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July 20^th 1998

 Dear Hank,
I am the retired physician that you referred to recently in the July letters and although it was flattering to be asked to share any expertise I might have regarding sexuality in the maturing male, I am afraid that I don't qualify in any way as an expert. That was not my specialty by any means and all I know is what I have personally experienced, have read about, or have gleaned from consultations with fellow physicians. However, should you like, I would be happy to contribute a few "off the record" opinions.

It is my opinion that we men (and particularly, we Wankers) as we mature (a nice sophisticated word for age) experience essentially all the same changes. Some are psychological and some are physical. I am certain that one of the most common "problems" that most of us face at one time or another as we get
older is erectile dysfunction. It is a disheartening and depressing situation to find that one no longer can have the intensity or duration of erections that one had as a young man. In the past, it was felt that the majority of these situations were psychological, but that, thank God has been disproven, and fortunately .the vast majority of such sufferers can be helped. Older standard treatments such as penile implants, (that is surgery) vacuum pumps, and injections of medications into the shaft of the penis or into the urethra,
though still effective, have been, or soon will be supplanted with the simpler and effective treatment with oral medication.

I refer specifically to Viagra. Over 80% of men treated with Viagra have had good to excellent results and that is not to be laughed at. There are also other drugs on the horizon which may be as good as, or better than Viagra. I have no interest in recommending the drug other than offering help to those who may want to have a good old fashioned "hard on" again and enjoy it, as we are intended to do. My personal experience with the drug has been one hundred percent effective and many of my friends have had the same experience. I would caution anyone interested in trying the drug to consult a physician, to be certain that they are candidates for its use, and then. if there are no contraindications, to try it. Now for a common psychological phenomenon which I have observed among my compatriots.

It has become more and more obvious to me in the past ten years that many many of us who have consistently masturbated over the years, maintain this interest and activity, but a new dimension is frequently added as we age. I refer to the desire to share this experience with other men.Perhaps, it is something that we had thought of or fantasized about during our lifetime, but because of a marriage with sex, or misunderstanding and fearabout our basic sexuality, we would not pursue this form of sexual activity.

Frankly, I have a little difficulty with the labels, gay, straight, bi-sexual, heterosexual, and homosexual. It is my opinion, for what it is worth, (and with 50 cents that will buy you a Coke) that most of us have within our psychological makeup an element of pan-sexuality. It is a known fact that males who are deprived of females but in the company of other males, will frequently practice various forms of sex with male partners. Also, it is a fact, that many men have wives who for one reason or another lose interest in or cannot have sex as they age. These men also can enjoy sexual activities with another male and often not feel the same quilt he might experience if having sex with another woman. Also, as bad as it may sound, some men find that as they get older in a long term marriage, they just plain get bored and need something a bit different to stimulate their libido, and male to male sex is sometimes the answer. So, what I conclude from this is that we should pursue any sexual activity we wish to so long as it is safe, does not hurt us
or the person with whom we are involved and that it is an activity between consenting adults.

Wow, I did not mean to write a book. Please feel free to ignore this letter, edit it. or use any part of it that you would like. I also would welcome any E-mail comments from your readers and would be happy to answer any questions they may have or refer them to someone who can provide answers I may not have.
Thanks again for your fine work. It is a tremendously valuable endeavor, for which I laud you.

Dr T.

Ed: Anyone want to Ask the Doctor about sexhealth, drugs or growing old?

Yes, in your picture gallery (Men Over 50), the "Turist III" picture
will not show up? It's been this way for days now, is it my computer or
is the picture simply now showing up? Thanks for you time.
Tim

Your new setup for access to the various pages of the letters is excellent. Do you have any ideas how long it will take before these little bugs, due to the changeover, will stop rearing their ugly little heads. I've been unable to work on the writings I promised you but I will get to it eventually. This is the VERY BEST site on the planet and probably our galaxy!! I'm also working on some more Dick (in hand)

I want to contact with the man in pictures April 1,Bedtime,Pix 9.Pease tell them send back to me.Thanks

your all tossers

 Hank, I just got finished typing a email to a lady who has a site about masturbation, and mentioned for her to contact you for the purpose of setting up a site for women like you guys have done for us older men. Her name is Krista. They have some very delicious stories from men and women that are a joy to read. Anyway, I asked her to contact you, but if she does not in the next week, you contact her at that website and get together about the new website for women. Joe

Hank, here is something I received yesterday from my son, and I thought
I would offer it to the audience of Wankers...place this in one of your pages for others to read and reflect.
Thank you, Joe

Hank: Thank you Joe. Readers can click here to share this.

Someone inquired about more information on what happens at the Phila Jacks Club This might be so risque that it belongs in the restricted section, but let me try anyway. Joe in DC

Dr. T,
You sir are a gentleman and a scholar and deserve high thanks and praise from all of us wankers who worry about many things you touched on in your letter. Thanks to Hank and company for printing it and God only knows we need more words of professional wisdom to keep us from going off the track. This 73 yr old 7" daily wanker sez thank you again and "Well Done...CH

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