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April 2007![]() Have enjoyed jacking off for about 55 years I am 69 and have been doing it since early teens. I still j.o. just about every day. I enjoy hearing about other guys stories.Hank Ed: Good for you, Hank. ![]() I am 53 and have enjoyed having a wank since the age of 15. At present I am alone, so I rely on it to provide my sexual pleasure. Even when married, I stll enjoyed a good old wank. It helps to relieve stress and tension, and helps one control ejaculation. Last year I discovered the delights of mutual masturbation with a friend, and it was so fulfilling seeing another guy have the same enjoyment as me. I think about previous intercourse experiences, and also take delight at viewing Randyblue also! I think a good wank is refreshing and a very healthy pursuit, that one should do at least once a day, every day! I like the build up and then feeling the flow of semen, its so refreshing. Recently I obtained an anal probe, which adds to wanking pleasure, and its so erotic. Long live a good old tug!! Antony Stoke on Trent Ed: Thanks for sharing that...I couldn't agree more! As you say ..."Long live a good old tug!" err umm, shouldn't that be Stroke on Trent? ![]() I have absolutely no problem with my equipment , i can still maintain an erection for over half an hour and on occasions several times ., with my beautiful 32 year old wife , who does not resemble a beached whale! By the way! I do not , and never have had ,to indulge in drugs ,viagra or any other stimulation when on the job! I have never had to perform anything but normal sexual relationships to attain sexual nirvana! No bondage, anal or any other sexual perversion to keep me in the game 100%. On top of that i do have the occasional fantasy and have to jerk off once in a while....Ok, maybe twice a day!... But then i have always been highly sexually charged...From the age of 10! Only with women.... And i mean women...I have always been interested in girls or women older than myself....But when it came to marrying one of them....I could not imagine spending my days with a wrinkly old ugly bird.... So i married considerably younger than my age group! She is extremely happy.... And i am extremly satisfied.... As i reach 52, i cannot imagine shafting some 50 year old....It was alright when i was 35 and they were 45...But , come on...Jesus...At 50 they need ironing!!! So to all you 50 year old wankers out there ...I suggest that you upgrade to a thirty-something and get yourself totally fucked!!! For the rest of your life Ed: Ha Ha, You're still a kid at 52. Don't you know that an old woman can be the best of all? She won't get pregnant and stays loyal to her lover, cooking, nursing and attending to his every whim as will any woman if you keep them satisfied and understand their ways. A wise man can 'grow' his wife into the ultimate sex toy as the years tick by. And the wrinkles? all the more to play with. Nature wants us to choose a healthy and shapely woman to reproduce for survival. Hollywood and playboy has made us all grow up thinking that commercially made up faces and silicon swollen titties are the only kind of woman to want. Well maybe thats true for some but not all. I know a young man 28 who is happily married to a women who is 66. he married her when he was 22. She has more wrinkles than most women her age because she used to be a weight lifter with huge muscles now turned to really big wrinkles. They are always hand in hand and lovey dovey together. He by the way is quite handsome and could easily have his pick of young women, but he has found true love - I don't know what the sex angle is, but I'm guessing fairly normal, missionary style judging from the way they are sensitive to each others needs, never criticize each other and are always arm in arm or cuddled together when you see them. In fact they are the among the most content couple I know. Cuddling an old lady with wrinkled skin is like feeling up a loose silk nightgown and can be extraordinarily sensual and comforting if you give in to the feeling and forget looks. An old lady can offer everything a man needs; a lover for sex, a mother for comfort and a grandma to spoil him, all rolled into one well matured body. Growing old together and remaining lovers is the key to a longer life. It applies to gay relationships as well. You know I married my wife for her looks... but not the ones she's been giving me lately! ![]() Hey there, Although I’m not over 50, I am still interested in your site. I am currently undertaking my PhD studies in Adelaide, Australia and am looking at sexuality and older men in residential aged care facilities. Although your site will one day personally benefit me as I age, I am currently more interested in the fantastic information that is contained within your pages. I suppose I half of the membership attributes and that is I wank. With yours and the members permission I would like to continue to access your site to utilise the breadth of information and stories published. Please advise me if this is or isn’t possible and I will continue from your guidance. My return email address is:... Looking forward to hearing from you. Roger L PhD Student Hank: You may use the information as things you have read about but you cannot reprint or repost it anywhere verbatim. These letters were sent to be posted here. I cannot grant permission to post them elsewhere. But please by all means use the information you have learned here. We would require you reveal your source (wankers.com) if using quoted references in any published essays or manuscripts. Anything you put online must provide links to the original. I'm sure the knowledge that there are many old men well over the age of eighty who get a good solid hardon and wank all the time is of immense value to voyeurs and sociologists alike. Many of our readers/members are in their eighties and a few over 90. The loss of a sexual appetite overtakes some men in their later life because they have been raised thinking that all sex is bad and there was little around to stimulate them anyway. An example: Some catholics have guilty feelings because they don't confess their wanking (which is considered a sin by their church), their guilt builds up a point where they may reach an unbearable crisis in their life... it's called Catholic Guilt (google it) but applies to anyone who has been brought up believing that all sex is bad and masturbating is even worse. Thousands of years ago when this fear of wanking began, the only way for a tribe to survive was by having as many children as possible to increase the size of the family - the bigger the family, the larger the tribe, the larger the tribe the better it could provide for everyone and defend against enemies. Of course you would not want wanking to catch on. The wisemen knew that every drop of joyjuice that hit the ground was one less tribal member. (beside with a dozen wives who's got time for wanking anyways) On the overcrowded planet that we live on today wanking makes good family planning sense and should be encouraged in nations where population is out of control. China has millions more men then women and will have way more than 30 million unmarried males ages 15-34 by 2020. I predict that China, aside from having the most wankers, will become the gayest country in the world. Men are wanking away all around our planet as they are being titillated by sites like this on the Internet, cable and rentable sex movies. The vast array of porn that we had never been exposed to before is being 'thrust' upon us by the virtual ton and we are all lapping it up as fast as we can before we lose it forever. It's our turn. Women have their rights, gays have their rights now its our turn and we want to wank away alone or in groups without fear of recrimination from those who don't approve. Senior sex used to be frowned on but is now (thanks in some part to people like yourself) becoming acceptable in some senior care centers and older men are 'coming out'. It's our time! we want the kind of sex we have grown to enjoy and we want it often. If you really want to do something for old men in these care centers then promote wanking clubs and insist every senior home provides access to such a club for both men and women. Announcements made in local newspapers for those who don't live in a senior home to come and join in. Home visits by volunteers should be encouraged for those housebound and unable to attend regular wank meets. Handicapped people of all ages should be invited and aid given to those that need it. Add this to your education: My grandfather died a few days before his 100th birthday. When he was 90 I visited for a two week holiday. I have always been a horny bugger and within a day or two we were enjoying sitting across from each other having a good wank. He had two old cronies that he had been wanking with for the last 30 years since his wife died. His pecker was stiff and effective and he shot lots of goo. I'm sure that had he not died in an accident he would still be wanking away past 100, in fact if there is an afterlife that's what he's doing now 40 years later and probably with his old wank buddies and gran diddling along with them. He and gran had 16 children. ![]() Hi! I belong to India and brought up in middle family. I'm very handsome and attractive guy but because of my slim physic, I Idon't look that good and handsome. I am still practicing wanking even I have two child and living a high standard life in UK. But this habit is killing me inside. I start wanking when I was very young for the first time I was in shower and was playing with my penis then I start feeling excitement. In the end I felt relaxation and some transparent glue was coming out of my penis. That was the first time when I was watching that there is something else is coming out of my penis. I was very wondered that what it was. And to find my answer I did that again n again. Then slowly I was caught in this habit. Now there is a big difference between having sex with my wife and wanking. Sex is very un controlling, like, if I have sex for 10 times, may be I enjoy for 2 time, even not fully. But when I wank, then I enjoy it completely and on ejection I feel so relaxed and complete but my mind is full of sorrows, desire of suicide, Please tell me way out of this hell.................its killing me Hank: I understand how you were brought up and I'm sure you have probably never talked about wanking with anyone and you are having all this guilt BECAUSE OF YOUR UPBRINGING. But you must stop worrying. Firstly, your marriage - perfectly normal to not enjoy it all the time, especially after a couple of kids. Sex with one's wife usually becomes routine and always the same, Whereas wanking .. ahhh your imagination can fly like the wind, all kinds of weird and wonderful thoughts and pictures bring you absolute joy as your hand pumps up and down faster and faster bringing you to the ultimate sensation. Wanking to your fantasies is all yours and doesn't need the approval of anyone. Wives can grow cold as well as old and children grow up and leave you, but your cock is always there, it goes where you go and can bring a little happiness no matter how bleak your life becomes. For goodness sake change that mindset you have about wanking. Praise wanking, worship wanking. Nature (God if you like) gave you this wonderful feeling so you would take care of your woman and make babies. Well you've done both, you have served your purpose sexually (2kids) now your pecker is yours to do with as you like. Think of wanking as a reward for a job well done. The 'let down' feeling after a good wank is twofold. The first is the return to the real world (thats enough to depress anyone) and the second is the guilt you have imposed upon yourself because of your upbringing. I say 'imposed upon yourself' because I'm guessing that no one has ever advised you one way or the other. I don't know your religion or how subservient you are to your religious beliefs or if its forbidden or not, but you probably have developed this awful attitude about nature's most precious gift to man, all on your own based on information thats lost all meaning in todays world. You are not alone, millions of christians, jews and muslims have the same hang up and have had for the last few thousand years. Wanking may end up producing less converts to the faith so must be forbidden to their followers. Religious laws are always restrictive, repressive and against human nature and fear is the only hold they can have on people and thats why they scare you with all the awful things god will do to you if you don't obey. The majority of the world still believes this crap and it may take many more years (if ever) before religious beliefs encourage the things that make us feel good in our real lives instead of the imagined miseries that await us in the afterlife if we don't obey their tenents. I once spent a week living in a famous USA christian university back in the sixties and I swear that every last student and professor was gay. They were waving their dicks at me in every public bathroom on campus. In the evenings circle jerks were happening in every dorm. I was a long, blond haired hippy, an outsider and a drop out. The novelty was so great for them that they were after me like I was a bitch in heat. I have never before or since been so exposed to so much homosexuality in such a short time, I must have been propositioned at least a hundred times in that one week. So it's all bull anyways. All men wank and unmarried priests and religious students are no exception only the most extreme are celibate. So if they can't follow their own teachings why bother to tell others it's a sin. Wankers are a better value to the world than warriors. If all those men killing each other in the latest wars were to sit in on circle jerks with each other just think of the joy the world would have. If all religious leaders told men to love each other... literally. If they convinced men that they wouldn't go to heaven if they went to war - in the same way they have convinced men that wanking is a sin, our world could be a wonderful, happy place. Instead religious leaders teach their followers that killing your enemies in war is great and assures you of a place in heaven... what bullshit! If there is a hell I bet it's full of dead religious leaders, priests, popes, and bishops (and of course politicians). You come from a very tightly knit family and your marriage was either 'arranged' or at least heavily approved of, and you had little choice in the matter - in fact you have probably had little choice in much of what you do. Your mind is tied into to your parents, grandparents and relatives. You cannot make a move without family approval. This is how it is in all tightly knit families in all cultures. In the world of tribalism it has to be that way for survival. However, you are in the UK, you can see whats around you, a hodge podge of cultures that are clashing with the times constantly as their children go out into a world completely different than what they were brought up in. And many like yourself are stretched between the pillar and the post, the past and the present. You have to be the one that breaks the old ways and teaches your children to be well adjusted citizens in the new age. You must talk to your son if you have one about the joys of wanking as well as the reason for marriage and joys of sex with a woman. When you are wanking it's extremely personal and something your family cannot know - it's your own world and it's completely yours to fantasize about in any manner that turns you on. Enjoy it and feel proud afterwards not dejected. Besides, you think you are the only wanker in your family? I doubt it. Some of your male relatives are probably enjoying a good wank right now. The older ones even more so. If your guilt is still too much to bare then you must get your wife in on it She can wank you while you close your eyes and imagine what you want. Maybe you and your wife should try some of those positions and activities as outlined in the book "The Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana: Love Precepts of the Brahmans" That way you'll enjoy sex with her 10 out of ten times. But if you can't do it with your wife then wank away in perfect harmony with what is natural and deal with the world of UPBRINGING as seperate issue and don't confuse the two. And by the way, regular wanking is now considered a way to prevent prostate cancer in later life. So drop the guilt and do it as a healthly exercise like jogging or weight lifting.. Now say after me... "wanking is wonderful, wanking is wonderful, wanking is wonderful. Believe it! Live it!. Read this ![]() Hi, I'm 66 years old and am in the UK. I had my first wank when I was just 10. I was lying in bed one Sunday morning with the radio playing some rock and roll music. As had started to happen a lot, being early morning my little cock was stiff and I couldn't keep my hand off it - I started rubbing it to the rhythm of the music on the radio and it felt pretty good. After a while suddenly it felt as though my cock had burst - a terrific intense feeling which was unexpected and very frightening - I must have damaged myself I thought. After A while I had a look - there was no blood or anything so i calmed down and have been doing it ever since. The following morning I went to school and told my little mate what I'd discovered. He and I had often played with each other's cocks and balls. He wanted to try it out for himself so off we went to the school toilets and I showed him what to do. From then on until we left school at 18 he and I regularly wanked each other. Several of my teenage mates often used to get together for a spot of 'mutual' - scout camp was the annual village lads wanking marathon with all sorts of wanking competitions to indulge in such as who could cum quickest, shoot furthest, etc. Terrific harmless fun. Nowadays having been married for 44 years and not having the same hardness as I used to have to penetrate my wife I have taken up the old 'sport' of masturbation again and thoroughly enjoy it - it's even better than sex! How I wish I could find another wanking buddy like I had in my teens to help me! Hank: Great story! As you say, terrific harmless fun. I hope the letter writer above reads this posting. ![]() About 15 years ago when I was about 50, I was diagnosed with E.D. (Limp Dick) I did not bother to take medication as I thought " well, I have had my family, my wife passed away and I really dont care". I never was much into it. Masturbation was only a weekly affair even when I was younger. About a year ago I woke up one morning with a rock hard erection, I barely touched myself and suddenly I came - first time for years. A few mornings later, same thing. Now I am masturbating two and sometimes three times a week and get a hard on more often. I don't discuss this with a doctor because I can't afford it (no medical insurance). It's great to be able to say this in an email (please don't publish my email address or last name). I found your site quite by accident and am thrilled to read all about 'wanking' as you call it as I have this sexual rebirth that has completely changed my life. I must admit that it's only wanking alone and I'm still not that interested in a relationship with anyone and besides an old man with no income is not prime dating, but I have taken a renewed interest in looking at pictures of naked women. I read the letters you publish about men looking for a 'wanking buddy' but I am far too afraid to go that route. Other than a brief encounter when I was a teenager, I have never had nor wanted to 'do it' with another man... although now I think I might if circumstances change and the opportunity arises but not anal or oral. Charles Ed: Charles, what great news!!! Your sexual recovery is amazing and a rare thing. I am thrilled to hear your good news and I'm sure many of our readers experiencing trouble with getting an erection will cheer up considerably, they can have hope again. Good luck with finding a wank partner, but you don't really need one - wanking is a personal thing and the whole point of it is you do it by yourself. Are there any other readers that have had the same experience? ![]() I joined your restricted area and I must say that its layout is really cool not all flashy and vulgar but comfy and fun to explore. And you have so much there that if I ever do get to see and read it all I will haven't forgotten it and have to start again. There are endless pics and stories and surprises. I have been coming - haha cumming - there for almost a year every few days for a wank and the other day I clicked a little graphic that I thought was just decoration and discovered a new wanking picture then I went back to the previous month and found more hidden pics, Now I have to go back through the previous years to see what I missed the first time around. I love it! If this were a computer game your secret little pics would be called 'easter eggs' I must say (although I would hate it if it happened) you should sell your website by the month like all the other adult sites. Each monthly issue is worth what I paid for a whole year. You may use this as a testimonial for others to help them decide to join. I highly recommend they join, gay, straight or bisexual you have it all. Ed: Thank you very much for your email and endorsement of our site. Hank does the HTML and other coding using only a text editor to write it. Hank designs and creates the graphics for the site. Our aim is to provide wanking material for old wankers and a place for our members who are proud to show you their private parts and post their stories. Wanking is what men do and it matters not a bit what their sexual preference is. The material here covers homosexual, heterosexual and bisexual voyuerism. What is does NOT contain is underaged, animal, forced sex (rape, etc.) or things we consider too gross too look at such as turd eating (watersports we can deal with, or at least I can, Hank still has problem with posting the pix - but then Hank is a bit of a prude anyways lol) and menstrating women (uck. I can't handle looking at those kind of pix either), but we do acknowledge that some people like those things and are welcome to find them on other websites, but not here. But just about every other kind of sexual fun is depicted here, somewhere... people of all ages, alone, with a friend and in groups. Men with men, women with women, men and women together and shemales. As you say there is a lot of stuff here - 10 years worth - there is stuff here that I haven't seen since we first posted it years ago and if I do see its like meeting an old friend. Hundreds of hours of wanking stuff for everyone. "You provide the kleenex and a hand and we'll do the rest!" that's our motto.
Hello Hank, Came across your site and seems I fit nicely into your criteria, as I am 67 and have been masturbating for 60 years. Still do, every day. Wanted to send in my story of a lifetime of masturbating, but I see the last entries seem to be for Nov-Dec of last year. Are you still in business?--William Hank: Yep William we are still here we just spend all our time wanking instead of working. We are the ultimate in 'laid back'. Send it in anyways it'll get posted sooner or later and appreciated by all the readers regardless of date.
Hi, My handle is "Donzed" and several years ago (probably in the late 90's) I sent you some pics that you posted. In those days you gave memberships to people who sent you pics that got posted. Do you still offer that perk? I do have some new pics, one of which is attached. -Donzed Hank: Sure we remember you, welcome back, in fact you never left... dig around in the archives, you're still there....... Yes we always need new pix and stories to share with the members. Keep em cumming and we'll do a monthly or bimonthly gallery for you.
Hi Editors: I just joined and would like to submit a few photos, but thought I read somewhere on the "outside" letters section that I would be required to send at least one that showed my face. My wife is onboard with my membership --in fact your letters opened up (only yesterday) a NEW and great communication between us regarding my wanking all these many years, and she is aware of my membership At 61 years old, I am now aware (and so is she) of all the old wankers that there really are. This is the first time I ever paid for any kind of membership. Anyway, I would share the entire story with the membership as well as a few pictures, but the "LINE" we (wife and I) will not cross is showing my identity, meaning my face. I am unsure where I should look for the answer to this question, as I know you don't answer individual emails (understandably), but will look for said answer in next month's edition. Thanks so very much for the site. It has opened up a whole new communication and end of hiding things between the woman I love and have been married to for 25 years. Our sex life is already better, and for that she is grateful to you as well. PLEASE DON'T USE MY REAL NAME. I am hiding this from the rest of the "Christian" world in the South (USA) in which we live, NOT from my wife. " a Newby" PS- If you do answer this by simply "replying", that will be 100% okay with me. This might be the first membership you ever got that was paid for with the wife's credit card. All of mine are Visa, and she has the MasterCard. It is so COOL to not be hiding a damned thing from her anymore. I love you guys. Thanks again. You may publish any part of this note, just not my name or face. The face is not pretty, but I have to live with it, and keep it secret. Thanks, K Hank: Thank you for your recent submission. It'll be up tomorrow. Delighted to hear that you and your wife are enjoying this together. The face part is not a requirement it's just that many people are turned on by looks and like to see who they are masturbating about. Regardless of how a person's face looks there are people who like them. As you look thru' our 1000s of pix you will naturally pick whoever turns you on as does everyone else and some of them are downright ugly by Hollywood standards but are still an enormous turn on for others. A personal example is myself and a woman's looks... I hate to make love to a woman wearing a lot of make up and highly made up women do nothing as far as turning me on. The last thing I feel like doing is kissing lipstick. But her natural looks can turn me on - including her wrinkles and blemishes. Besides.... imagination is the most important aspect of masturbation so we'll all imagine your face. Your hand and arm covered in soft black hair allows one to picture a mature rugged face, clean shaven with an abundance of smile wrinkles. Right? Paranoia is always a big problem with many men especially those within a close family circle and with community standing. Altho' we speak openly and freely about wanking it is a very personal act and still taboo to talk about or admit to for most 'normal' people. We keep all members information secret and offline.
Hi Hank, Alas, my old computer died on me, and with it my username and password. I had paid for a 2-year membership about 9 months ago. Can you help me out. I have the site for some six months. Because of my religious convictions I thought for some time I would try to forget about this site, and the 'bad' temptations it brings to me. But, frankly, I need the outlet [load popping] that always goes with each visit to your site. Please help me. I am 81 years old and mostly handicapped, so it is for certain that I need a lift - once a week, I hope. Hank: Hello here is the info.**** Sorry to hear about the conflicts with religious belief. I imagine that with all the really bad stuff going on in the world today the least concern your god must have is with your wanking habits, which when you consider the wonder of those few orgasmic seconds, it's really the greatest gift nature/god has given you... ![]()
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