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 Hi Hank, I have just discovered your amazing site while surfing and, of course, wanking thru the Web. First of all, have my congratulations on the idea of building up this site as well as many greetings from Germany to you and all the wankers here. It's always nice to know that I am not alone with my passion of masturbation and think that we wankers should stick together. As I have already mentioned I am from Germany and live near Hamburg. Since I had been "taught" by some of my classmates how to wank at the age of 13, masturbation became one of my greatest passions. And I still remember those initial relevant experiences with pleasure when we met after school to wank over some porn mags that one of the classmates could provide for us. Today, I am 48 years of age and married with two children (2 boys of 15 and 18 years).And as I do really enjoy an harmonic family life nobody would ever imagine that I have a second and secret life dominated by pornography and heavy masturbation. Yes, I must confess - and I feel well doing it here in the company of that many wankers - that I have probably become addicted to masturbation jacking off up to three or four times a day in order to achieve a certain level of satisfaction. Being a sales representative for a big company I would my wife and the children make believe that I usually still have to do some work upstairs in my home office in the evenings. So guess what I am actually doing up there while my wife and the children are still watching TV downstairs before going to bed: right - I am, of course, not working but heavily wanking. And just in case of being disturbed or even caught, there are always some ledgers and business papers on my desk and, if somebody comes up, I am still dressed up when stroking my hard and erected boner in front of the computer so that I can easily push "him" down under the desk. But as this usually never happens I can, mainly without being disturbed, freely enjoy my wanksurfs thru the internet for some horny sites or look at some of the latest hardcore porn productions on DVD which I can borrow for little money from a porn shop located downtown near my workplace. Apart from jacking off at home I also go to the adult movie theatres downtown to wank off there. This can easily be done during lunch break or after work. Adult theatres and shops attract me very much because it's a good place where we wankers can enjoy the company and horniness of other fellow wankers and it turns me on a lot watching others jack off while I am rubbing my own throbbing dick. Adult shops and theatres are also very welcome on my various business trips. Once I am free after attending a business meeting it is (of course!) my first act to explore the relevant districts of movie arcades and adult shops where I can, being far from home, spend several hours on wanking and blowing some good loads in company with other horny guys (I do really adore group masturbation!). By the way, once being in a big adult movie theatre centrally located in my hometown, I suddenly discovered my elder son in one of the movie rooms. I was, as you may imagine, more than shocked by the fact that he might recognize me. But, as the movie room was quite dark, he obviously didn't and I took the first chance to escape. Such a delicate situation may of course happen as I should have to learn by now that both of my sons, and particularly my elder son, are now becoming more and more curious about "those things" while being about to explore their own sexual lives. So far some details of my "secret life" of masturbation. I would highly appreciate to get in contact with other real wankers here having the opportunity to share fantasies and similar experiences. Again, many greetings to everybody and keep wanking! Joey (Hope you will enjoy my selfpic attached) Hank: Yes Joey, I did enjoy the attached pic... you are a handsome man. thanks for sharing your secret life with us. Your story is not as uncommon as you may think. Only a very few of older adult Wankers go to adult entertainment. So for every guy you see there there are thousands more at home jackin' away. It does sound like you could be highly embarrassed if your family finds out about your surfing habits... and with teenaged kids your computer is fair game to them. You are a prime customer for "Evidence Eliminator" (click the Security link at the top of the page.) You will find that there are a number of older wankers in the members section who also want friends and who openly share their experiences. There are countless member's fantasies and confessions posted over the years also. If you wish we can post your pix and contact info in our members section... just let me know. I'M SIXTY-FIVE AND AVERAGE 4-6 TIMES DAILY I NEED NEW STORIES AND SMALLCLIPS OF FILM GOOD FIRM BODIES BOTH MEN AND WOMEN.THANKS.. Ed: We have lots of stories, confessions and photos but very few film clips. Some of the bodies are firm, but many are .... how should we say?... Well Aged? i really like your site i get a hard on as soon as i start reading your letters of older men wanking off iam 33 years old married but really dont like women i like men over fifty five i love wanking my self every day about 3 -4 times a day . one day i went out drinking with my father inlaw we got a little drunk and we ended up sucking each other off it was great. how can i meet older men . please wright me back sorry about my writing skills are not that great Hank: 'sokay, my writing skills ain't up to much either. You do realise that your marriage is doomed unless you keep wifey in the picture? Keep it in the family and stick to your relationship with father-in-law. If older men are your cup of tea you will find them early in the day in run down bars that sell cheap beer. Or hanging around the library, on park benches and in the kind of old time coffee shop where you can sit forever with one cup and a refill, watching life go by. Require information from wankers... i.e: Present Age,51 How old when first started. 13 9th month Frequency. 10 times a week, once a day but 2 a day 2 or 3 times a week - last summer I jerked off 4 times in one day, 5 times in a 24 hr period. Very occasionally I go a day and more rarely 2 without masturbating. Average time spent at it. For the actual action not long - 30 minutes would be a long time - usually more like 10 but the build up is hours of looking at porn and waiting for that signal to pull my pants down and feel myself. Reason for being mono. complicated Interesting stories: I stopped once for 4 weeks and after 3 weeks I noticed that I hadn't thought about it in days and became concerned that my desire had left me - I closeted myself in the bathroom and made myself become excited - when I came it was less than I would have expected and it was clearish. little sperm I suppose - maybe the testicles had gone into hibernation. The act opened the floodgates and for the next week I was masturbating 3 and 4 times a day. I love porn and find it difficult to cum without visual aid. Primary focus - tits (female tits). I like sharing my thoughts on masturbation. Perhaps you have other questions I could answer if you'd care to converse. R Hank: Thanks for all the info Some readers will see themselves here and it will help them understand that their own 'secret' lives are just like the guy's next door. I enjoy a good wank most days.last time was about an hour ago and it felt great,i have also done it while on a web cam with a lady on other end having shown me her pussy wide open and gasping for it,did not take long then,i normally can cum quickley, she watched me do it and that was even better .i enjoy poss 4 times a week and feel great afterwards, cannot beat a good handjob. ian Ed: Right on Ian! A good hand job is worth a thousand... err.. err.. somethings. Noticed you don't get as many letters as you used too,this is the third I've written in the last two years,because this is the only place I can talk about my pleasure in wanking. As I've told you before I'm seventy one,long time married,have a six and half uncut.The first time I was wanked I was ten years old and woke in the night to find the guy who had taken us camping wanking me,he did it a few times then let his sister take over and she pleasured me for the next four years, she was the first to make me cum and taught me how to get total pleasure. I was wanked by two male cousins when we were kids,they enjoyed doing it to me but I wouldn't touch them and have never wanked a male, still don't want too.I wank every day, mostly slowly and keep going for an hour or so before going fast and cuming. I wanked in the plane flying overnight from America this year, had a blanket over me, just opened my belt and gently wanked, when I cum it was a bit messy in my pants but well worth it, certainly made the journey pass faster, I wank in bed when my wife is sleeping, just slight movements of the hand, and stop before cuming , but the pleasure is still great. I'm just glad there is some place I can talk about it, so thanks. BJ Hank: You are correct about the letters. During our first years we often posted letters weekly, now its about 6 times year. Now that the Internet has grown so huge , there are thousands and thousands of places of expression that never existed before and umpteen adult websites for stimulation. Most of the members write confessions that we post each month in the adult section and on the Oldsexuals Message Board there are thousands of 'messages' far too explicit to post openly. We certainly appreciate your letters BJ, and we look forward to reading all that you wish to write, as will many other readers. Especially when it comes to your sexual attitudes, beliefs and wisdoms that you have found over the years. We ask our older readers to send us their beliefs and attitudes, desires and fantasies, frequencies and stats. Every one can benefit from the information. There are many, many men today struggling with sexual concerns that only they themselves will ever be able to sort out and to help reach that understanding they need information. Real information in the words of men like themselves - not clinical books or obscure studies. The elders need to talk to next generations about what is probably the Most Important Thing in their lives... that thing between their legs. I'm 55 and gay and love wanking. The first time I wanked was after a boy at school, he was younger than I, told me about it. I wasn't sure that I believed him but nevertheless that night in bed I tried it and sure enough it happened! I also remember the first time another boy did it for me at school, playing with my cock through the hole in the pocket of my trousers. The fact was we were all at it, cocks were out in almost every class, it's a wonder we learned anything other than wanking techniques. Not long after leaving school I discovered a public toilet and realised that the men there were not pissing but were just standing at the urinals wanking or being wanked by each other. As I was only 16 at the time you can just imagine how popular I was. Hardly a day would go by without me being wanked off by some guy in a public toilet. I left home and came to live in London and of course there were all manner of sexual experiences to enjoy. Even so some of my most exciting times have been non-penatrative sex but wank sessions instead. I like to spend a whole day naked, wanking and playing with my cock but holding off coming for hours. Being naked outdoors is of course great and there is an area of trees and bushes not too far a way where you can strip off and walk around. Of course there is the added excitement that someone might just come along and see me playing with my big hard cock (it is taking me ages to type this as I'm wanking at the same time - there's a surprise). I do like someone watching while I'm wanking. I was surprised/pleased to see others also get turned on by being naked out in the rain. I like just to wear a pair of white nylon shorts that become transparent once they are wet. Then my cock gets so hard and I have to wank. Fortunately, I do have a partner who enjoys wanking just as much as I do! Clive Ed: Thanks for your input Clive. Happy to note that you have a positive attitude, a healthy sex life and a compatible partner, what more could one ask for? I am 78 years old and have been jacking off since the age of eight. I have an 8 inch dick, uncut and jackoff two or three times a week. There is nothing better than a good jack off session. Although I don't jack off as often as I did when I was younger, I still crave it. My last session lasted two hours. My technique is to very slowly stroke it until I feel I have to cum. I then use saliva on it and jack off until I am about ready again. I back off and rest a minute or two and then repeat the process. Finally, I can't hold it back any longer and let loose with a terrific ejaculation. Other sex is okay but doing your own lets you control every move. Jacking off is an art and I believe a lot of guys would love to do it more if they wouldn't get in a hurry. Your site is wonderful and thank you for letting me express my thoughts. I will continue jacking off and my goal is to increase frequency. Hank: Excellent! Keep the process and juices going and keep the interest up. Two or three times a week is still pretty good especially if you have a lot of other activities or social times to keep you busy. Daily wankers are usually guys with a ton of time on their hands. after all to REALLY enjoy wanking over 50 - it's not so much as how often you do it but how good it is. It takes that bring to peak, drop back, bring to peak and repeat with enjoyable stimulation such as visual porn or imagined fantasies, to reach nirvana and that can easily take an uninterupted 2 hours... or a lot more for maximum results. Anything other than that is just jerking off like when you were younger. Young guys get a boner, zip it out, rub it off in a couple of strokes and have completely forgotten about it as soon as they have rezipped. Us older guys want a fuller experience. After all, the whole point of retirement should be to have more time for yourself. More time to leisurely lean back and play with yourself all day long. Set aside the time, the place and the solitude. Load up on your favorite fantasies and enjoy slowly. When I was attending college in the Midwest I would work for my brother on his grain and pig farm during the summer. Often I would also babysit for my nephew (who at that time would have been between 2 and 3 years old) while my brother and his wife would go to the movies or go out to eat. One warm evening I was walking naked outside the house which was surrounded by trees and as usual was jacking off at the same time. As I was starting around one corner of the house I realized that their car had returned and was parked without any lights. I had no idea when they had returned or what they might have been able to see. I ran back into the house at the front and returned to my room. Neither one of them ever mentioned anything to me and I never dared to bring up the incident myself. I'm now 71, and still wanking 2-3 times/week, but never outdoors. Cock is now 6" and about 5 1/2" around - cut at birth. This remains my most embarassing moment. Hank: Thats a pretty mild 'most embarassing moment',I mean like compared to Ex Pres. Bill Clinton's most embarassing moment ( which was a toss off between the cigar or the blue sweater) but it seems to have impacted your future habits by your remark but never indoors. Which brings up a very good topic for the next Letters to the Editor: Lets hear all about Your Most Embarassing (Wanking) Moment. And has that left an impact on your wanking habits today? Also thanks for the stats. We want our readers to understand from this kind of openess that every man has what he has and can enjoy it regardless of shape or size x number of times. Somewhere in the letters here you will find pieces of yourself and see the light and the joy of wanking. Solo sex often more satisfying and fulfiling as you are completely in charge of the entire activity and can control the timing and prolong the orgasm.(see next letter) I am a 63 year old male and have been married for about 44 years. Since my wife`s female operation about 15 years ago, she don`t care too much for sex. Therefor, I masterbate at least twice daily. We sleep in seperate rooms since my snoring keep my wife up at night. I masterbate every night prior to going to sleep and again while shaving in the morning. Sometimes again during the day if arroused. My favorite time is bedtime! I like to masterbate just about to the point of no return. Stop, for a bit until I settle down, then start again. I like to do this for five or six times untill I think that I can`t hold back anymore. Then, I just try to completely relax and stroke very slowly, untol I`m ready to explode. I find that if I force myself to completely relax during this time, all of a sudden my body starts to convulse and it is like ejaculating in slow motion. "It is absolutely wonderfullllllllll" I cum and cum and cum!!! This action is much more pleasurable than any sex I have ever had! I wish I had the nerve to tell this to my wife, since I`ll bet I could make her do the same thing. Trust me!!!! the orgasm is wonderfullllllll. Hank: Tell her anyway, she will either join in or call you a dirty old man... it's hardly divorce material. I am 82 years old and have now been wanking for well over 70 years, it's funny how I never get tired of it and how peaceful I feel afterwards. I have never felt any guilt associated with masturbation because my father and I used to do it together during my early sexual years. I have never thought masturbating with my father was wrong and although I have never had a sexual relationship with any other male other than my father I cannot see why gays are frowned upon. Why does anyone care who you choose to have sex with? To each his own! I was happily married at 21 and was sadly widowed at 65. During 44 years of our marriage we had 2 beautiful daughters and now 2 granddaughters. My fantasies are all about the female sex but my secret fantasy is that my father is always beside me and for every thrust I give I feel my fathers thrust and as the excitement mounts we share the orgasm as one. This website is truly an oasis for us old farts to talk about our sexual thoughts, which become increasingly dear to us as we get older. George Hank: Great attitude! As you say...To each his own! Society makes far too much of being gay. Even gays themselves make too much of it. Even the word gay makes too much of it. Why everyone has to 'take sides' pro or con is ridiculous... why non-violent sex need be so fearful is ridiculous, but sadly human. The same situation today, if found out, your father would be jailed for the next several years (where he may be murdered) and persecuted for the remainder of his life if let out in a neighborhood and you would be receiving years of expensive therapy from expensive pychoanalysts to help 'erase' those horrifyingly evil experiences from your mind... of course to help pay for those expenses you could always sue someone. As Joe used to say 'Sex is in the hand of the beholder' or something like that. Thank you for such a great web site I just joined and am a proud member of Wankers Over Fifty. Beleve it or not I joined on my 50th birthday! After 3 full days of looking at the site I am amazed how much there is I will have wanking material for the rest of my life. Thank you very much. Ed: Happy Birthday and welcum to the club. 
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