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 December 2005 Hi There, I've had the pleasure of wankng since I was 10. At any rate, I am certain I was 10 when I was introduced to mutual masterbation. As I took to it so readily I reckon I must have been a solo wanker before then. My intro to the pleasures of masculin fun. I've never looked back. I am now 76, been married twice, had about 30 odd other women for longer than one night stands, and hundreds of men for wanking pleasure. NEVER to give or take, just manual or oral sex, except of course the 'ladies', when I got the greatest pleasure by making them cum, & I don't mean of them pretending, they lost too much beautiful cum to bluff, before I let the good stuff go. Two legitimate children & 7 to other married women - they could always blame their husbands, so no maintenance. What a cad!!!. Uncut, but only about a quarter of the end is covered & a total of 7" long 3 1/2 around & dead straight. 5 years at an all male boarding school gave me a great grounding in the pleasures a cock can give, & I still love to take part in mutual masterbation. Ed: As you say: What a cad!!!. Still enjoy wanking at 83 Ed: Good for you. Jack it off! Get abouta 3/4 lb. Of fresh ground beef.Put it into an "oven safe" micro-wave oven.Warm the pkg. Then - put the baggy under a sofa cushion - get your cock hard -and " fck" ! Slowly- gently until you "cum" The feeling is like a gals vagina- soft and wet!And you can re-use the baggy! Ed: Vegetarians may use a melon - but don't nuke it! My first wank I was not aware of what was happening to me, as I was a late starter at nearly 15 yrs old. I was changing in a car after a swim and I was sitting naked on the back seat with a huge erection under my towel. A couple of teenage girls came along and looked in at me, and I suddenly felt the urge to let them see me naked. I took the towel away and they both giggled but kept looking at my cock. I started rubbing it and slapping it against my tummy and they just stood and watched me. The most incredible feelings were building up inside me and suddenly I had the most forceful and exciting orgasm that I have never matched since. The spunk poured out in huge jerks and shot up about 12 inches in the air and I was doubled over in surprise and wonderment. The girls watched it all and then walked off laughing, but I think they would remember the experience! Ed: Good one! Dear Hank; I am 66 years old, so I guess I qualify to write my experiences, I am greatly interested in masturbation but am fairly new to the internet. I have found many sites on masturbation, but they are mainly for young people. Am I correct in assuming "wanking" is an Australian expression? I am Canadian and we always refer to it as masturbating or jerking off. I learned to masturbate at around age 8 from an older boy, Before the age of 11 I was also shown by a couple of other boys. I can't remember wanking much then, but I must have done so, as I remember my mother telling me "don't play with your pee-pee!", At any rate I continued doing it, and had my first orgasm at age 11; it was "dry". I ejaculated when I orgasmed for the first time when I was about 12 1/2. For about 2 years after that I wanked 3 or 4 times a week, either by myself or with one of four other friends. With three of them we only masturbated in each other's company, but with my best friend we wanked each other, usually to climax. A few times we tried sucking each other's ccks, but never to orgasm. My cock was rather large for my age, about 6" then and fairly thick. I lived in a small town and I guess word got around, because many boys asked to see it. I recall being teased about its size quite a bit. I wondered why, as I had seen other boys with bigger ones than mine. I was very shy and being teased about my penis made me even more shy and introverted. Now I realize it was jealousy that made them tease me about my penis size, but I didn't know it then. I liked girls, but being shy, having acne, and having very little self-confidence didn't help in that area. After being rejected a couple of times, I gave up on girls for a long time. On boys too, as I moved out from that town at the age of 15. Once I went back and my old friend and I wanked each other a couple of times, and I sucked his cock for awhile. After that I never had another homosexual experience. So I continued to mastubate by myself, slowly increasing the amount I did it. I discovered that by lying down and throwing my legs over my head, I could suck my own penis. I wanked 3 ir 4 tunes a week, and sucked my own penis a couple of times a week. I continued this way until I was in my mid twenties. By this time I had overcome a lot of my shyness, and had actually become a pretty good looking guy, I dated a few girls, but didn't really feel that attracted to any of them. The farthest I went for sex was with one girl, we petted and wanked each other. I really knew almost nothing about female anatomy, but must have done OK as she said she kept coming and coming. Oddly enough, I never felt it was that sexy at the time, but it hit me after I got home -- I jerked off six times in a couple of hours. I kept up with my wanking and sucking until I got married. By this time I often wanked 2 or 3 times a day and suck my cock also. Incidentally, I often ejaculated in my mouth either by sucking or wanking, and got to like the taste of my semen, although I never did at first. At 29 I married and never masturbated until my wife got pregnant. After she reached about 6 months the Dr, advised us to put off sex, so I went back to my old wanking and sucking routine. Our son was born and we resumed sex, but now I kept wanking also. Two years later she got pregnant again, and I wanked more than ever. By this time I was doing it for an hour every day before going to work. I worked on rotating shifts then --one month days, one month afternoons, and one month nights. If I was on afternoons my wife would be sleeping then and I would wank for an hour or two, and sometimes suck myself off. When I wanked I would sometimes come and sometimes not. By then I was usually ejaculating 7 - l5 times a week, and rarely went more than 24 hours without coming. Unfortunately my wife miscarried, but soon became pregnant again. We didn't dare have sex then, so I wanked more than ever. Incidentally, my wife never minded that I wanked and would often do it for me. After our second son was born we were able to buy our own house. It seemed to me my wife was losing interest in sex, as she would often make excuses not to have it. Eventually I confronted her about it, and she said yes, she didn't feel sexy much anymore. She suggested that I could find a discreet sexual partner, but she would prefer if I wanked myself as much as I wanted to. So I took the easy way and began wanking every time I felt to. I guess I was a little resentful toward her, so began wanking openly in front of her. To my surprise she said she liked to watch me, although she did not and still does not masturbate herself. If we were alone and I was not wanking, she would ask me why I wasn't. Also sometimes she would unzip my fly and wank me herself. By this time I could no longer suck my own cock, being less flexible and having put on weight. I felt guilty about wanking so much, as I was doing it for an hour every morning before I went to work, an hour in the afternoon before the kids came home from school, and another hour or two in the evening. I went though one period of about a year when I would see how many times I could come in a day, and often my cock would be sore and swollen, Once I ejaculated 25 times in one day, and I guess that brought me to my senses or something. From that time I tried not to ejaculate so much, and learned the "stop-and-go" method (stopping wanking when I felt I was coming, then starting again when the feeling subsided), By that time my wife and I were having sex regularly again, and I also used this technique when we had intercourse or oral sex. Also sometimes I would get angry with myself because I came before I wanted to while wanking, so would keep on even though I had just ejaculated. It felt strange at first because my cock would be very sensitive, But my semen made a good lubricant and it would only take a few minutes for the feeling to come back. After I did that many times I never ever really lost the feeling to masturbate. Then I was in my mid-forties, and needless to say I thought I was wanking too much, as I kept count and was doing it 28-32 hours a week, virtually all my spare time. I thought about seeing a Dr. or therapist, but instead made excuses for it -- I needed it to relax, I had a high sex drive, I was too nervous when I never did it enough, I did such and such so I can reward myself by wanking, etc. It was my wife who told me not to worry about it and do it as much as I wanted if I enjoyed it so much. I thought about it a lot and realized it has never harmed me at all, as far as I know. I have worked hard all my life although I had a rather poor education, I have provided well for my family and have seen our two sons get a good education; they are moderately successful. My wife and I have been fairly happily married, have our own house (fully paid for), have a nice car and a comfortable income. So I cannot see where it has ever interfered with a normal life. In my fifties I was a lot more relaxed about wanking and felt good about it. I retired at 63 and cut down on my wanking for awhile to about 2 or 3 hours a day, as we were busy enjoying our retirement and travelling a lot. Also we had a few guests from abroad. This spring two big events happened in my life: I had to have any eye operation and at the same time quit smoking after doing it for all my adult life. For those reasons I suppose, I lost interest in wanking for a couple of months. It came back, but I never quite let it go for awhile, as we were going abroad on holiday and I wanted to wait until I had time for it. Nowadays we really don't have much to do; my wife mainly does needlework and sewing in the winter; I spend most of my time on the computer playing games or on the internet. As for wanking, I have my cock out pretty well all of my private time, and I suppose wank more that I ever did. These days I only come 2 or 3 times a week -- just as I did when I first started. I don't really care that much about orgasms any more, I just like playing with my cock and do it as much as I can. I am in good health, I think a lifetime of wanking a lot has contributed to that. If I could change anything I would wish I had the information about sex and wanking when I was young; it was very hard to find then! I know I could have enjoyed it a lot more when I was young I hadn't felt so guilty and ashamed about it. I wish my cock had grown a bit more as it was 6" when I was 12, but only grew to 7 1/2". It is 1 3/4" across. Also it is not much different in size when erect or flaccid, and does not get really stiff much anymore, but is mostly semi-erect (perfect for wanking)! Thank you for the opportunity to share my expereinces and thoughts about wanking. Hank: Thanks for the interesting story of your wanking life. Readers of all ages will relate to many parts of your wanking phases. Hank, is there anyway I can get ahold of "Tee Jay" ? Man, but he is a boneraiser!! I know you can't tell me but, I sure would love to know his email address, if at all possible! He is one of your "mainstays" when it comes to your galleries of pictures. Can't blame a guy from trying! Thanks so much....I love your web site...keep up the good cock displays!! Hank: Without any reason given (and of course we dont ask) TeeJay emailed and asked us to pull all of his pix. A shame, because, as you say, he was a member with a new gallery every few months. A couple of times members have changed their minds and asked for their pix to be pulled. One wrote and said he has started going to church and thought it immoral and for another he said it was for his wife's sake. Hi I was a very happy man but I just turned 50 and I have been so depressed. I miss my 30's and 40's . they were great ! when I was 37 prime time, I was a millionaire , 2 beautiful children, a gorgeous wife, I was so good looking and I had the life of a king. I lost it all 2 year ago Today, I am this fat, going bald , heavy wrinkles all over my face, a turkey neck, I am so ugly, I now live in a 1 bedroom apt just making ends meet at 6 dollars an hour. I am so depressed, My family does not want me. I have to pay a fine which is over 200, 000 dollars and I may have to go to jail. I have a 9mm pistol and I would love to pull the trigger in my mouth and end it ! Please help me . What should I do ? Karim Ed: Put on the news. Compare your lot to whats happening to millions of people around the world. Look around the streets of your town - many people have it rough. Six bucks an hour and an apartment? Hang on to it or you will be homeless. If you want to live get ahold of yourself and see where you can change. You are fat? So are most people nowadays. Going bald? Big deal why care? Millions of people are balding... Wrinkled? It's a very natural part of aging. Worried about your looks? So are fashion models - who cares? In debt? It's only money. You won't go jail for just being in debt. And if you do? worry about it when it happens... and if you have done worse - than take your punishment and get over it. You have a very precious thing that transends money or pride or poverty, and that is your life. You just get one life - this is it. Being fifty is the time of male menopause. You are getting yourself depressed because you are realising that your primetime may have past. Well, the youthful part of it has, Now you have the next half to go as a mature, freethinking man who has excellent examples of your past happy life to base your future on. This part of it may be rough but you can survive it and you will be able to start again. You have had the happy, millionaire part that most people can only dream of. You have been there and done that, now its time to be mature of mind as well as body. Try to keep a sense of humor and stop feeling that there is no way out. Time heals eventually, meanwhile go find some older men to chat to. Let others help you out of your depression if its hard to deal with. Oh, and the gun? You can use the money more, so go hock it. It's not fair that you shoot yourself and just make a mess for someone else to deal with. My dad told me a little ditty once.... "I had the blues because I had no shoes. Then on the street I saw a man who had no feet." Well none of this is very comforting - no one can really comfort you - become a volunteer in a homeless shelter and help others. You may discover that money and looks are too shallow a reason to waste a life for. Good luck and Merry Christmas Hank PS: If you are religious then go see a minister or priest, rabbi etc. If you are not religious go see one of them anyways. you'll pull through these badtimes - goodtimes are ahead. Let your life carry on until nature calls the shot... it'll come soon enough - no need to hurry it. Hello, At 84 years of age I love to wank only if I can find a woman that will oblige. HOTT To Wank Don Ed: Ask all the ladies that smile at you. One will oblige. Dear Editor, Triona sounds like a wanker's dream! 33, big milky tits and a BBW. That means she's a Big Beautiful Woman and she can take 3 wrinklies at a time ! Is there any chance of getting pictures of her and asking her what she thinks of men wanking for her? Thanks, Andy Ed: Well if Triona sees this and asks us we'll give her your email address. I am 76 and could wank with a limber but I have to take blood pressure medication which makes it impossible. I do have desire and would love to date a young girl in bed just to hug and kiss and carress. But I haven't found one yet so I will keep trying, And old Wanker Ed: What's a limber? Hi! Congratulations for your wankers web site! I'd really apreciate if you could give me some advises. I am traveling to miami in february and I would liuke to know about some wankers clubs in florida to go there to see some other men wanking, and possibly looking to some young cute men stroking his dick till cuming, oh my gud, I'd reaally enjoy that. So I'd be much too tankfull if you could give me some adresses to make my dream came true! Thanks! Ed: Cant give you any addresses but a search on the web gives some Florida meeting spots. I think I may be under observation because of some websites I go to. What can I do? I think I may be just paranoid but I was looking at youngteen sites. And they may be unneraged BB Ed: If you have a windows computer then use the program we recommend Thats the very first step - that'll assure your computer is "pristine" clean. Secondly don't ever visit those websites again and you'll never have this worry again. And to you and ALL readers Stay Away from minors - if your fixation/fantasy involves minors dont search for it on the Internet or keep any trace on your computer. This is one fantasy that can ruin the rest of your life and the lives of those around you - let alone the exploited minors.
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