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Letters to the Editor Back---------- June 1998 - Page 6----------- Forward posted June 23 - 29 1998 101 Hank, remember that old dogs can't learn new tricks. Those of us old codgers who know that we can keep from being an old dog by learning a new trick like change and enjoy it. I love the changes you have made to the site since the beginning. Each one has been for the better and I look forward to the next ones. I think you were VERY wise to divide the Letters to the Editor into pages. It certainly helps those of us who visit often and don't want to search through the same ones over and over. I also think you were wise to make the classifieds into two groups. I don't know why there was griping about the letters from the younger men wanting to meet us older men. I was VERY flattered and walk with a bit more bounce knowing that I've not lost all of my sex appeal. As I said in opening, some don't like changes even if it's for the better. Some of us do and applaud your insight and good handling of a great site. Keep up the good work. My cut six inches enjoys your site very much every day. A sixty three year old admirer of your work, Jim P.S. My eighty-eight year old friend likes the changes too. He's not an old dog either. The pup can get a good boner and cum every day still. hank: Thanks Jim, for your supportive letter - it's great to hear from a fellow wanker who believes we are doing it right! We do however, respond to all comments and will act upon them in our own way. This is as new to us as it is to you and we have to learn as we go. Originally (a few months ago) we had no intentions of posting pix of naked men - if fact we shuddered when sexual words arrived in the emails and we blipped them out! We went with AdultCheck to stay legit and allow adults to 'voluntarily' choose for themselves. Now, who knows where we are heading?102 Good morning, whoever: I realize that I am intruding on a "guy space," but a male friend -- and sometime lover, of course -- told me about the Wanker site and suggested I might find it interesting. And indeed I do. I take my bonnet off to whoever had the inspiration, and to all the men who enjoy talking about one of life's most satisfying pleasures. Your introduction asked for age and "wanking experience." I am a 37 year old divorced woman, living in Maryland, whose fingers first found her pussy in earnest at about age 11...and enjoyed it immensely, thank you! Frequency? Perhaps half a dozen to ten times weekly when I am alone, sometimes a bit more, perhaps less when I am being fucked regularly. I set my alarm 15 minutes early, with the snooze button, so that I can pleasure myself before getting out of bed -- puts a glow on my cheeks that lasts all day. And, during the day, when I feel myself aroused, for whatever reason, I slip away to the lady's room, put my panty hose or panties in my purse, and go at it again. My lover, the man I mentioned who told me of the site, is 67, and he tells me that masturbation kept him sexually alive during the years between when his loving wife died and he started dating again. Because he lives two states away, I see him infrequently, only once every two weeks or so,but we share sex on the phone or via AOL almost daily. I met him at a convention two years ago in Atlanta, and after drinks one evening someone suggested that all of us don bathing suits and try out the hot tub and Jacuzzi. We did, and one thing led to another, such as underwater foot nudging, and first thing I know Hank and I were upstairs in my room, rapidly shedding our suits. I was curious. I had never been with a man of his years, and wondered what would happen. But once his cock moved -- god, I was hooked! Gorgeous thing with a big purple head and a vein pulsating on top, and hard hard HARD! We rested after round one, and then I had the pleasure ot taking his dick in my hand and coaxing it back to hardness....and Round Two was equally as good. He avows that daily masturbation keeps him virile. So, guys, hear it from a satisfied lady: keep your dicks in your hand if nothing else is available, so that they will be ready when some stray pussy comes into your path. Blessings to all of you. Annie ed: Thanks for the letter Annie. Masturbation is probably the biggest secret that men and women keep from each other. Most folks never talk about it and take their secrets to the grave. What they DO find out IF they talk about it is that everyone does it and most people seem to enjoy doing it with others - usually of the opposite sex. If young married couples or even dating couples shared these secrets from the beginning of relationships, I'm sure that more couples would stay together. Men and women masturbate for the first several years of their sexual lives WITHOUT a partner. Their hands become their lifelong sex friend who never lets them down. Once couples realise this about each other they can find more enjoyment having sex together rather than thinking themselves inadequate because they need a helping hand. 103 I must apologize to G in Manhattan, author of Letter #99. Memory told me that my classified posting mentioned that I am a frequent visitor to Manhattan. As happens all too often these days, my memory was off a few ticks, and I have unwittingly sent G on a wild goose chase in the letters. So, Mr. G., do scan through them again, and look for a 63 year old married bi, with a gray beard and a thick sixincher, whose AOL address suggests that I indeed write from Washington, DC... Sorry about the glitch. I promise you a good cock-draining suck in recompense when I am next on your fair isle. ed: did ya get that G? 104 Thank you for your wise handling of the age issue. I know you said no more e-mail, so don't post this if you don't want to. I just had to say to you however, that I really appreciate your foresight and inspired vision of what this site can be: A place FOR older men which supports ANY preference they might have for an age group, but also provides a mechanism to be exclusive regarding their own preferences. Why deny any older man that choice? To choose a narrow view towards age groups would have the effect of excluding large numbers of 50 plus men. Would that not be as "ageist" as any 19y.o. scorning anyone beyond 30? Keep up this great vision! ed: thanks for the comments - that about sums up what we want to do. Its for Wankers Over 50 and wankers over 50 have interests in all ages and that also includes both sexes. Wankers Over 50 - altho primarily intended for older men was not intended to mean ONLY older men who want older men. The fantasy of the wanker can be a person of either gender and/or age. The majority of men by the time they have past the 50 year old mark have been or still are, married. Even so, they have probably wanked 10 to 1 to partner sex. Men who are unmarried or otherwise alone have the same frequency of sex but all by hand. What anyone fantasizes about while wanking can cover everything under the sun. 105 Hi Hank' Liked Jim's letter about more bounce in his step since he knows there may be some interest in us old guys. Being in the 70's cut and still hard at that age gives me new life every day. Met a guy the other day riding his bicycle in the neighborhood and he was 43 and in damn good shape. He stopped and talked to me for a long time and I though he may have been interested...but I thought who the hell would be interested in an ole poop like me? Now I wonder??? I even look at older guys with a different sense now and also wondeif they still JO and maybe wud like a mutual one again like when we were kids. How about a T shirt with a "Use it" logo on it that would discreetly identify us guys without blowing our privacy completely??? Great site and WE ALL DO APPRECIATE THE HARD WORK, YOU GUYS!. Thanks again. CH hank: T-shirts, hats, pins and buttons sound like a good idea - one correspondent we have is seriously going ahead with it - with the emphasis on Viagra users. For us to do it is not financially possible as we have no capital to start up a business. PS 'HARD' work takes on a whole new meaning here. 106 I read in you Feb letters to the editor that (at least at that time), you were offering free guest passes to the restricted aspect of your site for those willing to share some of their experiences. I hope that this is still the case, as I would like a chance to review "all" the areas of your site (as well as your brother site). In any event, I am 58 years old and have been making a go at wanking for quite some time. I got started when I was 12, in the bath tub. My first technique as on in which I soaped up my member and rubbed it between my legs (which were pressed together). In retrospect, not the most efficient approach, but it served me well for a year or so. I was eventually turned on to the more conventional, fisted approach and I haven't looked back since. I have fond memories of camp outs with friends while a teenager in which we all wanked (ourselves and each other). We wanked in tree forts, underground forts, tents, basements, bedrooms, the woods, etc. until we were about 15. After that time, I suppose we considered it "gay" to wank with a friend, so we all went into "closet" wanking. I am married, but I still wank. In fact, my wife was recently out of town and I had a wanking revival, having cum 8 or 10 times in a five day period. It is nice to know that I still have it in me. Best regards, ed: The freebies are over in fairness to the paying members. Many of us have the same sort of story. We 'discovered' wanking and shared this AMAZING wonderful exciting thrill with our friends. Then we married and had wonderful, enjoyable sex with our women friends/wives. As our lady loves drift away from sex with us, we rely on our hands again and 're-discover' hand sex. AND, it seems, some of us go back to wanting to share that excitement once again with other males. All of the men who come to Wankers Over 50 are what society has grouped as homo, hetero or bi-sexual. Exactly what this really means seems so unimportant! The older we get the less this difference matters. What the heck is the BIG DEAL? Why is MOST of America hung up with the sexual preferences of others? The ONLY 2 issues that Wankers Over 50 is TOTALLY AGAINST is: Other than that do whatever turns each other on! 107 Hank: I'm a 57 year single woman at the time, married at one time & with my past husband from time to time we both enjoye wanking each other before oral & regular sex. I only wish thwere was a link I could go to that was devoded to women, as like I said we enjoy it as much as men. Do you have any ideas? Fox lady hank: Ya know we really got come up with something for our lady wankers (Jillers?) I happen to like the ladies so I'm wondering how we can arrange this. We need a lady who will accept all the email concerning Jillers, and be prepared to answer it with humor and truthfulness and we will set aside (or begin a seperate website) for Jillers. Any women takers? 108 WhAT happen to the pictures? could you e mail and tell me why II cant'tsee them? thank you jim ed: got no idea jim. any other folks 'lost' the pictures? When any of you bring a problem to us we will fix it immediately (well, almost immediately). Problems are one of these things:
The only one we can fix is the last one. We rely on YOU telling us what doesn't work. 109 Honchos at Wankers In response to letter #101, you state that you wonder where you're heading. I wonder too. Part of the fun of visiting your site is seeing what new changes occur week to week as Wankers Over 50 evolves. Right now I see this site as a cross between the Miss Manners, the National Lampoon, and Foreskin Quarterly, with a little of the Letters to Penthouse thrown in for spice. Something for straight men, something for gay men, and something for the in betweeners. Ain't success hell? You guys have created a monster, and now you're stuck with a decision: have fun or make money. Not easy to choose. I say have fun. If keeping this site open becomes a chore, cut back on the letters. Keep this thing geared only for men over 50. Cut out the personals. There are other sites dedicated to men seeking men. I respect your integrity and hard work, but you're not obligated to make everyone happy. TOM ed: Thanks - we really do appreciate this sort of feedback and it all leads to the things that we change or/and respond to. I hardly consider it a 'monster' just yet - we merely respond to letters, usually impulsively and without much aforethought. You will all have to take us as we are. Don't get too serious on us. We always have tongue in cheek and are far too lazy to make money! By this age if we were going to be rich, we would be! 110 Okay, it's time to join in on the fun. But I'm still a somewhat modest exhibitionist (oxymoran?). I'll send you a couple a week....use the name "Turist". Looking forward to more old men and cocks....wanking away. Of course I'm also looking forward to others seeing me and my cock as well. Great service you are performing. By the way, are you also a dirty old wanker? If so, where do we see you and your cock? I'm 59, happily married, have a great sex life (monogamous), and wank at least once a day. The Turist ed: Welcome to Wankers Over 50 - You are exhibited in the Gallery! 111 The website is perfect just the way it is. If it ain't broke etc. I don't expect to get a gold card. Tony ed: okay! 112 I have been a wanker since age 13 because I did not fit the mold of the ideal masculine macho man. Being small it sometimes needs some inventive methods to accomplish the desired end. I am seventy-one now and over the years have found ways to do it when it does not want to cooperate. I feel sorry for guys who are dependent on other people to take care of their needs. I am talking about all the guys who had to hide in junior high school or were born with unusual characteristics. I am glad to see someone has brought out into the open the normalcy of wanking and the possibility of eliminating prostate cancer by keeping it useful. Tally ho hank: tell us more... small? - We are ALL equal here. Big, small, fat, thin, handicapped - etc. Because we can now finally communicate our innermost sexual fantasies to a large group of people (wankers get over 1000 visitors per day) we are finding that regardless of what you personally think is your worst characteristic - that is EXACTLY what turns someone else on the most! 113 Love your site. I frequent it everyday. Would love to get into your restricted area but am having difficulty getting a hold of Adult Check. A page came up and said that it was not allowed in Canada. Is this true? Each other time I tried to access Adult Check it said that it was not possible to connect at this time. What do I need to do? Thanks and keep up (pun intended) the great work. R.W. ed: No this is NOT true - the provider that you are using is censoring your Internet access. Unless all you readers let YOUR providers and/or governments know that you want the freedom to read or view what you want - you may find this great new freedom SQUASHED. 114 Your comment: "HARD takes on a whole new meaning here" has to be the most profound statement to appear in wankers.com to date. I love this site!!! Dick ed: yo! 115 I've been looking for a site like yours for a long time. It's good to see that old farts don't mind showing off. I'm 48, married and in love with cocks and cum, my own and others. I'm too horny. I just got back from walking over to the video store with my wife, I pulled my cock out and covered it up until we were in the dark and exposed to get a rush from the breeze. I covered it up when I entered the video store, I believe it may have show a little bit because a good looking guy kept on eyeing me and I was going with him a dixcreet corner of the store when my wife found here movie. Nuts! We went home, I walked a little bit behind her and started playing with myself and exposing my growing manhood to the breeze, all this without her knowing. She is now watching the movie downstairs and I'm doing this in the nude. Anyway, I would like to submit some pictures, but can you bring those kind of pictures to the corner drug store to have developed? LJ ed: ya dirty bugger you! No! don't take 'em to the corner drugstore - at least not for another 3 -5 years or so. Meanwhile buy a computer camera and the pix go right into the computer - all ready for posting at wankers! 116 Just discovered your site and I think it's terrific. I have enjoyed getting acquainted with it; like very much the pics men are sending in. Would like to do it, but don't have the equipment....er....scanner, that is. Hope you wax wealthy and famous for providing this wonderful service. You are striking a blow not just for us geezers, but for sexual liberation in general. I have a minor complaint, however. You say you will print everything we say in our letters, but you know you don't. So is there a hidden agenda you have re. what you will and will not publish? Best to let us know and we won't be bothering you with the forbidden things some of us would like to share. Wanker 73 ed: Welcome to Wankers Over 50. Correct! we have a hidden agenda - it goes like this : We don't publish any thing that turns us off. Example: Forcing sex on anyone who is not in agreement or is legally unable to make a decision. Eating feces. Blood drinking. Fisting. Anything unhealthy or too weird for our puritanical sensitivities doesn't make it here either - if your tastes cover this you can find it with the alt.binary newsgroups. Refering to childsex - it goes like this. Readers write their true stories of their first experiences and we print them in the restricted area. All adults should have the right to say what they experienced as children and that knowledge will help everyone. However, situations must be factually described NOT erotically written! With this we are strict - for obvious reasons. It may be a fact of life, but it is illegal and morally unacceptable to promote childsex fantasies. We obey those rules! Researchers take note: Male children of tribes where frontal nudity is a way of life - seem to have no sexual hang-ups leading to an interest in another mans pecker. The emphasis our society places on hiding the penis and its functions from EVERYONE, turns a child's curiosity into a life-long secret that he can share with no-one. Wankers Over 50 lets you write about that - and if its sincerely written we will publish it right here. 117 Hi Hank, Can't get Turist and Gardiner. Any suggestions? Stan Ed: Turist and GardenerII aren't loading. Everything else is ok. ed: thanks fellas we fixed it - it was our fault. 118 Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old (I know I'm young) and I'm looking for an older guy to.... . E-Mail me if you live in Anchorage, or will be visiting sometime soon. I've never had sex with a man, but I'm very ready if the right guy comes along. Race, body type, etc. doesn't really matter, so long as you have a hard... JG ed: Sorry JG, but altho I'm sure there are many older men who would enjoy the opportunity to contact you - this website prefers to stay with ads from much older men. Also if it is true that you have never had sex with a man - I would suggest that at this point in your life you give the gals or guys around your age another look. (more righteousness) 119 Dear Hank, Ed, Joe, ref. my letter #49 June. I just selected "Letter to the editor", Java began loading, a pop up window appeared "importing movie" and I had to select stop. It also pops up when I load chat. Perhaps chat is not yours but are using it temporarily. Thanks for considering women wankers. this would "double my pleasure". It would also give a new meaning to www (wonderful women wankers) Ed. don't print my email address. ed: it's somewhere in the browser you use - you can turn of the warning. It' probably MS explorer you are using. Use you help menu and search for warnings and it will tell you how. You have very little to fear from 'catching' something from the Internet any how - but if you are worried get McAfee's Anti Virus installed on your system and keep it up-dated. Keep Watching for a Women Wankers Website! We don't publish anyone's email unless they specifically request it. 120 Hi Hank, Here's Chapter 10 of the Senior Citizens Eden. By the way, the Bulletin Board in Old Man's Home was a great idea. Keep up the good work. However your whole project unfolds, it will be a good one. The new touches you keep adding are great. You've found a real need out there in your Web site, and the response of all the people signing in is showing its gratefulness. hank: thanks for the compliments. Those folks over at the Oldmen's Home say that all our wankers can use it too!Readers get a special treat this week as Chapter 10 is published early because next weekend is July 4th and we are having a holiday. Have a good one too you all! Letters to the Editor Back---------- June 1998 - Page 6
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