Hi- Really enjoyed the "Giddyup" picture. As well as liking the Older guys I sure like the Olderwomen too. She looked like she was enjoying it. Would have liked to be the guy - only I'm not that well endowed. Always wanted to do my wife that way but she doesn't go for it. I enjoy your sites and it had been worth the money. I recommend it to my friends, I hope they join up.
Would like more stories too.
Thanks

 
Ed: Thanks for letting us know and telling your friends - how about sending in some tales of your past sexcapades?

HI: Well I was a later comer (pun) to wanking. All the tabos got to me so I relied on wet dreams. And what a flood gate those were. Now at 61, 5 and half ins. uncut I am having a ball! I start with my nipples, very sensitive, and just watch that pole rise to the occasion. I don't have that spurt like at age 19 so it creams over like flowing lava. What fun. No guilt! I am making up for lost time. Wow.- something is rising!!
Have fun guys.

 
Ed: Enjoy yourself - it's good, it's healthy and it's fun - what joy those few moments of pleasure bring!

In your "7 levels of respect in the Brotherhood of Wankers" chart, at the "Over 100" level it should read "Who would want to?"
Remember: Pablo Picasso fathered a child at 85!
I love your site.
Ron

 
Ed: Anyone know if there is an age limit to spermcounts? Mid eighties is not uncommon, but I would guess that mid nineties is rarer - I know an 89 year old who is able to maintain erection and ejaculate. This is an area that has never been explored like it is nowadays and this letter section is proof that as men age they have a great interest in the subject. So lets hear from readers who have first hand knowledge.

Hi, I'm writing from Perth, Western Australia. Thanks for your site - I never dreamed that I would find something that has affirmed ans supported me so easily. I am 54 years old on the outside and about 22 on the inside, and I've been wanking to a "cum" since I was 11 years old.
Despite that I am happily married and the father of two, I've never given up jerking off, at least once every day, and more if I'm away from home on business. Recent research has shown quite conclusively, that cerebal haemorrage is lower among older men who have calimed to have had a very active sex-life, ejactualting at least once every day. I can't think of a better way to protect myself against a "stroke" than by some daily stoking elsewhere!
Keep the letter on view please, I enjoy the good advice, and the fact that there are so many others like me.
Greeting from Terry
 
Ed: Thanks for writing, Terry. It makes good sense that wanking is good for you and I'm sure the more research they do the more they'll prove it.
By the way readers, do not take anything here as 'advice'. All letters and comments are to be considered just that - letters and comments - not rules to be followed. One fellow wrote and said he read about self oral satisfaction and injured his back trying to practice it.
We don't recommend or advise anything officially... but unofficially I highly recommend ejaculating at least every few days. If it's been more than a week then you have a health problem.

I'm glad I found your site. I have a friend who is 74 and jacks off every day, and has all sorts of related material such as video tapes and literature, but is shy and will talk to me limitidly, but does not want to show me what he has. We're not gay, just like to jack off. I think we should do it together as I did once before with a friend who separated from his wife the same day that I separated from mine.
We took a place together and since we both had a preference for jacking off we were happy room mates and enjoyed jacking off together and also doing each other. Kind of strange that we enjoyed that and were never tempted to go all the way, but we both just loved jacking off and we were happy just doing that. Sometimes I would wake up at night as he was on his way to bed and would stop to play with me, and I especially liked catching him in the morning and wake him about half -way there. Now I'm talking and not learning so I want to see if I can find some of other's writings.
 
Ed: Altho many men wanked with friends as children they feel uncomfortable wanking with others once adults. As men get older, years of absolute secrecy about their wanking, forms a shell that's hard to break. But for some it seems the time is right and we are seeing more men over 50 talking and opening up about their sexuality and for some that means pairing off with another old codger for a quiet, private wank. The best approach is to sit down at the computer with them and surf the net to here and read the letter pages of this website together, that'll get you into the subject real quick and you'll soon know if your partner wants a wanking bud or not!

Tomorrow's my 53 birthday and I've been beating the meat since I was about 12. I've been in 2 relationships over the last 20 years and jacking-off has always been my preferred method of dealing with my boner. Don't get me wrong, a blow-job feels great, but nothing beats working it with my own hand and some long lasting lube, and a bottle of poppers. Having a man there watching me kind of pulls the whole thing together.
 
Ed: Happy Birthday!

What is success? It depends...
Most of us understand that our self worth and feelings of achievement change as we go through life.
While everyone has different aspirations, it appears we all have some common benchmarks for what success is.
Really it all depends on your age. Consider the following:
At age 4, success is not peeing in your pants At age 16, success is "getting a little" At age 25, success is graduation and a wedding At age 35, success is about career and family At age 55, success is about graduations and weddings At age 65, success is "getting a little" At age 90, success is not peeing in your pants
EA
 
Ed: true enough!

Thanks for providing a place where many of us have been able to learn that we are part of a big fellowship of "wankers" and that all is well! I am a married 63 year old male, uncut and a frequent wanker.
Since childhood I have been self-conscious about how small my uncut flaccid penis appeared compared to the other guys. I found it was easier to avoid being in situations where I might have to be naked in the presence of others. The summmer I turned 14 I moved and met a 19 year old neighbor. We spent most of each day working together on another neighbor's farm. During one of those days he told me about masturbation. I do not recall the term he used and he did not include any technique. Being curious, that night in the darkness of my own bed, I tried it. As I recall, I used a finger tip to either rub the foreskin and or tip of my penis head. Wonder of wonders, I had my first orgasm and ejaculated seman on the first try. Quickly I learned about the fist grip and was off to a grand start. I experienced many, if not all, of the emotions others have so frequently expressed about this "practice" and how wrong I felt it was and how good it felt!
I dated through high school and college, but being what I thought was small and different, uncircumcised, kept me from becoming involved physically with young women. I heard all the stories my peers shared and felt I was not up to the standard. So, I spent those years pleasuring myself since my fist would not make judgements.
After college I married a wonderful young woman. As the years passed, I became involved in my carrer, raising my family and living a useful life. Masturbation has never been absent in my life, but the frequency fell to only an occasional part of my life during those active family life and working years.
Several years ago I decided to not be embarrased about my lack of endowment and joined a private health and exercise club. Yes, I now can be comfortable in the locker room and not feel bad that most of the other men seem to be "blessed" with bigger penises and are circumcised. From the web sites I have checked, I now know that erect and ready for action, I fall into the "normal" length range and actually am a little bigger in girth than most other guys. Also, I have even seen a few guys in the shower room that are SMALLER than I . What a boost for an ego that was bruised all those years.
A couple of years ago I retired and found myself home alone alot since my wife is still working. About one and a half years ago I discovered this and another website, www.JackinWorld.com. Also, I became upset about something with my wife, and thought, ok, I can take care of myself and enjoyed exploring the many different techniques discussed on JackinWorld and reading your reader's Letters to the Editor. So, I returned to regualar and frequent masturbation each week. I felt fine and glad to know the equipment could still bring so much pleasure. Between the summer of 1998 and 1999 I started having problems maintaing a full erection to orgasm. Not so bad when you are masturbating, but terrible when youy are trying to have and COMPLETE sexual intercourse with your spouse! This made for unfulfilled sessions for both her and me!
This year, at my annual physical I told my Dr. about my "problem". He sampled and perscribed Viagra. Wonder of wonders, life returned! The first month or so it was like having sex as a young man again. Incredible erections! Fantastic sex!
Then it changed. The Viagra still makes possible the hardest and fullest erections imaginable. But a new wrinkle has developed. A young man's dream is to have staying power. Now I literally can go, after foreplay and penetration, for 30 to 40 minutes. So what is the problem? Now, I have not been able to have an orgasm through intercourse. I try for those 30 or 40 minutes and end up withdrawing as hard as when I entered. So far my doctor has not been able to change that, and he thinks it is not a physical problem and that I should relax, forget about it and enjoy it and be happy that I can last. After all this is every man's dream? My wife seems to also be happy about this staying power. This all sounds great, but I have learned that I need to be satisfied in this sexual act and that orgasm and ejaculation is that satisfaction. To rule out if this is a physical problem, I masturbated four times this past week, once using the Viagra to see if it these great erections might somehow act as a block to completion. All four times, I was able to have normal and good orgams and ejaculated. None of the sessions were unusally long, but I was not trying to prolong the sessions, I just wanted to see if I could complete the sessions with an orgasm.
I have checked the web and found nothing to help this problem, but did find in a book and magazine articles that suggest that since no vagina is as tight a grip as a fist or hand can be, that maybe the penis is not being stimulated enough. They said that if a man can ejaculate physically during other sexual methods, ie: manual, anal or oral, but not intercourse, that there probably is nothing wrong with the man's equipment. One article was titled the One Arm Bandit and another article said that as good as masturbation is, maybe too much of a good thing could result in this problem. Ok, if that is my problem, my question is, how can I return to a condition having orgasms and ejaculations through intercourse again? Should I stop mastubating completely for a while, try to relax, and keep trying and try not to "dwell" on it? Is this "mental" and the reverse of the common premature ejaculation problems that we all have experience at times? Any suggestion you or your readers can offer will be greatly appreciated! This was a long letter, but I hope you or your readers can offer some help.
Thanks,
A devoted wanker that also likes and wants completed sex with his wife.
 
Ed: Thanks for your letter. It is fairly normal for boys to think their penis has to be bigger than anyone else. Kids can be mean to each other and locker room ribbing of the kid with the littlest pecker can be upsetting and one can grow thinking cocksize is a big deal, but as we grow older we find out it doesn't matter and for most wives penis size as not nearly as important as a man thinks it is.
The climax is just as great for little cocks as it is for bigger ones so size has no relationship to enjoyment. Nor does size have anything to do with the number of, or health of, offspring.
It's interesting to hear about your Viagra sessions. and the resulting dilemma. The fact that wanking still does the job suggests that you are probably 'trying to hard' to cum while with wifey. Try more comfortable positions than the accustomed ones, do different things with her and encourage her to wank you off, show her exactly how you like it done. Have a longer sexual evening together with her rubbing you just the way you like it. You may find a little variety, a longer session and less feeling that you are obligated in some way to 'finish' with a bang, just may relax you and get you back to 'normal'.
The fact you can do it by hand (and without Viagra) says everything works okay. So try some variation in method - it may help. Readers please comment on this and let us know if you have had similar experiences.