it any bigger. Nor should you want to make it any bigger. Enjoy what you have and get a girl friend with a smaller hole. Or if you really love her then next time she complains she can't feel your pecker in her pussy, stick it in her mouth instead. dear ed thank you for a grate sight . my name is bob and im 50 yo to day i have been wanking for as long as i can remember. i found your sight a few weeks ago and my wanking has gone up 100 per cent .i have been married for 27 years but have always enjoyed a good wank .its nice to have found your sight and to know im not the only one .hope to join soon and will write my full story please do not print my e mail address Ed: Thanks for writing, glad to contribute to your wanking enjoyment - looking forward to your story. Is you, club in now? Ed: yarb? I am 62 love wanking and have tried to join wankers without success, my email is (xxx) and I would be happy to subscribe if I can find a wankmate in Scotland Ed: we have a few scottish members - only way to contact them is via the personals or message boards. Hank--Have written before to you about my Wanking days,the long road trips when I would wank for hours at a time. Was just reading my old letters to your site. Was sitting reading with a hardon that a cat couldn't scratch,and it started to rain in buckets. Since I already had a stiff one, I went naked out into the rain, which was pretty cold and wanked until I added to the down pour. This was one of the best wanking sessions I have had in a long time. Even though I shot the load farther than I have in a long time, as cold as the rain was, it is still hard as a rock. I will have to go out again. I have wanked in a lot of different places since I started when I was nine,in the rain is still the best. When I was a teenager I sat on our front porch with loose shorts on and wanked as the cars went by, I had to do it slow,but that only added to the pleasure when I came,and back then that was quite a load. Other than my teen years, when me and my buddies would Jack each other off, I do it alone with a hard 8'' plus in my hand. A while back I was driving and jacking off and when I came I hit the windshield, they should make cars with wipers on the inside for guys who like to drive and wank. There aren't many things that I do that can take the place of a good wank. When I was in the service I had to find places on the ship where I could wank and not get caught. At 62 I will keep wanking as long as the pole rises. My wife says to wank whenever I get the urge, and she is working like tonight. When I was a teen we junked cars, and there wasn't too many cars that went to the junkyard that didn't have one of my loads in it, those were the days. Taking a break the rain is getting heavy and have to go outside again. Am back and that was as good as the last one, but took a little longer. For you wankers who haven't tried it in a cold rain, you don't know what your missing. There are still a few places I want to go and wank,and at my age who cares if I get caught. Remember every wank you miss you can never make up. Fellow wanker why not sit down at your computers and share your special stories with us and give us some new ideas. I like telling my stories, and would like to read yours. What comes up will some day stay down.I will always keep stroken and poken. Hank: Thanks for your contribution to our wankbank. I'm not much into rain, I don't even wank in the shower. I can't remember wanking in the rain specifically but there were a few cold, wet evenings spent huddled in doorways making out (you know what I mean if you never had a car)... Pressing her into the doorwayto keep her dry as the rain pelted down your back and ran inside your collar. You hardly cared as your hands were full of soft warm flesh and bra straps. You necked and she giggled for more with her dress up and panties down... that's about it for in the rain for me. Wanking and driving? Well I can't say I haven't but I don't recommend it from a safety point especially nowadays when you need one hand for your cell phone.. Keep up the wanking and the writing, watch that rain you'll catch a cold. I became a member of "ole Men.com" over a year ago and I MYSELF ( AN OLD MAN OF 82YRS. AND A WANKER) and a couple old gals who come over as they wish --- have enjoyed the site and since the merge are quite happy with it.>>>! being alone I have become a nudist---- spend most of my time naked---I have just now joined wankers for a year and both mygals are happy i did. ole George ---------------- Hank - I am 82yrs old-- still wanking-- live alone-- drive where ever I wish-- was married 53yrs with the same woman, --- she enjoyed watching me as she diddled herself--- when we were not having intercourse---living alone I spend most of my time naked I have two galfriends who are alone also. they come over and spend time with me..--- they are 37 and 43 years old --- we have sex often --- sometime just two and other times the three of us... I manage to cum at least once a day -- often several times... ole George Hank: Hey ole George that is just great news. You have reached your prime and are staying there. Naked, 2 gals half your age, sex every day... can life be any sweeter? Lets hear some more! Hi to all you wankers fom Australia: Im still wanking away a couple of times a day, and im still addicted to it after years of no sex from my wife for years. She is 16 years younger than me, and she has 'had it', so i just keep wackin ! My thrill is to be naked as often as possible as its starts the old precum straight away which always leads to a good wank. Just walking around the house naked turns me on, and i half wish someone could see me. Just a fantasy at this stage. Anyway it just feels good to be nude, and would love to masturbate to the rest of the world, but alas its a nice dream! Dont know how i can stop her (wife) reading this if you reply. She has no idea of my beautiful feelings and fantasies when i wank, and in fact i dont think she knows i do it :-) Thats about it for now as in due fo another great WANK. mmm. Regards: Gerry. Ed: Your wife probably knows half of it. But if she hasn't joined in for years she's obviously not interested now. Enjoy your nude wanks and stop dreaming - get your own personal computer for your use only and keep it in your den/workshop, learn to play games on it as an excuse to wife. Incessantly play the same game over and over when she's around. Make sure it's a shoot, bang, blood game. She'll soon get bored and leave you to it. Install a good privacy program and use hard to guess passwords that contain numbers and both upper and lowercase letters. Get an anonymous browser email address (hotmail/yahoo etc) a digital camera and publish your privates to the world. Let your images join the billions out there that they too can bring joy to another's wanking/diddling enjoyment. Join the millions that are having computer sex with on-line partners. Sex with complete strangers who they will probably never meet for real or even again in cyberspace. it's the safe 21st century way to go. Take the plunge. Treat yourself. There are only so many days left to live - regret none of them. I am interested in subscribing to your wankers site and paying with a Visa Card. Before I do though I want to ask what the charge will appear as on my credit card? I would not be interested if my Visa bill arrives with Wankers US$49.95 on it. Ed Ed: Don't worry! it'll say something like CCBill LLC or ACPAY Intl. They make transactions from thousands of different kinds of websites. Oh! and good news! The most you'll pay is $39.95.... and if you join by snailmail only $25 and that's for a full year! I just came across your site and was really surprised to read all the emails. I never knew a site like this existed! I am single, and have been a dedicated wanker for 20 years (I'm 34 - don't make the over 50 policy), and was wondering if there are any sites dedicated to older Aussie guys. Would love to compare techniques/loads, and get some tips from someone local, who has a lot of experience in the area. Happy jacking!! D Ed: you might try the Melbourne wankers site (www.home.aone.net.au/melbournewankers/home.html) Hi there - great site. My story isn't much different than any other story on these pages, started jerking off when i was 12 and have been doing it ever since. Am 55 now and still jerk off every day, average about 10 times a week. It's easy to do with all the material available on the internet. I've recently started a new routine; get the monitor up to the side of my desk with a couple of hard c**ks showing on the monitor and I lay on the floor and prop my feet up on the desk and jerk off into my mouth. I'm getting pretty good at it, can catch it in my mouth most of the time. Was married for a long time, but am now single so I can enjoy the pleasures of wanking far more these days without worrying about the wife catching me pulling my rod. I found a jack-off buddy a while back and even though he's a lot younger than me, he never gets or stays hard for long; Gotta go and play with my hard cock. dg Ed: interesting position - messy and a little uncomfortable I should think, but you know what they say... if it feels good ... do it! I am a female, 52 & my middle finger is my best friend-? I was at a concert sitting next to a male friend. There was obvious chemistry but his wife & my husband were on either side of us. His body got so physically hot I felt it through my leather jacket.He had his arm & leg pressed against mine, his knees together & was bouncing his legs up & down faster than the music- it lasted about 3 minutes. He had his hands pressed down in his lap like he was 'pushing'(?). Is it possible he could have Cum from that? I HOPE-but don't know. Please advise me. Ed: Yep! he could have easily cum from that. If you want to continue this thru he'll most likely go for it. When it's a case of couples in their fifties. You might want to involve everyone. Invite them to a sleepover party with low lights, cool music, a gallon of wine, soft couches... It'll make a change and liven up everyone's relationships. Hi, I would like to let others share my wanking. I live in the UK and I am 69 years old. I wank every day and have been wanking since the age of 10. I am married but unfortunately my wife has gone off sex altogether so I simply had to revert back to taking matters in hand on a regular basis. I love mutual masturbation and find this most satisfying. I had a lover who was 20 years younger than me and we spent many hours wanking as we watched each other with great satisfaction. We would often reach orgasm together. I regularly chat to a 53 year-old woman in America and we each masturbate as I describe just what I am doing to her body. I have become quite proficient at typing with my right hand whilst wanking slowly with my left. It is obvious we both type one handed as there are no capital letters, punctuation, etc. My sexy lover in the states says she has never had such good orgasms and, I must admit, mine have also been strong. She recently married but still loves to have our wanking sessions. I'm sure I'll be wanking on a regular basis well into my eighties and I can certainly recommend a good old wank. I love your site and love reading the letters. Best wishes Wilf. Hank: Thanks for sharing that Wilf, glad to hear you have a nice outlet for your passion. It's surprising how many men think that because they are older they'll never have another partner. Then they get on the Internet and find there is someone afterall. Another meaning for the name on the Viagra tablets....question: whose name is on the tablet....duh UPJOHN!!! This would have been a hilarious thing if only UpJohn had come up with the tablet configuration don't you think. i heard this on a quiz show and it really floored the audience with laughter. hahahaha Joe M Ed: hahaha Peyronie's Disease Further to my previous letters, in answer to which you asked for more information about Peyronie's Disease... There are over many pages on the 'web' about the condition, so I will just give a short answer here. Should anybody be looking for more information, they can contact me, and I would be only too happy to correspond with them... Peyronie's Disease is where a patch of plaque collects under the skin of one's penis, because the plaque has no stretch-ability, it clamps the affected part of the penis, causing the penis to bend, sometimes painfully, on full erection. This bend, (sometimes as much as 90 degrees) makes sexual penetration impossible. There is no indication of what exactly causes the condition. It happens to a few men in a hundred who happen to be over 50 years of age. And it has been known to happen occasionally in younger men. But there I suspect it has been caused by some other action. Perhaps by wearing underpants which are too tight, perhaps? One writer says that microscopic inspection of the plaque indicates that it is formed in cells which have been ruptured or otherwise traumatised. So if you insist, while having sex, on finishing the action to orgasm, even though you have lost your full hard-on for some reason, the twisting and bending will cause damage. This may well be where the age thing comes in, as it may be cumulative. If you have erection loss more than a few times in your sexual career, maybe you are in line for Peyronie's... Sorry chaps.. So, if your penis does go even a little bit soft, apologise, withdraw from her vulva, and finish her off by hand. If you are wanking, stop, or go very gently. There will be another time :-) To make sure of keeping your penis rigid for the entire performance, fitten up your penis by doing the natural penis exercises offered by several penis enhancement websites. I personally have found Wilhelm Lotter's comprehensive Project 'P' to be the best. Should anyone want more information on this subject, I would be only too happy to oblige. What I missed most about having Peyronie's is not having a support group to help me come to terms with what my man, is a sexual disaster. J Hank: I had never though that it was like that. I have seen photos of men with various curves and bends to their penis and thought they were 'born' that way...it looked pretty erotic. I never thought of it as a painful condition, I'm sorry to hear that. Your letter concerns 'normal' sex, can this pain be avoided with gentle handsex or oral sex? Is just getting a hard on painful? Ouch! I sympathize with you, what a downer - literally. Okay all you readers out there who have an interest lets hear from you and especially if you suffer the same condition. Lets compare notes here. Yes please print my e-mail address for the books Update: ALL SOLD! offers of $2500 would be accepted for the 900 books "masturbate for the millennium!" $15 each including postage to anywhere. cheers Dave Ed:Anyone want to buy 900 books or one email Dave. 
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