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 Hi there, found your site and am delighted to make contact with other aficionados of wanking. I am 66 and wank daily still. Other men wanking turns me on and always has done and I like wanking mutually. At the moment I am sitting naked with a horn. I am looking down at it and its eyeing me in return. It's sizeable, about just under 8 inches at the moment I would say with a good girth, meaty and well used. I am uncut but my foreskin can be retracted over the helmet and when I stroke around my helmet with my finger its a fantastic feeling. I can either bring myself off using the foreskin over the helmet lubricated with my juices or I can pull the foreskin righnt back and using a combination of softly stroking at the base of the red helmet with one finger and using other fingers to gently pull and squeeze at the base. I can come off like that. I like this method and its even better when I get someone else to help. I like wanking with others and to have others watch me doing it. For that reason I am finding writing this to you a real turn on. I also like to pull my considerable foreskin over my knob and push a finger in between it and my knob and stroke the base of the helmet that way. There is no problem with lubrication because this makes my juices run and the more the lubrication the more the excitement. I do this with a couple of friends at times both men, both about my age, one considerably older. One fingers under my foreskin and massages the base of my prick and the other strokes my balls and my arsehole. I feel such a wanton tart at these times. I also like the hot smell of my prick at this time. This brings me on further as does the hot smell of another man's horny prick and balls. I should tell you now that I have had another man,s prick in my mouth in the past but am now careful about this practice but I still love the smell and taste of a horny hot prick even if its only my own. How many men I wonder lick up their own hot spunk as I do sometimes. This is particularly a turn on and makes me want to continue wanking even after coming the once. Although I play with other men I am also heterosexual...I suppose bisexual would be a better term to describe my orientation. I have no problem with it. My first wank was entirely on my own. It was on top of a mountain in a deep depression. I did not know anything about it but I was desperate. I do not know how old I was, but in my teens. I had never seen anybody do it before. Although winter was approaching I stripped totally naked and this made me horny in itself. There was a danger in stripping it was on the family farm and the only other person I had ever seen totally naked was my father and that had turned me on or certainly had me interested. He did not mind and now I understand that he also did not mind me watching him and even found it a turn on, a bit of an exhibitionist e.g. when on the farm and attending to the sheep e.g. and I was with him he would take a piss and proceed to fill his pipe with tobacco and light it his cock still out even after he had stopped pissing.. He knew I was staring. Anyway to return to my first wank. I did not know what I doing but I rubbed my hard cock lying in that hollow and I knew something would happen. I kept thinking of things that I would like to happen but mainly I thought of mens pricks. I had seen men pissing and my fathers. I tried not to think of my fathers cock but eventually I did and then I got a climax which was mind blowing. Not much spunk but what a sensation. I was ashamed of myself and swore not to do it again but I did within a day or two and after that I never looked back. Anyway that is the extent of my incestuous longings but I do wonder how many men had similar experiences. This was the only thing, person I had really seen naked, hard etc. purely accidental etc and also I knew it was not acceptable. Later on in life I did wonder about my own sons experience of me and whether when they came to wanking they had similar thoughts. Probably not because we did not live in the same kind of isolated environment. That first wank incidentally was dangerous because I could have been discovered there totally naked, I think it was more exciting because of my nakedness and the danger.. My interest in exhibitionism and voyeurism has often lead me to strip totally naked and this writing is an aspect of that exhibitionism. My wanking continued unabated throughout my teens and one day I wanked 6 times until week from it. Later on I wanked with two other teens all three of us facing one another with trousers at our ankles and that was a turn on. I was about 19 or 20 when I had my first real experience of wanking with another man. I was on a small island in the Mediterranean. I was in the armed services and was dating a woman member of the naval services. At midnight one day I returned her to her accommodation having tried unsuccessfully to have sex with her. I had been able to have a feel but that was that and she had to be in by midnight. I ran down the stairs from the mansion where she was lodged into the back seat of a waiting taxi. The place was deserted. just this taxi. I groaned with fustration as I threw myself down on the backseat and the taxi driver who was a man perhaps in his 50's or even 60's said something like 'whats wrong, no luck' in a thick Mediterranean accent and I responded with a groan that I was horny and frustrated and to my surprise he said have a wank , I dont mind. As we moved off he repeated his invitation and I said I think I will I havent had a wank all day and I started to unbutton myself and I became more excited when he adjusted the driving mirror so that I could see his eyes watching me. Go on he said strip off its O.K. I had never had such an invitation before and I was really turned on. I opened up my trousers and pulled my underpants down. He became more demanding. Go on strip naked, take all your clothes off let me watch you. I did as he wanted and was becoming more and more excited Ed: Whoa! an abrupt ending - we all want to know; then what happened? Thanks for the very interesting letter... very descriptive, sorry I had to edit some. I just joined this a month or so ago, and you people don't put up the new sites like you used to. WHY? I do not have July, and it is almost time for August to come out.. Are you not going to do your part? if not please refund my money of $30. for the year, and I will look elsewhere for my entertainment. MrFuntime Ed:Hello MrFuntime No idea why you cannot see what every other member has seen, July AND August and will be seeing September in a few more days.? Unless you are referring to the free 'public' part of our website (Letters to the Editor) that gets updates periodically and with no timetable - being a free public area there are no obligations to frequent updates. In the members only part, during more than seven years, only one month was skipped and that was in respect for 9/11 when we did not go forth with the October 2001 Issue. The latest a monthly issue has been is the 6th of the month (that was Hank's heart attack a couple of years ago) - usually the new postings go up on the 3rd or 4th of the month. Our official in house deadline is the 5th of the month. GMT September's issue is almost done and will be posted on the coming weekend. If you are unable to view our site or are disatisfied for any reason then request a refund. PS: You might try refreshing your browser or/and emptying your cache in case you are not actually connecting but only 'seeing' the 'cache' of what your computer saw the first time here. Thanks for your quick reply, what you suggested is exactly what was wrong, I needed to refresh, both months junped right in, I like the site, there is so many articles, and I love the older women section.... I am a man, but I like the oppisite sex, I am so straight, really straight, it really turns me off to read, or see male with males.... I guess I still like the touch of a woman. and love touching them.... Thaks again, I will keep my membership right where it is and remember to refresh every once in a while... MrFuntime Ed: Right. Hola I'm 16/m/uk/gay/7"/cut/about 5 per week (that's not how i always introduce myself LOL). Interesting site, stumbled accross it quite by accident and thought that it might be a laugh to check out, so i read a few of the stories and fealt comforted by the fact that when i'm a 50 year old tosser (no offence intended) it'll still be up and action-ready LOL. My first wank was an interesting one; it was a circle jerk! I think i musta been 11-12 years old. At the time i was straight as far as i knew, although i can't help thinking that this experience turned me gay even though circle jerks are very straight, aren't they? Anyhoo two friends and i were havin a sleep over in my house. My freinds were of the same age, and i later grew a crush on one of them, this guy was the 'leader' of this circle jerk (i think this was the first wank for all of us). We were watching some tv (don't remember what) and the next thing i know is that my mate has his cock out and he's stroking and encouraging my other friend and i to do the same... so we did! "ok," i'm thinking, "this is good!" I don't really remember much after that, though i do remember that my first time was the best! Every sleep over after that we jerked. When i started to realise i'm gay i decided not to hang out with these guys anymore cos i found the whole circle jerk thing really uncomfortable. Well thats my story... i wish you all pain-free wrists in years to cum. Lee Ed: Thanks Lee for your story. Having painfree wrists is a real concern at our age. Hi there. I am 56 years old with an enlarged prostate. Is there any thing I could buy over the counter to help me produce more seman? I used to come in gallons but not like that any more. It does not bother me but my g/f really likes a big load. Thanks for your help. Hey if ya can not help me do ya know where I could find help? Thanks catMan Ed: Honestly? I have no idea. You are past prime and nature is just doing her thing. Probably there are some products that may claim to but my advice is if it doesn't bother you then don't medicate. If you are overweight then try walking more. Eat lean meat and green vegetables, cut out white bread, coffee and sugar. Definately don't smoke! Go for more foreplay and longer sessions. Hi there! I'm a bi guy, just over 50, whose come off the road after a long career as a sales manager. Travelling our country (New Zealand) has given me the opportunity over the years to meet people of almost every sexual persuasion, and I have had many stimulating experiences, with singles, couples and more. Now that I'm driving a desk and my opportunities to meet new and exciting people are limited, I am hoping to correspond with others like me, who are keen to share erotic experiences as a way to getting it off. If your site can put me in touch with like-minded people, I'll become a member. Can you help? Doug Ed: We have a message board where some members make efriends. You can post emails as well as respond. Hope to see you as a member Hi you guys, I`m a 40 yr. old male. Both of my parents are 64 and live in Ohio. A few weeks ago while on a business trip from California, I was able to spend a couple of days with my parents. My mother is not in good health, but dad is in great shape! Since dad snores, he and mom sleep in seperate rooms. My second day there, I awoke around 1:00 AM and needed to go to the bathroom. I could tell that a TV was on in dads room and I was going to stick my head in and chat for a minute. Wow!!! was I surprised when I reached the door. Dad was masturbating and was about ready to ejaculate. I never would have believed that seeing my own father ejaculate would be erotic to me. However, I was totally turned on! Dad was embarrased and just looked at me. An interesting conversation followed. Dad said that an old family doctor told him years ago that if a man would drain his prostate every day, he would never have a prostate problem. And dad said I guess he was right!! I have always been a masterbator and now I see dad in my mind almost everytime I ejaculate. John Ed: Well thats what they say... daily mastubation with ejaculation will keep prostate problems away. I don't know if it really does but there's no harm trying... works for me. THIS SITE IS SIMPLY WONDERFUL....AND SO NEEDED. SO MANY OF US ARE JUST TOO DARN RESERVED FOR OUR OWN GOOD! HOPEFULLY, WE WILL LIGHTEN UP, AND TAKE A FEW (OR ALOT) OF RISK WITH OTHER WANKERS..,KEEP IT UP!! PASS IT ON!! I LOVE IT... HECK, WE ALL NEED SEX...THE MORE THE BETTER!! Ed: HEAR! HEAR! I wank at the rest stop up the hiway, sometimes other men come in and wank too, sometimes we wank each other Ed: Oh! that's nice. I found Jason's story about wanking when I was researching peyronie's disease. He mentioned using pvc pipe to assist in his wanking. I have an 80 year old friend who uses the rollers from paint rollers. It's open on both ends, which keeps air from being trapped...and lets the ejaculate escape. Also, he puts his "fluffy" roller in the microwave and heats it to a comfortable temperature and then he has a jolly good time. Thought I'd pass that on to all you wankers. I'm just 57 and a female, but I enjoy "sex for one" pretty frequently. After all, one does know one's own body, and when you need to speed up or slow down, apply more pressure and lessen it. Somehow, I've never been able to get that across to my partner (I'm straight and will always be straight). Anyway, I enjoyed reading all on your wankers site. All the best to you and your readers. Pat Ed: Thanks for passing that on Pat. If you try it folks be sure to use a new roller... Just found this site via a surfing session with Google. Very glad to find it. Seems like a good site to finally speak freely amongst other older men about a subject often taboo within man-to-man conversations. First, let me get the stats recorded: I am 53 years old I am average height, heavyset frame around 250 lbs My dick, when hard, is only 4 inches long but almost 2.5 inches wide at base and circumcised. I am hung like a stout fireplug! (FYI-- I never had any problem with having a short dick, my thicknes made up for it when satisfying a pussy. My only problem was that in nearly all situations it was best, even necessary to wear a rubber. Because my dick is so wide, I had to use lots of lube to get the rubber on good, but because my dick is so short, the rubber would often ride up and pop off even though it was stretched tight, because of the lube. It was like a blessing when the companies started making the larger-in-diameter rubbers. I have never had one of those rubbers pop off and they don't pinch bad either.) Now some info about my sex life in general and masturbation specifically: I discovered masturbation at the age of 9 and have loved doing it ever since I discovered pussy at the age of 17 and have also been a pussy lover ever since. For several years I was so busy trying to get all the pussy I could get that masturbation was used just to fill in the gaps so to speak, hee hee. Later in my 20s I was married for several years, and rarely masturbated. After the marriage ended, I lost much interest in sex for a while, then into my 30s, I was interested in sex again, and would maybe go out and get pussy every couple of months and maybe masturbate twice a week. After 40, I had some health issues and a couple of heart attacks. That set my sex life and desire back a bit! But as my 40s progressed, for various reasons, I laid aside trying to date and get pussy-- was a big hassle and was a risky pursuit, health-wise. At least by then, I had plenty of safe pussy via web and various media, plus my own memories. Then masturbation became my sole sex outlet. I started masturbating maybe 4 times a week, sometimes more. After I reached 50, I seemed to take on a newer kind of sex energy or something and I have increased my masturbating to at least once per day and often more. I have also taken a sharper interest in the act of masturbating looking for ways to enjoy it more and feel how my body works during masturbation. I have also discovered that masturbating is not so solo anymore due to being able to have anonymous chats via internet. One such encounter via a medical chat, put me in conversation with a guy who is 30, unmarried and he eventually touched on the subject of sex without a partner. We have had some interesting discussions about masturbation and how it helps satisfy the never-ending urge for sex. I found myself chatting about intimate details of masturbation with this anonymous friend and discovered that sharing the details of how it felt and what we tried, and what fantasies we used or what we looked at as we were masturbating while chatting, actually heightened the good effects of masturbating. I was surprised and have tried to analyze it. While I have no urge to masturbate in the same physical space with another guy, I find I like to share the experience remotely as I am masturbating, I think, due to the fact that the various anatomical and inner feelings are of interest to me and who better than another guy would understand what I am talking about, and as for me, I too understand what another guy is feeling and trying to accomplish while he masturbates. Thus we both are sharing the same sexual pursuit, and sharing somehow the overall sexual energy of masturbating without the involvement of trying to affect the outcome of the masturbation by "doing each other" so to speak. Anyway, I am presently enjoying my over-50 masturbation life very much, and am glad to find a place where I might be able to share, understand and enjoy masturbation with other guys my age, who are also finding masturbation to be a fulfilling and frequent pursuit. I look forward to obtaining membership with this group when Visa cards will work. And I hope to make more postings Eddie Ed: Well thanks for telling us - the way I read it nowadays too much is put on whether one is gay or straight. We are all sexual and thats why people 'hit it off' when the opportunity occurs. After 50, men discover their cocks all over again and go thru a sexual renovation. Sharing their stories let men realise that generally they are just like the other guy after all. Now with the knowledge base of the Internet virtually everything is out of the bag and one can find a soulmate with a few clicks of the keyboard. I love reading your stories and thought I would add mine. I grew up in a very restricted environment where sex and body parts were never discussed. When I was ten I became particularly fascinated with my frequent erections. One day when I was fondling myself I experienced this awesome feeling and stuff shot out of the end of my penis. I had no idea what had just happened but I knew that I had to recreate the experience. From that time forward I have been unable to keep my hand out of my crotch for very long at a time. I am 65. I did not know a term for what I was doing but wanking became a constant event in my life. Having no one to talk to about what was happening I thought I was very unique with this. Adding to my amazement I was very aware that my boy size penis was growing. It was not long before I was sporting a solid rock hard 6.5 inches. Being circumsized I had lots of loose skin which made the stroking very easy and pleasurable. As I grew older it didn't get any longer but became thick with a large very sensitive head. Later I began to realize that other boys at school sometimes had erections but I was to shy to ask any questions. As a teenager I had a friend who initiated jo sessions. We were about the same size and we watched each other wanking and only once did we stroke each other. Over the many years I had relationships, was married, and then had more relationships but always found great satisfaction with self gratification. Even into my 50s I could go out and screw 2-3 times and then come home and jo before going to sleep. I think men are generally hesitant to openly discuss their personal habits but I have no doubt that the vast majority of men indulge in self wanking. When I discovered that many men jo at urinals in public rest rooms I observed that there are many sizes. I thought I was big until I saw that there are some huge and some very small penisis hanging out in public places. My personal sexual pleasure has always involved females but have been fascinated by seeing men wanking. I imagine myself feeling the sensations that the man at the urinal or the man in the xxx flick must be experiencing. My fantasies vary. Sometimes I find my thoughts involving groups, sometimes some individual, and then again I sit in front of a mirror and just enjoy my on sensations. Even now at 65 I have an almost perpetual erection. It doesn't take much to make it stand up and salute. I wish I could discuss my sexual feelings with my male friends but there seems to be some sort of taboo regarding discussing wanking. Thanks for a chance to unload my thoughts. Ed: The story of a true wanker! It'll take a generation or two before men open up their emotions and feelings to each other more - the only reason we got this far is because American women have liberated us from having to be so masculine. Hank Over the past couple of years I've found the stories from your readers a source of inspiration. I've decided that I should try to do my little bit to maybe help others who had hang-ups in their earlier years. As a teenager I masturbated regularly but always felt guilty - and maybe I wouldn't do it again! I was, so I thought, quite inventive: using items of female clothing from the laundry basket to fuel the imagination, if any fuelling was needed. In early puberty I seem to have been supple enough to bend over and suck myself off! Mentioned this to a guy a couple of years ago and he told me he used to do that too. So is there nothing much that is new? Before I go any further, I'm almost 70, I've been married 40 years, I'm cut and finding more pleasure and comfort in wanking than I ever did in my earlier years. I don't always jack myself off. I find it very comforting when I wake in the middle of the night with a slighty swollen penis to reach for the KY. I use just a little to get me started, concentrating on my knob, teasing with my finger and thumb. Soon there's enough juice coming online to allow a warm, slippery hand to ease and massage a nicely thick and sensitive cock. I was in my 50s before I realised that other guys older than me were still active. Met two elderly guys, both married - one of them over 70 - at the beach one day and after a while one of them suggested we go back to his place for a coffee. Well, the coffee break was nice and friendly. Being summer we were all in shorts and before too long things got really friendly. Mutual petting and hugging. Then actually being kissed by a man! As a finale, I ended up being sucked off by the older man and me jacking off his friend. Quite a learning experience for a young feller in his 50s. James Hank: A late bloomer! Thanks for the story. Gentlemen: I welcome the opportunity to share my thoughts. Men don't often have a chance to share thoughts regarding wanking. My story goes back to age ten. I am 70 now. As a kid growing up in the midwest it was not accepted to speak about body parts and body functions. When I was ten my uncle stayed over for a short visit. I peeked one day when he was taking a bath and saw him sitting on the side of the tub obviously doing something with his crotch. He must have been about 35 at the time. I couldn't see exactly what he was doing (his back was toward me) but he seemed to be very intent on what he was doing. I never actually saw another naked person from the front until I was 19. I was very naive about everything. Well, when I next took a bath I made sure the door was locked and sat on the side of the tub and began rubbing my crotch. It didn't take long before I was hooked and knew I had to do this again and again. Having no one to talk to I experimented with ways to make this happen. Rubbing my crotch .... rubbing my fingers over my penis .... everything I did felt great. Feeling guilty about going to the bathroom just to play with myself I drank lots of water so I would legitimately have to pee .... and while I was there .. well, I had my pleasure. I had an almost perpetual erection through my teen yrs and twenties... and instant readiness into my 50s. That is when it became less ready to stand to attention. I had many years of marriage and the sex was great, but I never lost the desire for wanking. Sometimes she encouraged it and watched. Now I am alone and have a lot of time to just sit and play. I no longer feel rushed ... I just take my time and enjoy every sensation and build up to a fantastic orgasm. I don't need any particular stimulus. Just a touch, or a scent, or a mental image and my hand naturally goes into my shorts (if i am wearing any). I do enjoy reading about other mens thoughts and experiences. Its difficult typing his with one hand. The other one is involved in a slow wank. I don't have a camera now but wouldn't mind seeing some mature wanking pics. Ed: Another true wanker! Become a member for the pics. 
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