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 I am a 50 year old male 6" cut, thick and very hairy. I have also been blessed with a huge nutsac as each of my balls are the size of eggs. My dick, as I have been told by many women--(and sometimes with visible disappointment), is a 'grower'...It doesn't hang like others I have seen. The head is quite large and rests flat against my balls. I have to be careful in choosing trousers because it can be highly visible. I started wanking around the age of twelve when i realized that it felt very good to wash my cock and balls during bathtime. I would kneel in the bathtub and soap myself up until my cock would become rock hard then i would sit and slowly rub up and down until I saw my cum rise slowly to the surface. The idea of my cum shooting out so fast and with such urgency only to be slowed down by the water would excite me terribly. Years later I would recapture this thrill while working as a lifeguard. I would volunteer to close up and when everyone was gone, I would remove my trunks. As soon as I got in the pool, my dick would rise. I loved the feeling of my dick and balls freely bobbling around in the cool water. As I have approached middle age, the frequency of my sessions has slowed down considerably. In my forties I would masturbate three times a week with phone sex, and now that I am married, I prefer to jack off while my wife participates, either by watching or licking and sucking on my balls while I stroke my cock...or I will perform cunnilingus on her while she rubs over my entire lower area with sesame oil. We have sex four or five times a week and enjoy masturbating together. We both find your website to be incredibly erotic and look forward to new letters. I am seriously considering joining as I believe the pictures would be a great turn on for my wife as she finds older, heavier men attractive. Ed: Thanks for your story. Many older women find this website erotically interesting. Once they have got over the blues that they get thru their forties, they find that sex over 50 can more enjoyable than ever. No worries about wrinkles or sagging breasts when you are cuddling with the same. Sex between older people tend to be slower and more fun than the jump on jump off younger days. Mature sex is the apex of our sexlives. As seniors we have practiced all our lives and we can be pretty damn good at it now. Please remove all my pictures. I had posted pictures 2003 from Feb - July 03 I am getting treatment for my porn addiction and having my pictures deleted will help in my recovery. Guess even old wankers can change. Your site is not bad but I went out of control Thanks so much for this considereation and I hope Wankers over 50 continues to enjoy success as sex is not bad but abusing it is! John Ed: Treatment for Porn Addiction??? What do they do? Do you take drugs to take away interest? Do you meet in groups and confess? And what exactly is Porn addiction and how is it treated? What sexual extremes did you reach to have it termed addiction? ...out of control. What did you do? Many of us old wankers would like to hear how you got so far into porn that treatment has become necessary - what the treatment is and how far you are on the road to recovery - and what is considered recovered? Which brings us to the next letters..... Hi Wankers.I am 33 and I love reading the Letters to the Editor to see how everyone feels about masturbation. I don't think I've read anyone actually against it So my question is how come all you old wankers kept all this good news about wanking from us (your children) and not only that but gave us the same guilt feelings? My son is only 5 now. will I be imposing the same guilts on him? Brad Ed: Good point. How do we stop repeating the sins of our fathers? and what is the true sin? Mastubation or the repression of it? Good day. I am 64 and live in Holland. I belong to a club for senior men and every Wednesday morning about a dozen of us meet for sexual health discussion. It starts out with each of us telling about a sexual experience (usually involving women) from our past. After a few stories we all have raging erections and begin mastubation as part of our sexual health class. It always ends in an orgy of mutual mastubation, with much kissing and oral sex. Most of us in the group have spent our lives as heterosexual men, married with children. We range in ages from our sixties to early eighties and from all backgrounds, white collar and blue collar. Here we find ourselves enjoying sex with each other when just a few short years ago we would have never had sex with a man. Only two in our group consider themselves fully homosexual and yet we are doing this. I had three sexual encounters with men before I was married at 25 and none until I joined this group. Now it does not seem to matter to me. Now defining sexual preferences seems more as a matter of interest rather than a moral issue. CSB Ed: Great club and well said. By the time the young people today are seniors I imagine that what you are doing now will be considered normal male behaviour. As long as everyone involved is happy, I really see no harm in any type of sexual encounters between consenting adults... regardless of their differences. Has your group considered letting in women? hi ed im a 38 year old uk man...married to stunning blonde she 32 very sexy ive always had a thing about old overweight/disabled men wanking and even though im not gay i want to contact them share their experiences etc see them wanking mmmmmmmmmmm .im very very tempted to join your site but have the following reservations; 1.can you confirm your site contains only photos/contacts of older men ...not of minors or animals...in anyway 2.my wife will find out,i know you cant do anything about this but im nervous re this 3.i can pay by cash ?????and you will send a password to my email address correct... as i do not want to provide any personal details for fear of any correspondance being intercepted by my wife .........i hope you have time to reply as i am 90% certain i would love your site....thanks for your time dave uk Ed: Yes a password is emailed to you after you join by postal mail without using a check or creditcard. Just follow the join up link above and you'll see a link to join using cash only. No animals and no minors. But you will find all shapes and sizes and colors and ages from 19 to 91, women, couples, groups, from drag queens and transsexuals to beefcake and brawn and everything in between, the ordinary kind of folks you see every as well as the main ingredients... Wankers over 50. Men from 40 to 90 bearing themselves to the world in their most private of moments. As this is a website for old wankers and what gets them off, there is every variety of fantasy here somewhere. (excluding animals and minors) As far as your wife finding out about you having such interests, she probably will. If you both use the computer then she can easily track your visits and what you see here as your computer stores duplicates and backups of all the places and things you see on the Internet. (See the link below to Edvidence Eliminator software site and read about it.) Altho' we hate to lose a prospective member I suggest you don't join this or any other adult site and that you quit surfing for sex. Your wife is your real life - for the sake of your relationship stick to real sex with her and not virtual sex on the net. Some wives know and don't care, some wives take an active part and some wives file for divorce. If she is not satisfactory enough then your relationship is probably doomed anyway - in which case join up and welcome to the club. Think it thru. 2 emails: 1)I keep hearing on tV about guys getting busted with child porn on their computers how come they get discovered can the feds really "see" into your computer when on the Internet? 2)I go to a site called "child super models," from time to time. This site is legal as far as I can tell, so how would anyone ever find out I visit that site? I always delete the pictures and I never save them on my hard drive. From what you are saying all those pictures are still hiding on my hard drive. Please advise. Thanks much. Hank: Using words that even suggest that the models may be underage (18) or any references, be they true or false, that the pictures appear to be of minors is completely unlawful in North America, U.K, and several other European countries. If you are in North America or Britain and the website that you visit is advertising "child super models", then chances are that the website is, or will soon be, 'watched' by the FBI. The FBI have very sophisticated software for 'sniffing' the Internet searching for childporn. Once discovered these places are mined for their subscribers. If you actually have used your credit card at these websites then you have more to fear; being as these websites are illegal and underground - the information that you give to these websites is sold and resold and your credit card itself is at extreme risk. Every visit you have made is recorded on server logs and can easily be traced that you, or at least that your computer was there. If the FBI feel they have enough reason, then out-of-the-blue, you could have your computer snatched for examination. At which point ANY pictures of minors becomes suspect. Showing any sexual interest in minors is now considered one of the worst crimes you can commit in our society today. The punishment is severe and you become the object of a witch hunt for the rest of your life. Your computer (especially Windows) keeps an assortment of back-up files, history files, auto remembered web addresses and usernames/passwords in a variety of places on the harddrive as well as the obvious Temporary Internet Files and History Folders. Unless you are extremely skilled in finding and deleting these hidden files and registry entries then they are still there. Your computer has an IP adress that is unique. That IP address is a number that may look something like this 123.234.004. THis unique number travels wherever you do on the 'net and can be traced back to your Internet Provider (AOL). Internet Providers keep all records of data transfers in and out - called logs. These logs are used by the FBI to trace back. Your life could get really messed up if you get caught up in a sting/investigation. I strongly urge that you stop visiting or searching for any website that use any words that suggest underage. Other than total physical destruction (not just not working anymore), there are two ways to clean your harddrive completely - one is to re-partion AND re-format your harddrive, do this at least twice. This is the cheapest and surest way of getting rid of hidden files. The other is to purchase software that can not only clean it up so even the FBI cannot find anything, but it also gives you options for encrypting files that you want to keep on your harddrive so they are unreadable to anyone except you. Now all this is overkill UNLESS you have reason to be worried. Worry if you have EVER visited a child porn site OR you have other people using your computer and you really don't want them finding your private files. If thats the case then you should seriously look at the link at the bottom of Letters to the Editor page that goes to a website that sells the surest protection available. Hope this is useful and the information helps. Cheers hank PS: You don't need to be OVERLY worried as you are 'small potatoes', but it's certainly something to keep in mind as we race into this new cyberworld and we are finding out quickly that privacy is a fallacy. Who knows what tracing capabilities will be used next? Please cancel my membership. It isn't that I really don't like your sight because it has helped me better understand my own struggles in many ways. But I have struggled with my preference choice most of my life. I was abused at age 8 -to -14, causing some very traumatic choice questions thru my teens. The abuse ended from 14 till 18 and then I allowed another male role model to abuse me again from 18 to 30. At 18 I needed to talk to some one and went to an adult married male mentor/role model that I confided in. Feeling I needed answers and instead I got into a bad sexual relationship again with some one I needed as mentor not as sex partner. This went on for about ten years mentally and emotionally abusing. Well I ended the relationship quietly with no fuss at age 30 but my gay straight issues have still haunted me. Even though I want a straight life and to get married and have children ect. I struggle that I may be Gay and I truly don't want to be. So I guess I am trying to eliminating porn from my life. And reaching to God is my focus right now and a straight life style. (wish me luck) My view is that no body, no matter what should having sex with anyone that has more than a 5 year age difference unless over 25 years old so those kids have a chance to choose their own sexual identities. And absolutely no adults having sex with their own children or grandchildren or even anyone having sex with any under age child no matter what. It is just perverted and shouldn't happen its a crime. I have never abused any one even though I was abused, and we all need to stop the child abused. I have struggled with suicide and depression because of my abuse and talking to people on your old sexual board brought some focus for me in an perverted way so to speak. We need some internet sights that have open adult chats about these subjects were people can openly talk with out fear of persecution or prosecution and seek counseling with someone. Then maybe others can find some peace with their turmoil, and not continue the chain of child and or adult abusive relationships. Ed: Thank you for your letter. I wish you good luck with your 'straight' lifestyle. I hope it all works out the way you want it to. Some children grow up and become adults with a wide range of mental conditions that range from suicide prone to agressive child abusers themselves. The last few years has revealed that this is a far greater societal problem than anyone had imagined. The victims of these crimes are unprepared children and, like yourself, had/have no control over the act and no previous sexual knowledge to understand what happened, leading to a variety of guilt feelings and a confused sexuality. This is not fair to the child's future life. Any adults predisposed to child abuse must be made to realise that childhood is a sacred time when a child is and must be, completely safe from abuse, sexual or otherwise. Child abuse IS a crime and the adult involved IS a criminal. If the offending adult has no self control then they must seek counseling or suffer the punishment of the law. Unfortunately, severe punishments for those convicted is no more a deterrent to abuse than the electric chair is a deterrent to murder... it stops that particular person from re-committing but does not prevent those not caught yet. Like most ills in our society we only know how to condemn and punish those afflicted. How to actually prevent abuse is a question that no one has the answer to. You have associated being gay with being abused - all gay men were not abused as children. It's possible that you may have grown up to be a gay man without the terrible abuse you suffered and denying your 'gayhood' may not be the answer. Again, I wish you well and that you find the answer to your troubles soon. How many miles are on your penis? Lets say when I jack-off a stroke is about two inches up and two Inches down, total of 4 inches per stroke. I would say I average about 500 strokes per jack-off. that equals 2000 inches per session. Multiply this by 365 days in a year which equals 730,000 per year. Multiply this by 60 years that makes 48,800,000 inches. Divide this by 12 to find how many feet, 3,650,000 feet. Divide this by 5280 feet per mile and the answer is: I have traveled 691.2 delightful miles along my penis. This might be a little conservative, because I have been jacking for nearly 70 years. There were times when I didn't make once a day, but also there were many years when it was two or three times a day. Amazing, Steve Ed: Whew! For our European readers that's over 1000 kilometres. Hello Hank: I was searching the web and found your site quite by accident. I love to read letters of other guys experiences. I thought I was the unusual one since I JO every day in my life since 11 y/o. In these later years;( I am 70 Years old now) I have been JO at least 3 times a day. I will confess that I am addicted to pornos. I am 100% gay all my life . I watch the pornos when my lover is out of the house. Not that he would mind; but I love to do it in Privacy. In recent years I taught myself how to work with my Labido. Just before the climax I stopped and waited for awhile. I just feel the orgasm but hold back on the shooting. This enabled me to start eating my load little by little. Now I watch the pornos for hours at a time and just enjoy WANKING and holding back for hours at a time. I can do this as I am retired and just watch my hundreds of porno tapes. When I do shoot my load; I shoot it in my palm of hand and just lap it up. And I still have my labido in which I can enjoy that and still remain hard and do it all over again which I usually do. At first; I thought this was rather sick when it came to eating my own load when I shoot it. But reading other peoples letters on the web; I find this is quite common even with STR8 men. The first time I ate my load; I felt so dirty and guilty. But now I just can't seem to get enough of it. I am just Happy I can still wank and JO all the time and ENJOY. I will be sending you some cash soon to join your website. I think the price is very reasonable. I have never joined any others( always afraid of giving my charge account on the INTERNET. And I also never knew how to use it. I mean getting into all the gay websites. I used to go to a site called: SILVERMEN ( ITALIAN WEB SITE)(when it was for free) I like older guys my age either Italian or Spanish with big cocks. No matter how old they are. Will I be able to visit that site when I join? ? I am sort of in the dark when it comes to entering these Websites with passwords; or passes??? But I guess once I join you will walk me thru this. I love to read letters and dirty stories. and other guy's experiences; no matter if they are gay or str8. Just love to wank, wank and wank all the time. Actually I am 70 y/o but dont look it. People take me for being in my 50's but am so grateful that my cock is always hard and ready to be serviced by me. Thanks again for your website and hopefully when I return from my trip from New York; I will mail you the cash for joining. M. Hank: Thanks for your letter and welcome to the club. You will certainly find everything you want here. There are thousands of pix and many hundreds of stories. The range is very wide and suits all tastes - (with the exception of minors and violence - altho' you may find a bit of leather and play bondage) I am 22 yrs. old and I love to beat off. I enjoy it very much, I only wish that we all could do it more often throughout the day, say whenever we felt like it or should I say he felt like it. I love jackin off there's nothing quite like being able to lay back a choke the chicken. I 've got a boner as I sit here typing this letter, I feel as though Masterbation should be spoken of more often than it is . I don't think people talk about it enough, hell if anything it would put a smile on peoples faces more often. Everyone would tend to be less stressed-out, feel less tense. I would like to say that I try to jerk-off more than once a day, I guess you could say me and my johnson know each other like I know the palm of my hand. I love trying diffrent techniques when it comes to jacking-off. I love the grip, where your whole hand is used, I also love the thumb and index finger meeting to create a circle and vigiorusly up and down motion back and fourth, it always gets my juices flowin. I also can stick my very own dick in my mouth. It's a reel turn on to me. I swallow my own cum, while I tickle my own ass. I can only do it for a short period of time, but its long enough to get to my tounge, I wish I could eat my own ass. Maybe one day .... Jay, a proud jerk-off budy Ed: Thanks for sharing that Jay. Eating it sounds ucky to most people, but who knows how common or how rare it is? - lets find out. There are at least 2 billion wanking men worldwide (that's 2,000,000,000). How many ways of self gratification can there be? Let's hear about YOUR methods men. (Preferably, men OVER 50) I am a 70yo Australian male. Started wanking at age 13 doing it around once every every 2 days Now 5 to 7 times a week. Ed: Thanks for the data, mate! hi am 42 and have been wanking for a number of year but i do love wanking outdoors hoping someone would ask if the could finish off what I started but as it doesnt happpen often i jkust will love it ifthat dream could be fulfilled am wnaking as i write as am very excited Ed: You ever noticed how wanking and typing do not go hand in hand? Hank and Ed, I am 69yrs old, active with other men for our mutual pleasuring. I want to ask a question about cumming. I have noticed that I do not produce as much fluid when I cum. It is very thick and creamy. Used to be a lot more fluid. I wonder if i can possibly drink more fluids to increase the amount of fluid in my cumming. Your thoughts please.... --- JOE Ed: Well, I really don't know but it would seem that just drinking more fluids would not necessarily produce more fluid cum. On the other hand you can't really drink too much water so increase your water intake by about 25% and see if indeed it does make a difference. It would only take a few days to find out. More likely, it's normal and to be expected as one ages. How soon it happens is probably related to diet or medications. Eliminate cheese, butter, milk, margarine, eggs or processed foods. Fill yourself with lots of fresh veggies, a full variety of fresh fish and seafood and cook with lots of pure olive oil... That should put the body on the right path. Other than that Joe, only a doctor who studies such things would know for sure and I doubt that any studies have been done. I discover your website several years ago and have returned a few times since to read what others have written. I have began mastrubating when I was 5 year old when my aunt, 11 years my senior, showed me how to "make it tickle." I'm now 68 and still enjoy the pleasure on a daily basis. In 1980, when I was 55, I began to shave my pubic hair. I liked the way it looked and felt and have kept it that way every since. I recall an incident in the hospital some years ago when I was to be "shaved" in preparation for a cardio catheterization proceedure. A female nurse's aid was given the assignment and appeared at my bedside with a disposable razor and a can of shaving cream. When she pulled back my hospital gown and saw my pubic hair was missing, she exclaimed "Oh, my!" "I'll have to shave you anyway," she continued, "it's hospital rules" She lathered me up and gave me an excellent shave, slowly and with great care. It made the hospital experience both enjoyable and memorable. Ed: Years ago I tried shaving there once but I got a rash and as it grew back it was prickly and uncomfortable. But if I should have to because of hospital I hope I get a nice gentle nurse to do it. A local jack off buddy had me over for a session earlier this week and showed me your super site. Wow! I will be sending you a membership thing as soon as my retirement check arrives later this month. In answer to the questions: 69 years old, six inches of dick when soft, a little more when hard. I am cut. I started masturbating at age 10 or 11, after shooting off several times in my sleep. I kept at it daily through college graduation, sometimes twice a day. Lack of privacy forced me to slack off during the military, so I would make up for lost time when I was alone by jacking two or three times in an evening. Fortunately, I married a woman (dead now for 11 years, and I miss her) who was not shy about jilling off in front of me while I jacked. We discovered our shared interest early in our marriage when we were playing around in bed, naked, and I started stroking myself to get totally hard again so I could do her one more time. She laughed and said, "Hey, isn't that what you call masturbation?" "I guess so," I said. "Whatever you call it, it sure is fun!" and I kept stroking. On an impulse, I said, "Show me how YOU do it." And lo and behold, she hesitated only a moment before putting her hand on her pussy and rubbing, and away we went. We got a kick out of sharing, and masturbation was part of our sex play thereafter. She liked watching me shoot off and marveled at how far my cum would squirt. After she died -- lingering illness -- I thought about trying to find another wife but gave up rather quickly; no replacement would be good enough. I even stopped jacking off for a time. Then I noticed XXX videos in my local rental store and began taking those home and realizing that I liked jacking off to porn. One evening I fell into conversation with another older guy at the checkout counter. He was also getting XXX movies. He said he lived right around the corner, and asked me if I'd like to come over and have a beer. Why not? He popped a couple and we sat and talked a few minutes and then he asked if I'd like to see what videos he had chosen. Once the video started I got hard almost immediately, and I glanced over and saw that he also had a bulge in his trousers, one he was not trying to hide. I touched myself several times -- through my slacks -- and noticed that he was doing the same thing. And eventually he went ahead and pulled it out and started stroking. I felt OK in doing the same thing, and we looked at one another and grinned. He said that he was going to take off his trousers rather than get them all messed up, and suggested that I do the same. He got up and left the room for a minute and when he came back he..... Ed: ... and the rest of this is 'inside'. Hank: Well that's certainly got our readers panting... the join up button is below folks! -- -- 
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