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 February 2007 Dear Editor I have had a fairly active life: girlfriends, marriage, children and occasional encounters with men which, like many of your letter-writers, have become more frequent as I have become older, despite still being married. I am not sure whether this last fact is due to more opportunity with men or whether I now find it easier to accept that a significant part of my sexuality is homosexual and need to work on that unsatisfied part of me. I am 61 with a thick 7 inch cut cock and had my first wank to orgasm when I was 12. Wanking has been an important part of my sex life since then and I particularly enjoy doing it whilst naked outside or at the beach when the opportunity arises. My first encounter with someone else was when I was thirteen and was sharing a bath with a friend whilst staying at his farm. We both had erections and I was surprised when he took mine in his mouth. I was too surprised to come and after that we only masturbated together a few times. Presently I usually wank four or five times a week, but this has varied over my lifetime depending on other alternatives available. Despite wanking most of my life, I have only recently discovered the great sensations which can be had from nipple stimulation and the benefits it can give to solo sex. By gently rubbing my nipples with my fingernails (right hand on right nipple, left on left), I can quickly bring up an erection with plenty of precum flowing. A great preliminary to moving my hands downwards to stroke out the white cum. It is also a great way of giving yourself a sexy lift when in public. A discreet rub of the nipple is not noticed like the brazen rubbing of a cock in your trousers but can have a similar effect! It is best when wearing light clothing like a T shirt and once started, the nipple will stand erect and give further stimulation when moving against the material. It is magic when wearing only a skimpy swimming costume at the beach. When recently out drinking with a younger workmate, he told me that he was gay. After a series of fumbled “confessions” about our sexuality, we sat in the back of his car where I wanked him off before he sucked me dry. Since then we have met a few times in his apartment where we can slowly suck and wank each other in private. However, because of the situation at work and the differences in our ages, I do not think this relationship will last. I am now looking for a wanking buddy about my own age and living in similar circumstances so as to minimize complications. John Ed: Thanks for your letter. As you have noticed from the postings here it happens to a lot of men. Its the 3 Ms - Marriage, Middleage, Masturbation. or is it the three Ws? - Wedlock, Weariness and Wanking. We go thru our marriages as relatively 'straight' men but as the years roll on and our married lives become more mundane we enjoy our private wanks more and more. As far as words go like homosexual etc it's not really relevent once past middleage. You're not in the baby producing age anymore so who cares? A male partner is not likely to wreck your marriage like a female one may. It's too bad the next fellow isn't closer. Hi. I am from Wales in the UK and have been wanking since about the age of 15, although i was into finding out what the difference between boys and girls was at a much younger age, yes i got caught looking inside a girls knickers, later it was wanking with other boys of my age. I remember being on holiday at about age 16 and sharing a bed with my mate, during the night i gave him a wank and made him cum, nothing was ever said about it the next day and it never happened again. Now at the age of 66 my wife is not interested in sex so wanking is a must, i do admit i enjoy watching other men on the net wanking themselves and i have met one chap locally to have a mutual wank, really would like mutual wanking as a regular thing but it seems very difficult to find other like minded men. I have only just found your web site and must join, so hope i can share more of my thoughts. Thanks D Ed: Thank you for your email and welcome to the club. This sounds just great and I'm so glad I found you. The item on writing stories would not come up on my screen. Could you fwd it to me, please. I have my personal story to tell and have experimented and invented ways of jacking off that I'd be glad to share. I also wrote a story of my own, based on an event that was shared with me years ago - about boy scout campers and their two leaders (in harmony with your rules). This is in serial form and was originally intended for a man who contacted me (I don't know how he found my e-mail address) and wanted to be jo buddies. When I sent a second episode, he replied in a smart-aleck manner (neurotic or ?) and that was the end of any contact. I live in Eastern Neb. and should like to have buddy or two - or, preferably, a group like yours - but in Neb.??? I look fortward to hearing from you. Yours, Rodney Ed: Hello Rodney, Thanks for writing. We do like to hear about early experiences but NOT fantasy and definately not material that can be construed as promoting sexual activities between an adult and an underaged partner and regardless of how entertaining it may be we do not want illegal material. Altho' many men (and women) were introduced to their first contact by an adult and enjoy the memories, there are others who abhor the idea and as you can see by the daily news severe action is taken against offenders. (NOTE) Kids who are seduced by adults tend to have sexual fantasies involving adults, but kids whose memories are of sex with other kids tend to have fantasies involving other kids. This is my theory - true or not? Write us and tell us what you think? Hi,Enjoy your site.Stopped me thinking i was alone in my fantasies while at it.I am 52,7 inches uncut.Got involved in wanking two or three years before trying it myself.When i was about 9 moved to a new area and school and was enrolled as an Altar boy,well in the next year or so I was the Star or one of ,doing Weddings etc. The guy in charge was called the M.C and in charge of all alter boys and he organised camping trips.My parents became friends with him and he would visit they would all be up after we went to bed as it is with adults and kids. Well they must have invited him to crash out each time,probably drinking. Well to get to it, I would gently wake in the night to find my arm outstretched with him holding my hand on his cock as he knelt next to the bed wanking, with his handkerchief rapped around it,to catch the spunk. I look back fondly on that,and thought the hanky added a little extra. then it all never happened again. He was 21 years of age and died. Good some might say,but i cant go back to him years later,knowing what he likes and get to do it with him.I then went into school one morning and my buddies were already there, I had to work and they were spoilt, as i called it,but i was 12. One called Chris called out," Hey, Did you know that if you rub your dick stuff comes out" I answered,in all honesty "No". But,apart from the "informer" we all went of that night to find out. thats where my story gets up a gear. Regards Mick Hank: Hello Mick. Thanks for the memories. So now what happened during the next 40years? and whats your preferences now? hi Is wankers.com for sale please? Many thanks Nick Hank: Hmmm... well that depends if you can make us rich enough. Make an offer well over fifty grand and we'll think more seriously about it. i have been wanking since i was 13 it all started when watching girls playing out desperate 4 the toilet i was on bonk cos of it so i started touching myself and i still do it now also the boys at school used to wank in front of each other i was far too shy to join in but got turned on by it , i like female desperation it makes me so horny. i like to go in the shower and use the jets of water to get a hard on once there the orgasms are wild, i also keep the water jet on my dick and come without touching try it and enjoy. Hank: ..."watching girls playing out desperate 4 the toilet i was on bonk cos of it"... I'm not sure I know what that means. Personally I have never enjoyed sex in the shower but many guys like to lather up and wank away while willie washing with water. Hi: This is Jim, in Northern Illinois. I have a question. If I am not a member can I send photografts and a Yahoo e-mail address, would it be posted on the member site? Ed: Of course. The pix will be most welcomed by the members and an email address to comment on them is a plus. At 72 years old, with over 60 years of experience, masturbation has become my most enjoyable pleasure. It does take a bit more stimulation to get a good erection now, but that is another part of the enjoyment. Today, for example, I stripped naked, fired up my computer, took out a bottle of lube, and opened a file containing nude pictures of Chrissy Moran. Then I placed a bit of lube in my right palm and, using an overhand stroke, looked at each picture in the set. Soon my I felt my balls tighten as my cock bloomed to its full 6 inch length and hardness. Then I signed in to Wankers where I read February's confessions, stroking all the while. After reading the request for inputs relating to "The Where's and The Whys of Wanking" I decided to write this account--left handed as my right is still busy! I aslo enjoy getting out and about to play. Last week I drove to a beach (250 miles round trip) where I spent four hours playing naked. I started with a magazine propped up on my steering wheel, then got out and walked around as I masturbated. The wind had a bite to it so I was in and out of my car all afternoon. Several other guys drove by and checked me out and a few other guys were showing a ways off from me, but no one stopped to join in or get a close up view. I finally let the cum fly just befor dark. The week before, I went to an adult theater near San Antonio. I sat in the next to last row close to the aisle away from the entrance door. A few guys were standing against the back wall and there was one at each end of the back row. I rubbed my cock thru my levies as my eyes adjusted to the dark interior and I finally saw one of the guys at vthe back wall tske his cock out and another one reached for it. So, considering it relatively safe, I unzipped, pulled my cock and balls out, lubed up, and began enjoying myself. Soon the guys in the back left as did the person right behind me. I could see the man at the far end of the back row was playing with his cock and, every so often, he looked over to see what I was doing. I had aslid down i my seat a bit which placed my cock in a shaft of light and I slowly slid my hand up the shaft, over the head, and back down again keeping right on the edge of cumming. Pretty soon, the other guy got up and walked over behind me. I thought he was just going to watch, but he reched over, grabbed my cock and began stroking it. I came almost immediately, but he continued stroking my cock until I couldn't stand it any longer and had to make him quit. So, that's some of the ways I enjoy wanking. I'd sure like to find someone else my age that would enjoy wanking together...... Ed: Thats great that you are active and enjoying it at 72. I'm sure that you will find someone you can call a wank buddy your age either at the beach, the movie show or at the senior center even. This site is truly very sad. I have read a few of the stories and they seem to bring back bad memories for me. I feel very sorry for the guys here. I hope they they can get more important things going in their lives than "Wanking". I hope that this disgusting and sinful sight will be end up in the trash can of time, and I am sure that people will be the better for it. Rob Hank: Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Sorry that you appear to have such a hangup about something so purely natural as wanking, but don't feel sorry for us - we are all happy wankers here. I suspect you have been mindfucked by a religious upbringing that concentrated on forcing their sexual hangups on you. It's you that needs sympathy, especially if you are afraid to admit to wanking and if you dont wank(shudder), I seriouly believe that you should seek professional help.. Maybe you have a medical problem as well as a mental one. By the way what could be more important in ones lives than "Wanking". ? Really Weird Here is an interesting link... 
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