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Letters received July \ August 2005



I love reading your stories about wankers and where they do it. I started wanking at boarding school in England, either with other boys in the dormatory or in the toilets- and i've never stopped since. In my younger years it was solitary to a dirty picture or magazine. Through married life it eased off a bit but not altogether.

Then, into my 50's and now 60's it's full on as much as i can, but Viagra gives me the stiifest prick i have ever had.I also discovered adult movies, and the back row. Everyone wanks away, usually helping the guy next to them. I love it, the sexy movies are the turn on as my Viagra inspired prick gets as hard as a rock and the hand next to me grabs, caresses and often scks me to seventh heaven.

I have found places where i can strip off completely and wander around ready to be stroked as i return the complement. I can sometimes shoot my cm feet away as i get so turned on with all the activity.

Now i have found the wankers over 50 site i want to see and hear all the stories of wanking in movie houses, where are these places so i can visit the USA or UK on a wanking holiday?
Yours Dick

Ed: Hi Dick. Its good to hear that you have been and are still enjoying your sexuality. Almost every big city in the UK and the USA have adult movie theatres and peepshows where sex between the patrons is common. Like everything else today, one must excercise caution when cruising publically, especially in the USA where you may be targeted by undercover cops - one example was poor ole' PeeWee Herman the comedian busted in a LA adult movie show wanking away - the publicity ruined his career. (Americans tend to deny wanking and diddling are the number one pasttimes of everyone unless physically unable to or raised by misguided parents or confused by strange religious laws.). If it's gay male companionship you are looking for, the number one place to visit in the USA has to be San Francisco. Sexual encounters goes on in dozens of gay bars, bathhouses, excercise rooms and theatres. But you really don't have to go far anywhere in the world - the men you pass on the street are all wankers and are only now beginning to tell it to the world - just like you and everyone writing here.


I am 67,male and have been doing it i.e. wanking since the age of about 14. I think this is how old I was when I first wanked off or tossed off as I learned to refer to it. I have been married in the meantime and am now a grandfather but I do not have a partner. I must say however that even when married I also did it and I discovered that other married men also did it. It is a misconception that married heterosexual men do not masturbate and from my experience they are more than prepared to do it and even with another man. Maybe I am unusal or perhaps highly sexed but I have wanked throughout my life and have also very often done it with other men even when I was newly married. In general I do not feel guilty about this although there have been times when I have felt guilt. On the whol;e however I am quite happy with what I have done and it has been a constant source of pleasure for me. I think it is O.K. to do it with the proviso that one should not harm others.

My first wank was I think when I was about 14 but I cannot be sure about that. I was entirely on my own on my fathers farm in Britain. It was high up in the hills in a sheltered hollow. Basically I felt horny and I stripped off totally naked on the hill side in the deep hollow. It was autumn and I rolled on the grass pressing my body and hard cock into the grass and earth. I was hot I liked the idea of being stark naked. I was desperate but I didnt know what for. I began to fantasize about people about girls and about boys and men as well...

That was it, my very first time. I did feel guilt after I had cooled down .... I may even then at that time determined that I would not do this again. But in two days time I did and before very long I was looking for every opportunity to do it.... I really do not know how long it took but before very long I was masturbating to a climax twice a day.. I experimented, played with my body, fingered myself and shot load after load.. This was all on my own but I thought wicked thoughts about others young and not so young.. Sometime later I remember doing it with another boy a neighbour of about my age. It was quite mutual. We looked and touched everywhere and compared experiences. He had been doing it longer than I had. I did not really want to do it. We played a few times like this but I was not sure about it. In the meantime I was shooting regularly.

The next summer I was helping the neighbouring farmer with loading hay in his barn. This was the same man I had thought of when having my first wank. He was middle aged, married, no children had a moustache and was a kind calm man.. He was unloading a load of hay into the barn, the hay was high up towards the roof. It was my job to recieve it as he pitchforked it up and move the hay into its position. It was very hot and we were both stripped to the waist and sweating profusely. My excuse was that it was too hot and that my trousers were hampering my movements so I took them off and was totally naked up in the semi darkness just under the sloping roof. He was low down forking up the hay and I had a hard , on a real boner. I was truly excited being naked up there.. Then he had clambered up into the loft with me. I think he must have caught a glimpse of me although I thought that he could not see me up there. He said something like 'I think you need help there'. This was entirely different from my play with the guy about my age. I felt different about it. We kissed, we actually made love. He knew what he was doing and I wanted it. It was not just masturbation and I came more than once and I did with him that which I did not do with the other guy, oral.. everything.

In my teens I masturbated and very occasionally had sex with the neighbour and with one or two other boys. I did military service from age 18 and learned a new technique of very silent masturbation in a billet with other men. So that I could come off in the depth of the night without others hearing me. This technique I discovered on my own. I'll describe it at some other time if you wish. I served in the Mediterranean and had girlfriends but no sex then possible with respectable girls. The hot weather made me very horny and I used to wank every day and often more than twice a day.. Very, very occasionally I had sex with other men but I did not see myself as gay. There was no such category then. One night I was so frustrated that I stripped in the back of a taxi, totally naked at the elderly taxidrivers suggestion and wanked and wanked with his help. He told me where to go to meet local men who wanted the same as I did.. I met him again and had some adventures with him and others and a couple of local policemen. It is a long story but I was always at it.

At age 25 I got married and had children and lived in London and I continued to wank. Sometimes I met others like myself married men who wanked and we played around sometimes. Throughout 30's and 40's I continued to wank. I was divorced in late 40's and after that I played around much more.

At 67 I am still at it and I shall let you have more details when I have time.
Ossie

Hank: Thank you Ossie for sharing that with us, sorry I had to edit a potion of your earlier experiences. As we said before, most men do wank, but its what fantasy they wank to that makes them different to everyone else. This variety is what makes the world go round the right way. Keep on wanking!


hi,i have downloaded shit loads of porn of shareza onto my computer but i thought once i deleted it that it was gone forever,apparently not!i was just wondering if this evidence eliminator program could delete all the porn that is probably still hidden away on my hard drive?

Ed: Yes it will remove all the 'hidden' files that contain the details of what, when and where you got the pix from. If you have had something on your computer that embarasses you then its a must if you are about to have the computer serviced or sold. It's also really important that computers with delicate business information are 'cleaned' before servicing or otherwise disposed of.
Very few computer users realise that Windows keeps a copy of EVERY webpage and every keystroke ever made on the computer that cannot be deleted by any means other than with this program. If you are not using this program then you must either delete the partitions and reformat multiple times or physically destroy the hard drive to ensure the data is destroyed properly. If it's just a few dirty pix don't worry as no one cares but if it's something that a family member should never see or something that could hurt your reputation then get the program. If you have ever been to a site with underage pix, accidently or delibrately, then you are risking jail time if your computer is ever taken as evidence.
If you visit the site ( Click Here it will explain everything about the program - which is the ONLY program that even the police admits cleans a hard drive of all traces.



I use to be a member of this site but let it drop. I miss reading some of these stories and can relate to so many of you guys. I have been wanking for as long as I can remember. I have always has a good firm 6 inch uncut cock. Unfortunately at the age of 60 I can only get a partial erection now. Sometimes when I wank it never gets hard at all, but I can still shoot a load! A lot depends on my fantasy or the porn pictures I am looking at.

I have tried Viagra and Levitra but I only get a headache- no hard on! I have been married to the same woman now for over 35 years. She still has a great body for her age (38D breast) and is good in bed and I really enjoy having sex with her but sometimes feel she is just doing it to satisfy me. She also is not adventurous. I would love to have a blow job but she refuses. I would also like to eat her pussy but again she thinks it's grouse. I know the sex is less satifying to her because I am not as erect. She'll admit that she can't feel me like she use to. I told her she was welcome to take on a lover who could satify her but she refuses. Sometimes when I am really horny and feel she isn't interested I just go ahead and wank. We only do it on week ends and so I am usually wanking during the week anyway!

I am also finding myself more turned on looking at other mens cocks. I had a few experiences as a teen with mutual masterbation with another teen and really enjoyed it. Even though I still enjoy a good pussy, I would like to meet up with some other men who would also like to do some mutual masterbation or sucking! I will probably rejoin you guys and looking forward to some more stories!

Ed: We missed you, hurry back!
Don't worry about the wife - she needs cuddling and kisses but not necessarily sex. Older women are okay not having sex - BUT they MUST have your love and you must show it to them regulary with the cuddling and hand holding, gifts, etc. Unlike men, their feelings are all over their bodies not just in the genital area.



i'm 74 and still wank daily. luv it!

Hank: Ahhh! Short and sweet! Keep on wanking!


The seniors on vacation gallery was fantastic, more more more, only give more detail and maybe some "finishing" shots, and the gals the first photo was very good, Don

Ed: Thanks Don glad you enjoyed it.


Hi all you wankers,

I would like to tell you about my wanking days, I haven't got a huge cock like some of you but size doesn't matter to us guys doe's it.

After the initail explosion when I was 11 years old, I started to experiment. The first time and many more after was on the double decker bus that took me to school. I always sat upstairs in the front seat so I could see everything, not knowing why I wanted to see everything untiil one day I started looking at girls and womens tits. Guess what Herbie, my pets name started growing inside my short trousers until my knob end was sticking out just above my knee ( I am only short ). He demanded to be rubbed, I had to sucombe to the temptation because the excitement and feeling was too great.

As there was no one else on the bus I started to rub him up and down over my trousers, then these girls were walking along beside the bus when we stopped, I could see down there blouses almost to there nipples, there beautiful breasts were heaving up and down.

Well I couldn't stop myself, I undid my fly's( zip) and pulled Herbie out, then pumped him up and down for eternity and came all over the window of the bus.

IT WAS AMAZING, THE BEST if you would like to here more please e.mail...

Ed: Very interesting! Your email address is posted in the members section.


Hi,

I want to give you guys an update on my experiences with the Peyronie's disease problem that I fell into about four years ago. As I reported back then, my penis develops a radical bend,(upwards), when fully erect. This has prevented me from having penetrative sex. It is just too uncomfortable for my partner.

So masturbating has been the only way to go.. As I get older, it has been more difficult to get the old penis hard for action, and I have found that doing 200 jelq moves, some of the relaxing moves that my friend Wilhelm advised, and the resulting shootout is very satisfying.

Now I have noticed that for several days after masturbating to orgasm and ejaculation, urinating becomes much easier. Please note that I have never had the problem of not being able to empty my bladder completely. But it is much easier after having wanked successfully. Another thing, is that my bladder seems to have shrunk, and it no longer holds as much as it used to. This means that I have to go urinate more often. This is no problem for me, at all. I don't even wake up properly when going to the toilet during the night.

Sometimes I wake with a real stiff hard-on. If I were to urinate while standing up, with the bend that my penis has at the time, I would probably piss out the window. So I usually sit down for the entire performance.

Would any of the wanker brethren care to comment on the apparent reduction in size of their bladder?

Another thing: Has there been any research into the increase in number of cases of prostate problems identified since the introduction of Yfront briefs, scants and the like? Personally, I think that there may be a distinct link, here..

All the very best

Jason

Ed: Hello Jason thanks for the update.
Its good to hear that you have a workaround - I was thinking that it might work out if you approached sex from the rear, doggy fashion, then the angle of your penis may make penetration fit easier for the gal...
I have no idea about the underwear angle but its probably another link. The clothing we wear, often produced from nylon and other synthetics using deadly chemicals to make, and the detergents etc that we wash them in are probably a factor too.
Read more about Jason's story here and here you can read about what is Peyronies Disease.
It seems a fairly normal thing to expect as we age that the bladder would not be up to what we were like a few years ago. I would guess that although the bladder may not actually shrink there may be less expandabilty and holds less before it triggers the urge to pee.



I am seventy years of age and have been wanking since I was nine. I have always been open about it with my friends because my older brother showed me how and told me that all males did it. I assumed he was right so when I would begin discussing it with my friends and freely admitting how much I enjoyed it, they'd agree and of course it would lead to a hands-on fun time for us all. Once my parents left for an out-of-town funeral and left my brother to "boy-sit". As soon as they drove off the secluded farm where we lived, my brother ripped off his clothes and told me to join. We began to jack off and continued all day. We'd stop only long enough to do the chores assigned, completely naked, and then have another go at our joyful jacking. He wanted me to jack him and I tried it for a while and he jacked me too but we found it much better to do ourselves since we were four years difference in ages.

In high school, several of my friends would love to visit me on the farm because we could go behind the barn, strip naked, and play with our dicks as long as we wanted. In college, I had a room mate who was very open about his jacking and so was I. That was the first time I had a gay experiment. We tried sucking each other and a lot of rubbing our bodies together. It was fun but we both were more interested in the girls.

Marriage was wonderful and it has lasted almost fifty years. I never gave up wanking even when having sex constantly during the first years. Now - my sex life is totally wanking because of my wife's illnesses and arthritis. But I continue to enjoy it every day whether I cum or not. I often remember my youthful days and jacking off with my friends when I'm wanking now. It certainly helps me reach a wonderful climax. Sometimes my orgasms are great. Sometimes they're wonderful. Sometimes I nearly black out from the mind-boggling pleasrue. I don't ever remember a bad one.

I really am glad you have this site where we men can share our wanking pleasures with each other, and find that we are all very much the same, and will always enjoy that wonderful miracle that hangs between our legs and is always available for pleasure and fun. Thank God I was never told it was wrong and to feel guilty. I have had so many wonderful wanks, guilt-free, that I consider myself one of the luckiest men in the world.
Randal

Hank: Well said sir! It is unfortunate that so many men have been brainwashed into thinking wanking is a sin by a hypocritical society.
It wasn't only cornflakes your parents gave you as a kid. How many men over fifty were truamatised since childhood by repressive wankers like Dr Kellogg (yes, the cornflake king) and his sick attitude towards wanking. Quote: "A remedy [for masturbation] which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision...The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind...In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement. " -- Dr. John Harvey Kellogg.

Kellogg said he never had sex. He probably was either phyiscally unable to or a complete liar. I think he was the latter. Although he did marry they always lived separately. After he ate every morning he would have an orderly give him an enema.(He lived in a sanitarium where he invented cornflakes and he claims, peanutbutter.) His honeymoon was spent writing "Plain Facts for Old and Young" warnings on the evil of sex and self abuse including 39 signs that prove your son or husband is a wanker, signs such as using tobacco or having pimples. He was a very weird man whose rantings helped sexually confuse all Americans who in turn took it out on their children.
Of course it wasn't all his fault...
The wanking habit
and going back a few centuries...
A passage in the Talmud notes: "every hand that 'checks' (the genitals) frequently if by a woman, it is praiseworthy, but if by a man it should be cut off." --- which must have lost something in the translation of frequently and exactly what gets cut off...

As you see we have plenty of ordinary people scared into believing this poppycock and placing guilt trips on their children is still common even today.



I wait until my wife leaves the bedroom each morning then want for 30 minutes 3 minutes with the right hand 2 min with left after 25 minutes I o=proceed to an orgasm. I am 59 years young and love cumming each morning

Ed: Cool!


At about age four.. The baby sitter laid down with me for my nap...She put my hand on her crotch and I fondled her pussy... This went on until I was about 12...She then wanted me to put my penis in first her pussy and then her mouth...I could really cm hard by then,,,She did too !!! She got married and that ended our sexual relationship...
I have pounded on " Ol George " for the past 55 years and always with the fond memories of "My First Encounter "
Still love to tickle the clits with my tongue and sck it as hard as I can when I sense my partner it about to explode..
MY Thanks to my now long departed teacher, Riley

Ed: Everyone learns sooner or later - you certainly learned sooner than most.


How does one start to tell all the joys of his life of constant wanking? Let me count the ways. I started at a very young age of nine, with the help of an older boy showing me what he did and the results. Wow! I became a definite wanker for life on that day and haven't let up much and am now 70. One of my favorite summers was a cousin a bit younger spent all summer with us while he dad was drying out from alcoholism. He was just as interested in wanking as I was and we were a constant dick-in-hand twosome night and day. There was a nice canyon a short distance from our house and no one ever went there. We'd go there and get naked and jack off all day until we'd fall asleep in the cool shade of a cotton-wood tree. Then we'd wake and start again.

We were at the wonderful ages of fourteen and twelve. I wish now we'd counted the number of times each day but alas, that is lost history. I remember waking in the night and feeling the bed shaking. He was after it again and I'd join of course. Strange but we never touched each other. At least I don't remember it. Surely curiosity - - - - - but that's past history. He's since had a massive stroke and has no memory of our childhood. Well, the army, marriage, careers, children, retirement - - - never did I stop wanking constantly. It was just a part of who I am and I saw no reason to stop.

I'm so thankful that you have this wonderful site where we males can compare and realize that we're all wankers and it's as normal as breathing and eating. Thanks a lot for creating a badly needed site for older men. It's nice to have company even though we don't know anyone personally. However, I do look at all the men my age and wonder how many times they jack off and how much they enjoy it. Maybe I should ask them? MG

Hank: Maybe you should... a photo and an email address in our member area will get you responses for sure.
From members that tell us, its pretty much as you read it here: Wanking is normal and commonly practiced at least once a week and up to several times a day. A "normal" man over 60 wanks at least 3 or 4 times a week, which I would consider necessary just to keep the pipes working.
More than once a day is great excercise but not necessarily a great thrill. Senior men may notice less sperm or less intensity if they wank more than once a day.

Everyone is an individual and depending on lifestyle and health, the frequency of wanking is purely in the hand of the beholder... if it feels good - do it!



Hi, I am a 39 year old gay male. I have been attracted to older men my entire life. The first time I realized I liked men was when I was about seven years old. I started to masturbate at age 13 and could do it three times a day. I often had fantasies of doing it in front of my dad or with my neighbors fathers. I enjoyed just being with older men. I now have a great relationship with a 75 year old man who does not need Viagra!

I just read a letter from a retired service man. He stated about how older couples enjoy masturbating each other and enjoy watching their spouse being fked.

I know an older couple whom I find to be very attractive. The both are extremely healthy looking and are physically active. They both enjoy spending time with me( we meet at a coffee shop) as I do enjoy seeing them. However, I am becoming sexually aroused by both of them and would really like to have sex with them. How do you recommend I approach them without alienating them if they aren't into it?

I get the impression that the wife is hot for me as she has told me more than once how handsome she thinks I am. I know we could make to windows rattle!

Ed: Probably not a good idea, it sounds like they are very much together and you may end up with her having the hots for you and him coming atcha with a gun. However you could just blurt it out one night to both of them at the same time... say "I can't help it I'm hopelessly in love with both of you and want sex with you both right now... can I?" and you may strike it lucky... let us know the outcome.


i am fascinated by older men and fking with them. I love the idea of a wrinkly giving it to me up the ass or deep throating him. If any of you guys want to me to meet up with you and ride you to bits, just let me know. I'm a 33 year old BBW with big milky tits ready for action. I will take up to 3 at a time, after all I have three places to take your big hard cks! Get back to me.
Triona


Ed: whats a BBW ?




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