Letters for December  1999


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Hi,
I am a new member and just love this website. Everything, especially the pics and true confessions, guy pics and gal pics, although the last couple of gal pics are too zany for me. I love seeing mature women all hanging out. My question is about e-mail. You seem to strongly recommend hotmail and I am not sure that it is because it is more anonymous than aol etc or just more private(my wife for instance is starting to get on and it looks to me like I can do hotmail without her knowing). But my problem is that hotmail seems to say that your full name goes out with every outgoing message and that look to me like it meant the name you registered with and not a madeup screen name.I wouldn't want that to happen.
Can you set me straight on this. I am new to this stuff and a bit stupid about it, but if you could take the time to clarify things for me I would appreciate it. I want to get started with those personals. Thanks.
Joe .

 
Ed: Hotmail.com, Yahoo.com, mail.com, Plus several others offer 'free' mailboxes that you can access from anywhere and you must login with password to get your mail. When you sign up for a free mail account, do not enter your real name - After you have signed up - send yourself a few emails and look at what you get back - after you have tried this a few times you will become more confident.... remember however, that 'copies' of what you receive on your computer are stored in the browsers 'cache' memory and letters altho' deleted are still in the deleted folder.
Read about 'emptying' or 'flushing' your cache and delete the files in your 'deleted' folder for extra security.
If your concerns extend beyond that then get yourself a private computer that only you use and use passwords to prevent unauthorised access.
PS: remember to learn about flushing your cache before taking a computer in for servicing.


Hi Hank,
I have been over a year in getting up to writing this and to try to send you some pics. So here go on my first try. I am 78 y/o, 5'10", 178 lbs., I have a 5-1/2" inch Hard and only about 2" soft. I have been wanking for as long as I can remember.
My first attempt was when I walked into the barn and caught my older brother and a cousin with two girls going after it. I told them that I wanted to play that game and they told me that I was too little. One of the girls said that it would fun to have a little dick stuck in her. Well, I dropped my pants and she got me hard and I climbed on top of her. I was so small and not really knowing what to do, I couldn't keep it in. I soon got tired of that game and left. But not before I found out that getting my little pecker hard and rubbing it really made me feel good all over.
That was the beginning of a long and wonderful relationship with my self. I was married for 46 years when my wife died, but after we had been married for seven years, she developed cancer and had a hysterectomy. That ended a very fine relationship between the two of us. That was when I again found my trusty old buddy and started to wanking in ernest again.
I didn't start ejaculating until I was about 12, but I really had fun trying I had two buddies and we would get to gather and j/o every chance we could get.
That's about it in a nuts shell, Hank. Now will try to attache a picture.
Let me know if it comes out OK.
G
 
Hank: Thanks for your story - it's something many of us reading it can relate to.
Most of us contribute in the 'normal' way as societies members but we are all wankers. We all have a few encounters growing up and develope fantasies that become part of our sexual desires. Sexual partnerships do end and wanking to our fantasies is all that's left.
But, after the last couple of years of emails from men past middleage writing their most intimate stories, it's plain to see that we are all alike to some degree. We are secretly all dirty old men (and women) who enjoy wanking and that there is really nothing wrong or even immoral about it... in fact, a healthy man is pretty weird if he doesn't jack off! Thanks for the pic too, it'll be posted in the members January edition



Dear Hank,
I'm a 62 year old, recently widowed, woman. I'm fascinated by men's penises. I have finally found the Internet is full of pictures of them - what a wonderful discovery I have made. I 'diddle' to these pix imagining all kinds of ways to make them come.
Growing up as a Catholic, knowledge of penises was banned except tiny ones on babies in religious paintings and sculptures. So all my life I have only had the luxury of penis playing with a male cousin as a child, an old man at church who flashed his fat penis at me every chance he got, and a husband who never seemed much interested in sex and stopped all contact with me by the time I was 45. My sinful beliefs and self-imposed way of life will never allow me to have lovers for real but I must thank you all for all those pictures of your penises as I consider them like receiving flowers or chocolates from secret lovers every day.
SV

Hank: Our first childhood experiences of discovering that 'privateparts' are by far the most interesting parts of human anatomy and we all get sexually aroused when confronted with them. Let's face it, we all get sexually aroused if we are physically able to. For most of us that's a few years after birth. Because our society is so paranoid about children having sex or being exposed to it, children are on their own when it comes to wanking material. We grow up with individual fantasies brought from those early, self-learned experiences.
Most of us meet a mate, settle down, raise a family, lose sexual contact with our mate and grow old without sexual contact again, brought on by our fears of retribution by family, friends, church and society.
It's amazing the control this has over - something that we all hold dear to us - us sex lives. You are burdened heavily as religious belief is often based on the fact that sex is the original sin. Solace may be driven from the fact that original sin was based on re-productive sex and most sex is done just for pleasure.
If every time a man came it was to produce a child - most men would have at least 500 offspring per year! ... now lets seeee... that's about 30,000 children in a good lifetime! ... can you imagine the support checks? No wonder we wank away 29997.5 of them!



Hi There,
This sounds like a great site, even though all I've done is read all these great letters and confessions. I am a 32 year old male from South Africa and have been Wanking at least once every day since I was 12, always fantasing of older males. Only missed about 3 days in 20 years! Wanking is the greatest satisfaction anyone can achieve and I have been totally satisfied ever since I first started. I have never had sex with anyone cos my Wanking is all the "sex" I need! I don't care if I never have sex as long as I have my Wanking! I would like to experience mutual wanking with older men though - anyone older men from S.A. interested?
I've even done it many times in public when seeing a handsome older man - not out in the open though. I just stick my hand in my pocket and grab my lovetool and fondle away until I erupt. Got to be careful and not attract attention. Then just stick a handkerchief into the pocket and let it soak up the cum so that it doesn't show off on the outside of my pants! By the way I am 5 ½" and uncut.
Thanks,
Wanker-for-life
PS. I would appreciate it if you could also post this in the personal ads section with my e-mail address
 
Ed: Thanks for your letter, this will be posted as a personal in the member's area along with your email address.

My cock is only 4.5 inches long but I wank it at least twice a day and it gives me great pleasure - I would like to do it with another man around my age (55) but I am embarrassed to show my small size. Any suggestions?
 
Ed: Your cocksize is the last part of you to worry about. Just make sure you haven't got bad breath - that's a far worst problem. Big cocks are great for show and some women (and men) may enjoy having big tools rammed in them, but the average lover is turned on by more than just size.
You are worried about it far more than your partner will be. I just finished reading on the Oldsexuals Message Board that although the average pecker size is around 5.5ins., no-one seems to think it matters a whit about size only what you get out of it that counts.

AGE WHEN STARTED - 14
ATLEAST 2 A DAY
AT LEAST 10 MINS


 
Hank: Thanks for the facts.


Excellent pages! Your reader in Helsinki, Finland
 
Ed: Thanks

Do you also have photos , letters and fantasies of older women as I am not into Gay sex. Do you have personals of both sexes and or some sort of "Mature" dating service. I would think we need such a service as it seems he World is predicated to the young. However I am sure there are as many " dirty old women" as there are " "dirty ol men" and we older men would like to find them. Let me know! Thank you, Karl Stone
 
Ed: The member area of Wankers Over 50 contains photos of all types - mostly older men. However, there is a girly section that has both old and young plus access to Diddlers.com and the Message Board at Oldsexuals.com allows members to make their own contacts, including some budding j/o clubs for elders. Access to photo galleries from Busty Babes to Twinks are there also but the main thrust is for, and about, men over 50


Hank and Ed of Wankers Over 50 wish our members and readers a Happy Xmas 1999

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