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 Surfed into your site and thought I would give readers my history the best sport known to man. I am 58 yrs old twice married and I dont think I have missed a days wanking in my life (if I did then I made up for it by doubling up the next day). Second wife enjoyed mutual masturbation and was also sometimes in the mood to just give me a show as she jilled off. Surfing has also given me the idea of MMF bi sex, anyone else get turned on at the thought of wanking and watching a good woman enjoying herself and then getting unexpected oral??? Ed: Judging by the emails and the threads on the OldSexuals Message Board (members only). I would say that your fantasy is one of the more normal indulgencies. A number of women like it the other way round, they like to watch guys wanking while getting oral stim. I am an 82 yo semi retired and have been playing with my penis most of my live. I was not cut as baby but I remember my mother scolding me about playing with my penis every time she caught me playing with "You are always playing with that "thing"" as I would be in the bath or changing clothes as it was always stiff.... ...I have been rubbing it dry for over 70 years and even though I have had two wonderful women who loved sex and would suck and masturbate me I still like to masturbate myself and so it daily or more. The foreskin soon retracted and left the head bare and now I stretch the foreskin back as far as it will go and sometimes make myself come just rubbing the foreskin not touching the head as the foreskin is just about as sensitive and I am glad I wasn't cut even though I can't pull it up over the head it adds to the enjoyment of playing with my penis. Have been masturbating etc. for 77 years and it still feels good and my penis is healthy as well as myself. Praise the Lord there weren't the STD'S in those wonderful days. Ed: Thanks for the detailed accounts, sorry I cannot post most of it but its too graphic and concerns minors. Childhood recollections are usually acceptable but when written erotically we wont post. There were many STDs in the good old days but as sex with strangers wasn't as common they were not spread as easily... nor were they reported as often as being STDs for decency's sake. It's good to hear that at 82 you're still a happy wanker, keep pulling - it's your ticket to continued good health. Greetings. My subscription apparently expired earlier this month and while I'd very much like to renew, I would like to know how the ccbill charge will appear on my monthly MC statement. Will there be any reference to the name of the site? Many thanks for your prompt response. all best. josgon Ed: Your Mastercard statement will show the charge to CCbill LLC CCbill is an Internet credit card billing service and has nothing to do with the content of our site. There will be NO reference to our site on the billing. However, they will of course send you one email when you sign up with the information to access our restricted area. They will not contact you again. If you wish even more security pay cash by mail http://www.wankers.com/mailcash.htm ...and save $5. Please could you help me, I would like to know if you know what has happened to a webpage that I used to visit quite frequently. It was called masturbation madness (mmadness.com) and contained stories that I really enjoyed reading. If not, can you recommend any other sites? Many thanks, John Ed: I don't know of the site. But a search for masturbation on google will give you endless leads. Just be careful when you surf that you don't get to deep into the really oddball sex as you will end up on sites that are set up to collect more information about you than you want them to know and for very nasty reasons. Here's a nice safe site you'll like: Melbourne Wankers Hi Hank. I'm a 24 year old gay/bi male from New England who has been enjoying your website for a while now. I've always wanted to send in a letter, and although there haven't been any recent updates to the letters page, I'm hoping this will at least reach you and any others that have made this site possible. My first wank was a frightening experience for me. Through locker room talk and miscellaneous idle chatter at school, I picked up the notion that masturbation was for "losers" who couldn't get any. Being the shyest guy in school, as well as a bonafide nerd, I was determined to resist the temptation to commit the act that would solidify my loser status. I oftentimes would fool around with my penis, which is 8 inches and cut, but without the intention of cumming or even taking significant pleasure in the act. It was a way for me to entertain the homosexual fantasies that were beginning to surface in my liminal psyche without totaly legitimizing them. However, one day sometime close to my junior high graduation, I got carried away. I was soaking in the tub and decided to "fool around" for the hell of it. Using lubrication (soap) for the first time elicited new feelings from this activity that were too gratifying for me to fight, and I began to stroke more vigorously. I was lost in a fantasy about my gym teacher when I began to feel a strong tingling, as if I had to relieve myself, and stopped immediately. I tried to suppress it, for something deep inside wasn't convinced that this was just plain old piss, but it kept rising, and the tingling rose into my stomach. Thinking back on it today, this would have been an incredibly gratifying experience had I not been so terrified by it! Finally, it, whatever "it" was, seemed to have passed the point of no return, so I got out of the tub, dried off, and assumed the position in front of the toilet, praying it was really coming from my bladder. Well, I knew in truth that what I would see would shock me, but I was not prepared for it: a very thick, button sized and heavily concentrated drop of pre-cum oozed out. Not knowing what to do at this point (I was told in health class that semen is a milky white fluid that typically "comes" in a greater volume than this), I braved the worst, dabbed my finger in it, and tasted it. I don't remember what it tasted like, but judging from what my pre-cum looks and tastes like now, it must have been 200 proof! I spent the rest of the day in shame; accruing remorse for doing something no self-respecting man on earth would admit to doing. Thankfully, my graduation replenished my severely wounded pride, for although I was that nerd, I was a fairly respected one, and seeing my friends again, friends who had NO knowledge of what transpired a few days earlier, gave me reassurance. I don't remember when I wanked next; just that it was to completion, felt incredible, and made me feel even guiltier. However, the discovery of this new pleasure was not something I'd ever be able to bury, and with some willpower, third party insight into the TRUE habits of most all men, and the relief this tool for exploring my sexuality gave me, I slowly fought my way out of the guilt of having to choke my chicken for sexual gratification. Now, after having my fair share of sexual adventures and developing that crucial confidence in and comfort with myself, I'm proud to say that I feel no shame in pleasuring myself 3 to 4 times a week, when not having sex with a close and close-by friend. In fact, my boyfriend of a few months and I often join each other at least once a week in very powerful love-making sessions via telephone, since the industry he's employed in has made getting together temporarily impossible (he knows about my friend and is adamant about his comfort with my relative sexual freedom). Wanking and fantasies have given me experiences with phenominal men that I've unfortunatly not been privileged to love, past lovers that I'll never forget, and famous dreamboats that have turned me on faithfully for years. It unites me with my current flame even when he is tied up at work, and brings me solace after stressful days and events. The only true "regret" I can lay claim to now would be the "loss" of what could have potentially been the best climax of my life ... Oh how I now wish I hadn't stopped that day! But at least I'm no longer dumb and full of cum, partially in thanks to your excellent website! Keep up the good work, it's greatly appreciated! Regards, A Silverfox Hunter from the Big East Hank: Thanks for your letter. It's writers like you that make this so interesting for everyone else. Amazing memory you have. I have tried for years to remember my first cummin' but I cannot. I cannot even remember who was the first other person who I did it with, I only remember that I was wanking and cummin' every couple of hours by the time I was eleven years old... and, like most of us, I haven't stopped since. I never thought it wrong and had no guilt. Fortunately I was lucky enough to be brought up without a religion so I have never had the fears and phobias that so many others seem to have. Hi Hank & Ed; I was wondering if you have ever considered adding a biography forum to your website. I'm interested in knowing other readers experiences with wanking throughout their lives. I am sure that I am not alone in this interest. I if you like the idea I have a few suggestions as to some guidelines. Have everyone identify themselves by a screen name of some sort, gender (male or female) age, sexual preferences (i.e.; straight, BI or gay) and where they live (State they live in, if not living in the US - - List the country instead) all of this so that we can better under stand different life styles and/or cultures through out the world in regard to wanking) Try to keep every thing civil. - Don't allow anything disgusting or pornographic. Many have been sexually abused, etc., just state the facts but not to brag about it. Try to have each Biography contain at least 500 words Try to keep it interesting! Include embarrassing moments, revelations, and bizarre occurrences. Have submissions sent by email so you can monitor them Some of the suggested items to discuss might include; 1. First realization of anything dealing with sex in your live. 2. The first time to masturbate - - - what happened, how it felt, what was thought at the time. 3. Struggles with masturbation - - guilt, trying to quit, etc., 4. Attitudes about masturbation among your friends and family. 5. Masturbation experiences involving other persons. 6. How you currently like to wank .......and how often. 7. The role masturbation plays in your sexual relationship, and how your yanking habits have changed as you got older. I would suggest that you replace the discussion on the 'Old Sexual Message Board' titled " How Do You Wank" with "Biography Comments", so that comments could be made. If you like the idea, I would be happy to send you mine. If not, I understand because it would require more work on your part. I enjoy your site --- keeper Ed: It's a very good questionaire. The data is all here somewhere on our website - it's just not in any order. Any one wishing to add their biographies send them in and we'll post them. I'll pass this email to Gabby about the Message Board and see if it arouses interest. im 79 and still wanking, tho not as often as i used to, i suppose i was abuut 13 when i started seriously and have continued ever since, yes i have been married m y wife since died, i got the idea from a nice man who showed me how, i was then about ten, no it wasn't abuse he tossed himself off, even if it was it was nice. it gave me a good erection lovely i got hard ons from a very early age 4or 5 and up until i was married wanked every day. i dont find so easy now tho but i still get great pleasure from it and can still get it hard with a little effort, and cum but not much, i find it better to come to the point of cuming and then back off thus perlonging the pleasure, even when i was married i had great pleasure in wanking.and still do, infact i'm playing with it now, imight even cum! i wonder what age the oldest wanker is? bye. Ed: Well we have heard from men in their nineties who have not not stopped wanking so the answer is probably until you quit or die whichever cums first. Wanking at sixtynine and enjoy various pixs and stories of all jacking off hope to see and read morein the future. Ed: As long as you folks keep sending in your pix and stories we'll keep posting them for everyone's enjoyment. I am a lifelong wanker, aged 73 and (surprise, surprise!), I find that my capacity to enjoy wanking is much less than it used to be: no erection unless I play with him, much less sensitivity at the tip of the penis, I come to full orgasm and ejaculation no more than once every three to five weeks. What can I do to restore some of the joy in wanking? I assume that the problem is due to the reduction in certain hormones, in which case viagra or similar would not be appropriate. Are there herbs, spices or other food supplements that would help? Would Hormone Replacement Therapy be appropriate? I am 'cut' and happen to be gay, though I doubt if either of these is relevant. I notice that there are no letters on the website later than February 2004; I hope that the letters page is still open. F R A N C I S . Ed: Stimulation via imagination, pix, stories or a desirable partner are the only methods that I know of that will work. Drugstore drugs only increase bloodflow and will most likely create the erection but unless you have something desirable in your mind you'll not get anywhere. Herbs and spices? Ask around in Chinatown - they may have something. One doesn't really think about it until one needs to. The fact that you do it once a month proves that you are physically able. Compare the last few months and see if there is a trend or a sudden halt. Hormone replacement? Good heavens, I don't even know what that is. Eat healthy foods, don't smoke, if you are taking prescription drugs find out if they are having detrimental affect. Keep the Interest. Talk to two different OLD doctors about it. Plan a time where you can have a few quiet hours and surround yourself with erotica of choice and wank away. Plan and look forward to it like a first date. Build up to the event slowly by thinking about it all day so the juices get flowing. Thats the only way I know. Don't give up. Good luck. If I join wankers will I be able to view all photos? I live in north central florida. Ed: If you are a member you can see whats here from any internet connection in the world but if this is a legal question you better check the Florida laws on whether your state permits you to view adult material. Some places actually have laws on what you can see and may punish you if caught as they do in China. I love wanking but I hate my dog watching. If I put him out he whines and I can't wank - this is ridiculous. I have to wait until hes asleep and I do it quietly so he won't wake up and see me. Why do I have this worry? Hank: I can't pee if my dog watches.. 
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